Would love advice/thoughts on this as I'm a bit on the fence as to how to approach this.
I'll keep it brief:
- Met a cool gay guy (fellow Irishman) outside a bar in Chi.
- He introduced me to a girl (babe!) ad we hit I off.
- she was flirty, attractive and seems real cool
- hung out for an hour or so. For her number, said we'd hang out again.
- text her and she was chatty and we said when I get back from my week away we'd meet for sushi
- came back from week away, text her and she is being flakey, "busy at work" blah
- recently spoke to the Irish guy and will be hanging out with him Monday. I dont know and havent asked if she will be there. I like the guy so looking forward to hanging with him regardless.
- last thing I said to girl was "text me sometime if you want to go then" so it's in her court and I will look despo if I text again. It was bad game, I know.
So how should I approach the situation do you think? I liked her a lot and still want that date but obvs chasing would be a bad idea I think.
I suspect I will hang out with the guy a few times as we got a long very well. He is very old friends with her so I am sure I will bump into her also.
Be aloof?
Not mention anything to the guy? What if he asks?
Do I mention it at all if I do end up seeing her? What of she brings it up?
Thanks for any thoughts. I was a bit weak on this one!
J
I'll keep it brief:
- Met a cool gay guy (fellow Irishman) outside a bar in Chi.
- He introduced me to a girl (babe!) ad we hit I off.
- she was flirty, attractive and seems real cool
- hung out for an hour or so. For her number, said we'd hang out again.
- text her and she was chatty and we said when I get back from my week away we'd meet for sushi
- came back from week away, text her and she is being flakey, "busy at work" blah
- recently spoke to the Irish guy and will be hanging out with him Monday. I dont know and havent asked if she will be there. I like the guy so looking forward to hanging with him regardless.
- last thing I said to girl was "text me sometime if you want to go then" so it's in her court and I will look despo if I text again. It was bad game, I know.
So how should I approach the situation do you think? I liked her a lot and still want that date but obvs chasing would be a bad idea I think.
I suspect I will hang out with the guy a few times as we got a long very well. He is very old friends with her so I am sure I will bump into her also.
Be aloof?
Not mention anything to the guy? What if he asks?
Do I mention it at all if I do end up seeing her? What of she brings it up?
Thanks for any thoughts. I was a bit weak on this one!
J