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Getting laid at University
#26

Getting laid at University

Being out of undergrad now for a few years, I've thought about what I could have done differently if I knew then what I knew now. These are a couple things that come to mind.
Firstly, logistics. A lot of people have already said this, and I have to agree. Similar to Tuth's First Date Bang Recipe, it's important to have your room stocked with booze so that you have a reason to pull the girl to your room. Also, know how to make a cool cocktail. A good one is the Old Fashioned, but there's tons of simple things to make. It's likely no one is serving anything but jello shooters, Old Mill cans, and tequila shots, so by offering something like this, you are putting yourself way ahead of all the other guys. An important thing about this is you have to sell it and be confident. If you're fumbling around and being nervous taking the girl back, making her a drink, etc. she may pick up on that. This is always going to happen when you're a rookie. The fact that she will likely be almost blackout however helps.
Anyways, if you're worried about the effects of booze like hangovers and looking like shit, just don't get annihilated every night. Drink something that isn't going to kill you, or just don't drink until you're blackout. You have to establish what the priority is: getting ripped, or getting notches. If you are looking for notches, don't be shotgunning beers all night. Simple. You should have your wits about you. It will help, because again you'll be the one of the few coherent guys there, and that will help with the girls. By all means though, get wrecked a couple times. But just remember what your priority is for that night.
In the day time, there's two things. First, get out of your room and do some activities. Meet some people, and build a social circle. Be that guy who knows of parties here, parties there, etc.
Secondly, lift and run. Try to stay in shape. You won't have class, so there's no excuse why you can't get a workout in. A routine that has worked in the last for me is lifting around 2:30 or 3, get home around 3:30 or 4, have a big protein meal, then start getting ready for the night. You'll feel like a million bucks after your workout, your muscles will be pumped, and chicks will notice.
Have fun with it! You likely won't be in another situation like this, unless you go to another school or something. Enjoy it.

'Logic Over Emotion Since 2013'
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#27

Getting laid at University

I just started university and I can say game is definitely required. I have excellent logistics, a lot of free time, a university with tons of girls (60% female, over 20k students) a bit of money but my game and the fact I don't know many people is limiting me. I am meeting new people every day and doing nightgame but maybe I should try meeting girls in daytime societies instead. I am also not in shape like I once was and need to grow some muscle.
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#28

Getting laid at University

Quote: (08-09-2013 12:01 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

"The nights when I was just being social and enjoying myself were the nights that shit just seem to happen for me."

Truth man, when you're having the most fun and enjoying everyone's company girls are magnetically attracted to you, as is everyone else. The night's when you beat yourself up or can't atop thinking about the next notch is when you start getting desperate and act incongruent with your truw self.

There might be two sides to this. Where I am, there are a lot of guys who are open when it comes to having fun, they are pretty loud, always making jokes and up for a huge night out. But less than 20% of them will even engage a girl for that night. They are so caught up with the drinking and the dancing with their guy friends that girls become irrelevant.

To the OP, being new to uni, if you are interested in meeting girls, it might be a good idea to bring one more of the girls you are interested in with you to the clubs. For that, you must have actively expanded your social circle during the day. Random girls are definitely not going to come to you just because you are having fun in the club, the minority which do, do so very indirectly (and this is only if your social group has girls and guys who they perceive as of equal or higher value to them) and even then you must put in the effort to approach her just like anywhere else, except now you would be more drunk and less aware of the situation around you and in a very loud environment.
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#29

Getting laid at University

Game doesn't exist in the pure sense in school. It's definitely necessary to have some to get bangs, but most of college is all about social circle game. Cold approaching just isn't as effective as it is in the real world for a variety of reasons.
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