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You guys have to see the look on these women's faces
09-24-2010, 03:16 PM
Yeah I'm familiar with Paul Janka and have seen this clip from Dr. Douche's show before, Janka is a decently well known PUA and tries to market and sell his shit, but seems to be a little more focused on profiting then actually offering decent free advice like Roosh or Entropy.
Janka has some good advice, but I agree with Speakeasy about how, specifically the "get in and get out" strategy of getting phone numbers will only work well for someone with really strong game, but especially good looks. Janka has tried to downplay his looks and I've heard/read him say that he's just a little better than average, but I think most women would find this guy very attractive, esp. considering he is tall, well groomed, and has what many women might consider a "classically handsome look".
If you're short, over weight, bald, unattractive, etc., this will make you chances much harder, always. The necessity for tight game will always be higher, and you'll need to have built a much stronger rapport/connection with a girl for her to not flake on you, esp. this day in age. In a place like NYC, I'm sure there are a bunch of horny, single, sexually open women that are down to do one night stands with a guy like Janka. But, I can't really seeing that fly so much in a smaller-mid sized town for an avg. looking guy with good game. Also, that particular approach is also geared towards "running the numbers game", which can work, but IMHO isn't as effective or worthwhile as developing a smaller number of good prospects, that you can actually remember and keep track of.
Paul does know what he's talking about though when it comes to stuff that he didn't really elaborate so much on in the video. Specifically confidence projected through body language, eye contact, and kino, as well as just projecting a chill, open vibe, like you're not too try hard. You can tell he also has good inner game, because he has an "attitude of abundance" when it comes to women, he doesn't give a fuck, and is non-needy, because he knows that there are plenty of other fish in the sea, and he will catch one. Women are naturally attracted to guys that don't give a fuck, especially when they are good with women, and have lot's of options. Women are not attracted to guys that have no options, because in their eyes they have low social value. This is often observed, but once you're good with women and have lot's of options for different women to have sex with, you project this certain "vibe" that women intuitively can pick up on, unfortunately this is not something that you can fake, and it's really hard to quantify, and qualify.
Final thought, women can be such self-righteous, hypocritical whores sometimes, they act all shocked and surprised by Janka when he tells it like it is and talks about how many women he's been with, but they themselves have all been pumped and dumped by a guy like Janka and continue to do so. Then they act all fucking uppity and shit when he tells it like it is, like they never been double teamed by two players on a one night stand before.