A bit of a personal story. Sex was not happening because of condom issues. Which is a real pity because she was pretty much ready right then and there.
I have some issues here, with just feeling turned off when putting them on, and it only makes it worse to think about it, and then I'm limp in a second. I got nervous about being nervous , and that was it. I was down. She said she's not in the mood anymore. So we just lay there.
I told her I wanted a BJ and she said not tonight. She doesn't do that till later.
Then like a little kid I kind of teased her about it, because I felt a rejection. I think she picked up on my disappointment.
I felt the whole thing ended on a bit of a sour note. I kind of felt she was being a bit of bitch, but perhaps she had a valid point of view about her own boundaries and sexuality. I know I would like to please my girl, but she didn't want to please me.
any thoughts on condoms and dealing with testing / rejection in bed?
I have some issues here, with just feeling turned off when putting them on, and it only makes it worse to think about it, and then I'm limp in a second. I got nervous about being nervous , and that was it. I was down. She said she's not in the mood anymore. So we just lay there.
I told her I wanted a BJ and she said not tonight. She doesn't do that till later.
Then like a little kid I kind of teased her about it, because I felt a rejection. I think she picked up on my disappointment.
I felt the whole thing ended on a bit of a sour note. I kind of felt she was being a bit of bitch, but perhaps she had a valid point of view about her own boundaries and sexuality. I know I would like to please my girl, but she didn't want to please me.
any thoughts on condoms and dealing with testing / rejection in bed?
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