[RickyGP]

Hey guys,
So this has been bugging me for a bit, and since I'm still somewhat of a newb its something I will encounter again.

Last year in my last semester of college. We have known each other for a bit and were working on a project together after traveling in a group.

One night we went to a Jamba juice, and just chatted about random things.

Didn't think she was interested since she was fucking two other dudes, and even made out with one in front of me.

But she drives me to my house. I ask her if she wants a beer, and she comes right in.

Then she asks "Can I see the inside of your room?"

I allow her take a peak. She looks for 10 seconds and drives to her place.

Was that a missed opportunity? If so, I think the white-knight/beta inside of me won that night...

[Sketness]

(07-11-2013 01:49 AM)RickyGP Wrote:  

Hey guys,
So this has been bugging me for a bit, and since I'm still somewhat of a newb its something I will encounter again.

Last year in my last semester of college. We have known each other for a bit and were working on a project together after traveling in a group.

One night we went to a Jamba juice, and just chatted about random things.

Didn't think she was interested since she was fucking two other dudes, and even made out with one in front of me.

But she drives me to my house. I ask her if she wants a beer, and she comes right in.

Then she asks "Can I see the inside of your room?"

I allow her take a peak. She looks for 10 seconds and drives to her place.

Was that a missed opportunity? If so, I think the white-knight/beta inside of me won that night...

For the fact that she is fucking two other dudes and made out with a guy in front of you it seams like this chick is a slut. By her stating that she wanted to 'see' your room she wanted to fuck. You gotta understand, girls just can't come out and say "you want to fuck?" they have to talk around the subject and hint at what they want. Think about it in this way, say you want a raise at work, so you go to your boss, but you don't just straight out ask him for a raise, you talk around the subject hinting at what you really want to say. You say things like, 'I would like to take on more responsibility' and 'how can I improve as an employee?' you see how you don't just come out and ask for the raise you imply it. Its the same way with bitches, that girl (I assume) wanted to fuck, she just couldn't come out and say it. Think about it, why would she want to see the inside of your room? Is she a interior designer? probably not. Anyway, you live and you learn man. Next time you'll see the signs more clearly

[username]

I 100% agree with what Sketness said. Also, always assume she wants the D especially when she says something like wanting to see your bedroom. That was your time to act.

Once she is in your bedroom the last big hurdle is getting her on your bed. Notice that I said on your bed and not in your bed, get her to be anywhere on the bed. If you would have just walked into your room and sat on the edge of your bed with a space for her she would likely sit right next to you. If not, I would say something like "I have the most comfortable bed in the world, what do you think?" She will probably sit or lay down. Then you wait a little bit, whatever seems right but not too quick to drive her away instantly or too long to give her time to think too much, and then go for the kiss. If she doesn't run out of the room when you try to kiss her then it's 90%+ chance you will bang her.

[tiggaling]

[pitt]

No she wasn't interested.

[Nascimento]

All girls want to have sex.

If its not with you, you have something to work on, chin up.

[Hotwheels]

Assume the sale.

"I want to see your bedroom"

Lead her in and throw her on the bed.

[JayRock604]

Please tell me this is a troll...

[RickyGP]

(07-11-2013 09:52 AM)JayRock604 Wrote:  

Please tell me this is a troll...

No, not a troll. Just a newbie looking back on an obviously missed opportunity.

So I give myself a:

[JayRock604]

My Post sounded condescending then bro my bad. Looking back on my former endeavers is a constant face palm too man haha. I just repress them as best I can. But, in case you didn't know, the answer was yes, she wanted the d. Essentially if they are down to take a foot into your room rather then just stand at the door, it's essentially game on. I'm pretty sure I remember that from Bang if I'm remembering correcty though I could have read it on the forum I'm unsure