Tonight I had a party at my house and a girl who I have banged in the past month came over with some friends. We had previously talked on the phone and she was worried I would be mad at her because she wasnt ready to date me. I told her I didnt care about that and we could still be friends or if she didnt want to see me again I understood (all in an aloof manner, no jealousy or anger) and she was delighted that I was being so cool about it. So she comes over and we dance, kiss, whatever. Theres a lot of people here so Im socializing and not giving her a lot of attention. Just every now and then. Eventually I was dancing with a girl who I am just friends with, who is somewhat attractive, and either she noticed right away or she was already dancing with some random dude when I looked up. I witnessed her kiss this dude moments later, but didnt say anything. Acted cool. Kept dancing and eventually was just talking to the girl I was dancing with and girl I invited over comes in the kitchen and starts getting all over another dude right in front of us. I laughed it off and didnt make any big deal of it, but it made me furious. I feel like I was disrespected in my own house. I think I should have had the right to put this slut in her place. I know shes a slut, but she cant get on other dudes in front of me in my house. How would you have reacted? Aloof or put this bitch in her place?
When can I put a woman in her place?
Calling out a girl does nothing. Women love any attention, only effective "punishment" is indifference because indifference towards a woman is like you wasting your time on a superflirt who wastes your time but leaves you with blue balls - it's cruel and effective. And why do you care about this particular girl? I get a feeling you didn't bang that girl you were dancing with and that's because you were focused on your oneitis, and she saw you dancing with another girl so she figured you didn't want to bang her anymore - if she merely wanted to make you jealous she wouldn't have banged a guy in front of you because she would be just focused on making you jealous and not on banging him. You already banged her, move on and bang other girls.
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It's the Fourth of July. Instead of concentrating on a woman, think about the Founding Fathers. And think that they were brilliant. Then think they did not let women vote....not because they weren't "enlightened" but because they possessed wisdom beyond what we have now.
Getting angry with women for behavior that's over-the-top rude is a waste of energy. If you get pissed at a guy, you can fight and/or work it out. If you get angry with a child, the child can learn something. But if you get irate at a woman, you're playing into what Mental said (above): you're giving her the attention she craves. Doesn't matter if it's good or bad. Men make such distinctions; women don't. Lots of them are about the drama and attention. There is a reason they watch soap operas and men don't. You just experienced the reason.
Like all of us, you were sold a false bill of goods by the school system and expect women to behave like men would (a guy most likely would not do this to a woman). But even men don't act like men used to these days.
I can totally understand you getting pissed at behavior such as hers, which crosses every line of polite society and then some. (I once had a similar thing happen at a sorority formal with the girl who took me.) But keep in mind that if you vent, you give her power by letting her know she controls your emotions. The time to get pissed at a woman is if you're married and have kids and responsibilities; not when you just banged them once.
Instead, concentrate on the positive. You already knew you both weren't going to go out. Now you know she has no scruples or conscience, so you can keep her in reserve as an occasional fuck-buddy or blow job buddy and not have any guilt over it. IMO this was the message she was really sending. Why else flaunt it? Possibly to make you jealous, but doesn't that signify behavior more immature than anyone you'd want to be serious with? You'd really want to put up with this? Have fun with her on occasion and be glad you didn't hitch yourself to this train wreck.
What you might think to be angry at is whomever it was who came up with the idea that such creatures should be taking up so many seats in our colleges and should be our bosses and in our military. It wasn't good old Tommy Jefferson, that's for sure.
Getting angry with women for behavior that's over-the-top rude is a waste of energy. If you get pissed at a guy, you can fight and/or work it out. If you get angry with a child, the child can learn something. But if you get irate at a woman, you're playing into what Mental said (above): you're giving her the attention she craves. Doesn't matter if it's good or bad. Men make such distinctions; women don't. Lots of them are about the drama and attention. There is a reason they watch soap operas and men don't. You just experienced the reason.
Like all of us, you were sold a false bill of goods by the school system and expect women to behave like men would (a guy most likely would not do this to a woman). But even men don't act like men used to these days.
I can totally understand you getting pissed at behavior such as hers, which crosses every line of polite society and then some. (I once had a similar thing happen at a sorority formal with the girl who took me.) But keep in mind that if you vent, you give her power by letting her know she controls your emotions. The time to get pissed at a woman is if you're married and have kids and responsibilities; not when you just banged them once.
Instead, concentrate on the positive. You already knew you both weren't going to go out. Now you know she has no scruples or conscience, so you can keep her in reserve as an occasional fuck-buddy or blow job buddy and not have any guilt over it. IMO this was the message she was really sending. Why else flaunt it? Possibly to make you jealous, but doesn't that signify behavior more immature than anyone you'd want to be serious with? You'd really want to put up with this? Have fun with her on occasion and be glad you didn't hitch yourself to this train wreck.
What you might think to be angry at is whomever it was who came up with the idea that such creatures should be taking up so many seats in our colleges and should be our bosses and in our military. It wasn't good old Tommy Jefferson, that's for sure.
Looking for an opportunity to call out a woman and you're a try-hard which will just make the interaction... weird.
Were the guys your friend? If yes, you should have taken her to the toilet and fucked her right there and then invite your friends to bang her too. Treat a slut like a slut.
"Anything goes when it comes to Ho's". My mom taught me that at 15. Women feed off of your emotions. And if you don't give them any to feed off of the hamster will run amok. Its like a sensory deprivation chamber for the Rationalization Hamster. Women can deal will being loathed, but the can't take being irrelevant.
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I understand the part about not giving her a bunch of attention and letting her mess with my emotions. I played it cool all night and kept talking/dancing with different girls. Just curious if I handled it correctly. Kinda seems like she was testing me to see if Im a pussy, or a man who wont take that kind of shit from a girl. Part of me wanted to get pissed and blow up on her, and another part just wanted to grab her and start kissing her to show everyone shes mine. Either way Im gonna try to make her a fuck buddy, definitely not dating this girl.
You already banged her. Is she that amazing? I doubt it. Don't make it your serious intent to make her your anything, including your fuck buddy. Hit her up casually when you're already spinning other plates. If you respond with anything more serious than a smirk if she brushes you off, then you were infatuated with a girl you barely knew.
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