I can hold my liquor pretty well - I don't turn into an idiot or get sick easily - but my game turns to shit after 3 drinks or so. Last night I blew a layup girl who opened me when I was 5 drinks in because I was too drunk to converse well.
Where I'm at in London, people like to get super drunk in bars, and its customary to take turns buying rounds. This is especially true when I go out with colleagues in finance who have no qualms about running up large bar tabs and need to get drunk before approaching girls.
Generally one of the following will happen:
1. I get to the bar first and have to offer to buy a round. If I only buy myself a beer, I look like a cheap asshole.
2. Someone goes to the bar and gets the first round. I can't turn down the offer of a "free" beer and not start drinking when everyone else starts drinking, then buy my own beer later.
Any suggestions on how to tactfully break out of this cycle of buying rounds of drinks?
Edit: I should clarify that I don't really care what my colleagues think from a self-esteem perspective, but as some of these colleagues are my superiors, it is important to have them think well of me.
Where I'm at in London, people like to get super drunk in bars, and its customary to take turns buying rounds. This is especially true when I go out with colleagues in finance who have no qualms about running up large bar tabs and need to get drunk before approaching girls.
Generally one of the following will happen:
1. I get to the bar first and have to offer to buy a round. If I only buy myself a beer, I look like a cheap asshole.
2. Someone goes to the bar and gets the first round. I can't turn down the offer of a "free" beer and not start drinking when everyone else starts drinking, then buy my own beer later.
Any suggestions on how to tactfully break out of this cycle of buying rounds of drinks?
Edit: I should clarify that I don't really care what my colleagues think from a self-esteem perspective, but as some of these colleagues are my superiors, it is important to have them think well of me.