[OGNorCal707]

What up everyone, just curious if many of the players on here have had to deal with crazy, clingy, and pocessive women? I'm assuming the answer is yes, and I wonder how you guys deal with it? Being an AFC for so long, I never really dealt with many crazy obcessive chicks, but recently as I've improved in the game I have encountered a few girls that have made me be like WTF, these chicks are fucking crazy.

First there was this 30 year old Mexican chick I banged at a dub-step warehouse party in SF earlier in the summer, she told me she had a boyfriend, so I figured even if I got her number and followed up with to set up a FWB situation, there wouldn't be many strings attached. She gave me her number and I texted her saying if I'm ever in the Bay let's link, etc., but then she started texting me every day, then calling, and emailing, etc. If I didn't respond to her text, after 20 mins, she'd text again, being like "WTF why are you ignoring me, I miss you, I need you, etc." Shit like that and freaking out when I told her I was seeing another girl. I probably should have put her in her place in the most calm and collective way, but at the time I wasn't getting any ass on the reg and thought I should keep in touch with her to have a booty call for when I go to SF. Anyways to make a long story short, I basically told her honestly where I was at, and she kind of freaked out again, and after that I haven't checked or responded to any of her texts, calls, or emails which she still sends after 2 months of me just straight up ignoring her.

Now recently, I just met this girl here in my town, who is pretty cool and attractive (8) by this town's standards, but she's already acting like a crazy, pocessive, obcesssive bitch. She calls or texts me every day, has freaked out when I told her I just wanted to go to the beach with my friend from out of town, and chill with her later in the day. Now she's joking about us having kids, and alluding to us dating, and being BF/GF, but this is only after one date and night of drunk sex. I told her that I was going to SE Asia this winter for 3 months and she's already saying that she wants to go with me, and was all tripping like "you're going to go there and find a new girlfriend, and ditch me, blah, blah."

Well basically why I'm tripping is this chick is moving waaaay too fast and trying to lock up my cock and calls in a case, and lay her claim to me, plus all the talk of traveling with me and babies, after only 1 date...? I'm already seeing another girl on the reg, and while she isn't as hot she's way chiller, cooler, and more on the same vibe as far as the dating thing. Part of me is telling me that I'm walking into a trap or dealing with a ticking time bomb with this new crazy chick. But... I'm liking the variety of pussy, this girl is hotter, and will help me DHV with other girls that will see me around, and as an added bonus she gives great head and swallows my nut.

Anyways, what are your guys thoughts, is it even worth it to deal with a girl like this?

[thegmanifesto]

OGNorCal707,

" freaking out when I told her I was seeing another girl. "

Always a bad move. Girls freak out when you tell them this.

You need to "cool out" girls.

Read this one, How to Un-Pick up Girls: http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2009/07/how...girls.html

[kerouac]

The rational part of your brain is already giving you hints that you should watch out with these girls. I always regretted it when I tried to outsmart myself. If you are sensing something is wrong, listen to what you're already telling yourself, because the answer is already there.

This girl who is an 8 might be cuter than other girls, and while that may be appealing right now, that 8 won't look like an 8 after you've been with her for a while, and you'll want to move on, but you can't because she'll turn out to be a crazy psycho bitch who plays any game she can to keep you.

Trust me, I've been there. I wouldn't recommend it to anybody.

When it comes to Long Term, I think personality/sanity outshine whatever value you give her looks in the early stages.

Otherwise, stay away from these types of girls and if your goal is to hook up, just find the ones that are cool with just hooking up. They are definitely out there.

[Feo]

If you think they are crazy now, it gets a lot worse. Wait until they add everyone of your female friends on facebook or steal your stuff so that you have to see them again and refuse to leave your place. Some girls will take it to the next level bro.

But they're good for all those porno moves you've been wanting to try out. I'd say stay away but you have to experience it for yourself.

[speakeasy]

(09-13-2010 05:08 PM)feomuerto Wrote:  

If you think they are crazy now, it gets a lot worse. Wait until they add everyone of your female friends on facebook.

I've had that before. Gotta be careful with the facebook thing.

I guess if you wanted a sure fire way, you could always force a girl to lose interest by acting intentionally creepy. If there's anything that will turn off ALL women clingy ones or not, it's creepiness. Tell her you used to be cruel to small animals as a kid and you still kinda get off on it. Start emailing her shock videos like 2 girls 1 cup then say how you think that shit is so hot. Of course make sure the girl has no connections to your social circle so that doesn't get around. That might be taking it to the extreme, but that should get 99% of women off your ass.