BQ in Montreal Part II
06-23-2013, 01:10 PM
So let's recap the past two nights:
Night 1:
So, I'm staying to the left of Saint Suplice, a bar recommended to me by a member, it's an interesting area, lots of restaurants, a few bars, decent amount of girls. The vibe in montreal feels slightly different than on New Years, but I still have high hopes. We roll out doing an approach here and there lazily, getting either short conversations or flatout rejections with full bitchiness, in example:
"Well there's a saying around here that goes Fuck Off, you should try it." While she was smiling and happy and shit. It was a bit surreal. There is a strong concentration of one or two girls loving us and the friends dropping a hiroshima nuke and just taking them away. So here, your proccupation game and bringing the fun is needed.
We reach Tokyo Bar, go in, dead, still early, so we head to Korova, Blue Dog etc. etc. Got in a freestyle battle for fun with some people outside Korova, destroyed the guys, big groups applaud. (Now, here I realized too late the importance of leveraging good vibes here. I should've instantly went for one of the girls in the group.)
Met three girls at Blue Dog, it was Reggae night and there were some pretty damn fine girls out. Started chatting with one of the group, two liked me, the hottest one whom was a 9.5 (near perfect but not quite perfect, blonde russian/french chick) was being aloof as fuck. I laugh, and started chatting her up, she's angry because her boyfriend of three years broke up with her. *FUCK LANDMINE!* But don't worry, I lean in to her friend and whisper "Shit, so we need to cheer her up?"
I take her upstairs, and we start talking and I get pretty intimate with the kino and smooth conversation, touching her and smiling alot and shit, being romantic. She's obviously feeling me since her angry disposition faded away. I asked about her boyfriend and life and was about to kiss her. *Here, I realized, I definitely was taking it too too slow. My best sets have always been when I screen hard for downness from the jump. Aka Hook with an interesting observation, then go for the kiss or something to get investment*.
I ask her a question: "What do you want" She replies, straight faced, totally unemotive "Cocaine".
I can't lie I couldn't hide my reaction of "The Fuck bitch?" even though it wasnt a big deal in the slightest.
Her friend comes back right at that moment with some and goes to do it. Now, the skinny hot friend that had been with them earlier comes and grabs me and pulls me onto the dance floor and we start grinding and bachata dancing and other stuff mixed in. I was confused whether to go for the kiss with her or wait for her friend, she was a bit too skinny for me. (SHOUTOUT TO YOUNG ROSCA). So it goes nowhere, she gets bored, we go outside, we meet up with her friends, we are about to all get in a cab and go back to my place, IRT buys them retarded amount of drugs, and there's a stand off, my girl stares me down and is like "Fuck, I want to go home with you... but I want drugs too, and those are my friends" and that my friends is how it ends, because I didnt feel like going home with the IRL.
Weird as fuck night.
Night 2:
So tonight, I get a message saying to hit up Saint Suplice, realize it's next door and almost do a backflip for such good logsitics, that means approaching was easy right? Fuck no. This place is so social circle based I was mindblown. The quality was pretty good, my first set we opened with "If he is your oranguatan, can I be your butterfly?" It for some FUCKED up reason hooked, and they were in love with us, I made a joke, "Why do all the girls here tell me I'm so sexy?" Two of them go "Well, it's very true, that's why." It's weird how here, girls will either just tell you "You're sexy" and you'll defintely hear it on the reg, OR they'll insult you, to almost neg you or test you. I had a girl I was texting earilier in the night say I wasnt attractive, then I replied with "And yet I fucked you." She replies "Im sorry, you are, it's just I dont like when guys that are sexy know they are."
These girls here are really really fucking insecure, yet they pretend to be confident as fuck. I'm realizing the type of game to run is, show you have something unique to offer, win them over with sweetness and hella sexual energy, and then for comfort dig deep into their insecurities and show them how great the connection is between you two. It's the only way, you have to supplant yourself within their groups casually and cooly.
Anyway, so we are too in our own heads and aren't getting sexual and really thinking about how to open the sets, so we were just hitting a brick wall. We leave, and head to Saint Laurent, Tokyo is popping, I get in a dance battle, that was cool, murked it. Not many girls though, hella dudes everywhere. Same with Blue Dog and Korova, just hella dudes but the girls there were fine. Did a few more approaches, got somewhere with a few but none really hooked.
So tonight, no idea, it's some holiday here so people are going ham btw. *ALSO, they think the expression going ham is fucking hilarious. I've texted Je voudrais aller jambon to a girl and she was like WHAT THE FUCK?! I tell her it means go hard as a muthafucka aka ham, and she was in tears laughing.
If I have to break down the way the game has to go:
-Open with something about them, whether their style of dress, or direction or expression.
-Make some sort of touching kino and move them.
-Find out something personal about them and share something personal about you.
-Banter, but keep the joking light.
-Kino Kino Kino, screen for downness.
-Cheesy works better than not here.
Working on bringing it all together again tonight.
