So yesterday i was approaching the whole day like crazy..things were not working so well, to my surprise, the hottest girl (9 in my book) i approached was the one that showed a lot of interest. She was from north of England and was visiting her boyfriend here in London. She took my number and told me she would contact me later in the day. When she called me in the night, we were talking about different stuff and i asked her if she does any sports; She said she plays basketball and asked me if i practise any sports, i told her that i practise muay thai and Judo..she then asked me..are you a violent person?
This is not the first time a girl asked me this. I usually don't want to tell them that I am not a violent person because this will make them think that I am a goodie goodie and that I am a passive person. I also don't want to tell them that I am a violent person because this may scare them away. So i use a middle response. I told her ''Well, it depends, i can be very aggressive if the situation asks me to be aggressive, I can also be mr nice guy, i respond according to my surroundings, so it really depends'' She was like ''oh ok, it is good that you are saying the truth, some guys will just say that they are not violent when they are''
Today i was talking to her again..I am leaving the country real soon, i was telling her that I wanted to see her before I leave. She told me I could go see her where she lives and we could hang out for the day...I asked her: ''Can you sleep out''? She was like ''well i just met you, I don't want to take the risk of staying out with a stranger, I don't know what you are like'' I was like ''well it aint like I meet people to kidnap them'' she was like ''I dont know, I prefer not to take risks but we can spend the day here if you want'' (she also said she was babysitting her niece for the night so she can't really sleep out).
I thought to myself fuck this..aint no way I am going all the way there and I am not even sure if I am getting the bang. I was wondering if my response to her ''are you violent'' question has anything to do with her reaction about sleeping out, maybe i could have given a softer response.
When a girl asks you if you are violent, what do you tell them?
This is not the first time a girl asked me this. I usually don't want to tell them that I am not a violent person because this will make them think that I am a goodie goodie and that I am a passive person. I also don't want to tell them that I am a violent person because this may scare them away. So i use a middle response. I told her ''Well, it depends, i can be very aggressive if the situation asks me to be aggressive, I can also be mr nice guy, i respond according to my surroundings, so it really depends'' She was like ''oh ok, it is good that you are saying the truth, some guys will just say that they are not violent when they are''
Today i was talking to her again..I am leaving the country real soon, i was telling her that I wanted to see her before I leave. She told me I could go see her where she lives and we could hang out for the day...I asked her: ''Can you sleep out''? She was like ''well i just met you, I don't want to take the risk of staying out with a stranger, I don't know what you are like'' I was like ''well it aint like I meet people to kidnap them'' she was like ''I dont know, I prefer not to take risks but we can spend the day here if you want'' (she also said she was babysitting her niece for the night so she can't really sleep out).
I thought to myself fuck this..aint no way I am going all the way there and I am not even sure if I am getting the bang. I was wondering if my response to her ''are you violent'' question has anything to do with her reaction about sleeping out, maybe i could have given a softer response.
When a girl asks you if you are violent, what do you tell them?