[Ternarydemonite]

I have been texting this girl I met via POF three weeks ago. She called me weird a couple times by text and on a phone conversation. She seemed to use the word in a cheerful manner and I don´t recall fucking it up.

No, the issue arising here is, what does it means when a girl calls you "weird"?

Is it a shit-test?
An IOD?
An IOI?

[MidniteSpecial]

Agree and amplify.

"The weirdest"

"If you only knew"

"I actually won an award for weirdest in the state."

Or ask her if she wants to get weird with you.

I love getting weird.

[JayRock604]

Really depends on the context. When she hears me talking to a dog in baby speak and says "oh my god your so weird" with a little smirk it's generally good. When I'm talking about how I took a year off work to play world of Warcraft in my parents basement (just an example ) and she cringes and says "you are so weird" that's usually a bad sign...
But yes definitely agree and amplify, dont over think it my brother.
Cheers

[WestIndianArchie]

(07-11-2013 06:01 PM)Ternarydemonite Wrote:  

I have been texting this girl I met via POF three weeks ago. She called me weird a couple times by text and on a phone conversation. She seemed to use the word in a cheerful manner and I don´t recall fucking it up.

No, the issue arising here is, what does it means when a girl calls you "weird"?

Is it a shit-test?
An IOD?
An IOI?

You might be weird.

But more importantly, you're trying to analyze a chick through her text messages.

Get her out. In the mean time, meet some chicks in meat-space.

WIA

[rivelino]

"I have been texting this girl I met via POF three weeks ago."

yeah the main issue is that you've been spending too much time texting with her.

why haven't you two met up for coffee yet?

[Ternarydemonite]

Just using her for text practice, too chubby to be worth of any physical value or investment.

[rivelino]

ha! hilarious.

[AntiTrace]

Im with midnight, agree and amplify. And most of the time being called weird is a good thing.

Own that shit. I remember a talk show host, Jason Ellis i think, that talks about accepting and owning your faults and they can never be used against you.

Jason - "Yeah Ive kissed a man before, right on the mouth, full fucking tongue"
Dude - "Hey guys, this dude kissed another dude!"
Jason - "No shit motherfucker, I just told you that. You need some new material clown"

For some reason I find it hilarious to bark at dogs I see in parked cars. Sometimes I play out a conversation in my head as we bark back and forth at each other.

"Anti quit barking at dogs, your so weird" - female
"You shouldve heard what he said about you. I was defending your honor, no punk dog is gonna talk about my bitch like that. Are you always this ungrateful?"

[Ternarydemonite]

It fizzled out. I built initial atraction and suspense but since I never asked her out, she doesn't respond to calls or texts. The expected outcome.

Anyway, I think it is an appropriate strategy to agree and amplify. I've been called weird by another couple of HBs, amplified it, and at least it hasn't made any negative impact.