An Icelandic woman's thoughts on American women after having lived here for 15 years
10-11-2010, 05:47 PM
@ Renn Man: I agree with you that these girls from the old school do have more respect for a guy who might not be a Brad Pitt look alike but has a stable career and life. They see this stability as attractive because in places (Russia, Brazil, parts of Africa, or Asia) it's not unusual to see the male basically absent in his families life..even when he is there he isn't really there. Anyhow that is a different story. I do think that these women are better to settle down with but you also have to take it into context.
@Playa: I whole heartedly agree with your statement of a beta is a beta is a beta. Right on. As a matter of fact, you need to be even less of a beta bitch when you have women from certain cultures. Many have def. seen men hit their moms growing up and probably were slapped atleast once or twive by an ex bf. Now we cannot really do that here, but you do def. need to occassionaly let her know who's boss.
I agree with both of you that the relative attractiveness thing is important. If you are 35 and the girl is 25-30 something, but you are a decent looking guy, fairly fit, sociable, employed and not a complete beta pussy then sure it can work out just fine. As I said I know plenty of people like this. They didn't go for the foreign dime that is a 10 when they are a 4. They didn't go for the girl 20 years younger than them. They met girls that they knew about the culture and explored and researched. They are just fine.
On the flip side....remember if you are 65 and fat why do you think you deserve a hot 10 from Colombia who is 25 and no kids? Is it your charm? Your wrinkled old dick? Think about it dudes. I met some guys in Colombia who were only 30 something, but still lived in mom's basement, had no fashion sense at all, no game, were into video games way too much, complete social fucking idiots and of course there is some chick that is a 6 (5 points more than he can fuck in USA or UK) that will marry this beta and come here to find that there is another 5-6 of a dude that has his own apartment, own car and enough doe to buy her a margarita ...she's out for the 6 simple as that.
@Playa: I whole heartedly agree with your statement of a beta is a beta is a beta. Right on. As a matter of fact, you need to be even less of a beta bitch when you have women from certain cultures. Many have def. seen men hit their moms growing up and probably were slapped atleast once or twive by an ex bf. Now we cannot really do that here, but you do def. need to occassionaly let her know who's boss.
I agree with both of you that the relative attractiveness thing is important. If you are 35 and the girl is 25-30 something, but you are a decent looking guy, fairly fit, sociable, employed and not a complete beta pussy then sure it can work out just fine. As I said I know plenty of people like this. They didn't go for the foreign dime that is a 10 when they are a 4. They didn't go for the girl 20 years younger than them. They met girls that they knew about the culture and explored and researched. They are just fine.
On the flip side....remember if you are 65 and fat why do you think you deserve a hot 10 from Colombia who is 25 and no kids? Is it your charm? Your wrinkled old dick? Think about it dudes. I met some guys in Colombia who were only 30 something, but still lived in mom's basement, had no fashion sense at all, no game, were into video games way too much, complete social fucking idiots and of course there is some chick that is a 6 (5 points more than he can fuck in USA or UK) that will marry this beta and come here to find that there is another 5-6 of a dude that has his own apartment, own car and enough doe to buy her a margarita ...she's out for the 6 simple as that.