[Teddykgb]

I let this girl i'm hanging out with leave her dog at my place over night and I decided to take it walking outside my condo building. Walk past this girl just sitting on the bench and sit down and start talking with her.

I told her I wanted to use her phone and call my friend. I then call my number on her phone and tell her I will call her sometime. She tells me she works at the restaurant right next to my building and come by sometime.

How do I proceed?

I figure I will wait until next sunday night or monday night since I'm going camping anyway and I dont want to come off too needy. I text her once I got back to my condo saying "have fun with the crazy customers tonight". (she is working 4th of july at her restaurant.

Do I go into her work solo and eat dinner while trying to get to know her or do I try to work the text game and see if she will see me outside of work?

[daygame]

I have a similar situation right now only that I don't even have the digits yet... I plan to gather my coolest bromingos for a dinner among us, treat the waitress in a normal way, and at the end ask her to write down her number for me.
Given that you have her number, I don't see how having a dinner there will help you with attraction. If you go eating there only to have a chance to see her, sounds like the beta'est idea ever

[WestIndianArchie]

Waitress says come to my restaurant to get a chance to holler at me.

Pass. There are millions of chicks out there that will be down to do something w/o having you meet and be rated by their work friends.

But I see that you're a newb and you're thirsty.

Let's see if I can make the situation more real.

You've got a buddy from high school. Turns out this buddy of yours is selling something. (it's probably Amway, but he was kinda Nerdy, maybe he's developing a cool iPhone app).

If he gets you alone, you might cave. If nothing at all it will be awkward.

If you tell him to come meet you at the sports bar with your and all of your friends, where you can chat with other folks while he tries to bend your ear - in other words - YOU'LL HAVE NO PROBLEM BLOWING HIM OFF.

^this is the situation.

She's handed you a lottery ticket with objectively poor odds. She's setting up a situation where you're coming from weakness.

What you have to do is
1) hold her attention over her boss, co-workers, and customers
2) you will probably fork over some money to the establishment via buying food/liquor, and possibly a tip, a tip to her.

^that's what she thinks is going to happen, consciously or unconsciously.

But you want some Hollywood shit.
You want some reality porn shit.
You want some Jedi Knight Mind Tricks shit.

If she's so hot, and you're so thirsty - you can't show up to this place on the solo and grab a seat at the bar and hope you get her attention. You're going to end up watching sports center and nursing a beer (and please tell me they have TV and beer - if she works @ French Cafe, you're gonna be wondering why you're ordering shit you can't pronounce. "Yo Garcon, fuck is a Nicoise?")

Turning up stag, That's a beta move.

You need props, human props. Pawns to move around the chess board.

If you're really trying to get at this chick, the power move is to bring three hot chicks, sit in her section, and have them judge her to see if she's good enough for you.

Failing that, call up your bro's for an impromptu entourage session. You, Turtle, E, and Vince are going to have to turn your booth in the place to be in her little spot - and she's going to have to gain your attention, plus she gets to see you hold court. They can't be 3 dorks talking about new Call of Duty strategies.

A strong beta/weak alpha move involves bringing a Puppy - or something that garners attention from all the chicks there - but I've always found that type of thing sends the wrong message. I don't have a dog, but I might have a bitch.

Coming through that bitch with just your lonesome, expecting her attention, and then trying to game her while she makes her money - Son, if you had that kinda game, you wouldn't be asking this question.

fake it till you make it.

WIA

[JayD]

Haha nice one WIA.

You fucked it up with the first text. What was her reply?

Invite her for drinks - not at her restaurant.

[Teddykgb]

(07-04-2013 10:14 PM)JayD Wrote:  

Haha nice one WIA.

You fucked it up with the first text. What was her reply?

Invite her for drinks - not at her restaurant.

She replied back a few hours later with "I work at two restaurants"

Then followed up with "Sorry that was meant for someone else. But it was a lot busier than expected"

That was last night and I haven't responded yet. I will probably wait until later today.

.....