Very valid points Prosal
Quote: (06-28-2013 09:39 AM)Prosal Wrote:
Big city girls are different than country girls, who often marry younger, have a stronger "morality" as well as a more earnest desire to find a good provider. Big city girls on the contrary are generally quite wild, cosmopolite and want to experience life at its fullest. Also the hottest girls (the local "high value targets") in small towns usually do not want to be seen making out or holding hands with a foreigner. They may see this as a loss of status if the local "eligible" guys start considering her a piranha who fucks foreigners.
In my (very limited) small town experience, there is that kind of girl you say, but there is also a noticeable number of sluts that have fucked half the town. The problem with them is that they sometimes have some betas that were fucked by her, out of boredom, drunkness and lack of options. They became enamored and are her orbiting white knights. Can go from annoying to borderline dangerous.
Quote: (06-28-2013 09:39 AM)Prosal Wrote:
And keep in mind that times have changed in EE/FSU. Local guys, once characterized as poor, loutish, rude drunks are sometimes now rich, loutish, rude drunks. That's good enough for many of the local hotties. Many average incomed local guys have also improved their game and attractiveness dramatically... and they can more effectively communicate with the local girls and offer "added value" since they won't leave the country never to be seen again after their 7-10 day sex holiday is over like the foreigners do. The girls know this and many choose to stick to the locals.
I think the amount of locals with good game or style or money is proportionally lower in towns than in cities. About the added value of locals vs foreigners that will leave soon, I agree, but that factor is the same in big cities.
Quote: (06-28-2013 09:39 AM)Prosal Wrote:
And anyway loooong gone are the days when in EE or FSU, and even in small towns, girls dropped their panties just because a foreigner showed up. If you expect hot young females in Belarussian, Moldovan or Ukrainian deep provinces to just give you access to their most intimate areas because you want them to and you have an EU passport, you are barking up the wrong tree.
Might not be a "flash passport, get tits flashed" thing, but I still think it makes it easier. My closest experience with this was when I was in Poland in a pub of the town of a former girlfriend (35k population), having girls flirting with me, me saying "sorry but I have a girlfriend here, she is on her way" (I was a sucker, I know) and them replying in the lines of "then we will have to be quick before she arrives!". Of course in a jokingly manner, but that sort of stuff has never happened to me in big cities (I'm average looking). They just noticed I was a foreigner as they heard me talking English with local friends of my ex-gf, that was enough for them to approach me and go on those lines. Might as well be the added factor of being part of a local social circle of course, but still.
Quote: (06-28-2013 09:39 AM)Prosal Wrote:
Also in small town, you are definitely a novelty for the local gopniki, which isn't necessarily a good thing
Very good point. You must be more careful about flashing wealth I guess, and more aware in general on what's going on.