Self-deprecating humor
I have been kind of lazy in my efforts here on the forum for the past couple weeks due to the successes I have been having… So it’s not all bad
I wanted to do another lengthy content post and I think a good topic – and one that I have been toying around with – is self-deprecation.
It’s a very powerful concept that allows you to show you are completely comfortable with yourself. But the catch is that you ACTUALLY need to BE 100% COMFORTABLE with yourself in the area of which you are making the joke.
For example, if you say;
“girls love looking down at me” (reference to your short height)
Then you better be HELLA comfortable with your height, because if you aren’t the joke is going to bomb and shit will get awkward fast.
Achieving complete 100% self-satisfaction is a lifelong journey so some things will be hard to make self-deprecating jokes about.
The good news?
The good news is that you can start tomorrow by making self-deprecating jokes about easier topics. For this I have broken it down into 2 categories:
Simple topics:
As you can imagine it is somewhat easy for the average guy to make a self-deprecating joke like;
“oh you know.. a lot of boozing, smoking, and grinding in the club. I’m a really healthy person And some work every now and then.”
But, if you take a guy who is completely comfortable in himself he can pull off something like;
“well, as an ugly looking big boy I spend most my time scaring away girls”
There is a huge difference between these two. The second requires much more self-confidence.
I personally like making small dick/bad sex jokes. I think this comes from the fact that I am not lacking in the area and am sexually experienced. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not huge, but not small.
For example; if a girl ends a sentence with
“… and then she started crying”.
I might say; “sometimes girls cry around me but it’s usually after I have sex with them”.
Or the classic asking “is it in yet”.
Be careful with this sensitive stuff though. It can backfire if you are not prepared.
I get howling laughter from the stuff I mentioned above but this will not be the case for everyone.
So try some shit out and see what works for you. At the very least it will be a good exercise and will make you less boring to talk to.
Peace!
Gandt
I have been kind of lazy in my efforts here on the forum for the past couple weeks due to the successes I have been having… So it’s not all bad
I wanted to do another lengthy content post and I think a good topic – and one that I have been toying around with – is self-deprecation.
It’s a very powerful concept that allows you to show you are completely comfortable with yourself. But the catch is that you ACTUALLY need to BE 100% COMFORTABLE with yourself in the area of which you are making the joke.
For example, if you say;
“girls love looking down at me” (reference to your short height)
Then you better be HELLA comfortable with your height, because if you aren’t the joke is going to bomb and shit will get awkward fast.
Achieving complete 100% self-satisfaction is a lifelong journey so some things will be hard to make self-deprecating jokes about.
The good news?
The good news is that you can start tomorrow by making self-deprecating jokes about easier topics. For this I have broken it down into 2 categories:
Simple topics:
- Lifestyle
- Personality
- Habits
- Behavior
- Hair (balding)
- Height (short/lanky)
- Looks (ugly as a mo' fo)
- Penis Size
As you can imagine it is somewhat easy for the average guy to make a self-deprecating joke like;
“oh you know.. a lot of boozing, smoking, and grinding in the club. I’m a really healthy person And some work every now and then.”
But, if you take a guy who is completely comfortable in himself he can pull off something like;
“well, as an ugly looking big boy I spend most my time scaring away girls”
There is a huge difference between these two. The second requires much more self-confidence.
I personally like making small dick/bad sex jokes. I think this comes from the fact that I am not lacking in the area and am sexually experienced. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not huge, but not small.
For example; if a girl ends a sentence with
“… and then she started crying”.
I might say; “sometimes girls cry around me but it’s usually after I have sex with them”.
Or the classic asking “is it in yet”.
Be careful with this sensitive stuff though. It can backfire if you are not prepared.
I get howling laughter from the stuff I mentioned above but this will not be the case for everyone.
So try some shit out and see what works for you. At the very least it will be a good exercise and will make you less boring to talk to.
Peace!
Gandt