[RickyGP]

This is a question for anyone with experience following Roosh's 'Day Bang' model.

So I approached this girl in the coffee shop yesterday. Went indirect, opening on a camera she was carrying a digital camera.

I ramble for a bit and drop some big bait. She does not take it but neither does she look away. Thing is though, it looked as though she was not interested in having a conversation. Other times in coffee shops they'll say they're busy with something, but she was polite.

In these kinds of situations should I:
Find some other things to ramble on and keep dropping bait? And if so should I stop if there is no nibble/interest/personal question after after two or three big baits?
Ask her some questions that might verge on personal? (Ae you a photographer?)

[rivelino]

my thoughts:

1. i really like the concept "make the ho say no", which means, don't eject until you've gotten rejected. this was a favorite quote of gunwitch. so in that sense, yeah, i would keep on talking to her, dropping big bait, and then eventually, if she doesn't bite, i would get more personal and ask her something, see if she answers.

2. apart from your conversation, how was your subcommunication? meaning, how was your body language, vocal tonality, eye contact, overall vibe? it's so important to radiate out a strong, masculine vibe, and for that, you need to be in touch with your masculine core. for example, you always need to look her dead in the eye, and make sure she looks away first. *always*. and your vocal tonality needs to be steady, not seeking rapport, not "asking a question", not unsure of yourself. have you seen this tim video? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VDslvC4_5w

3. also, how much did you tease this girl? i may be wrong, but i am getting the sense that you were playing it too straight with her. a bit of vanity or arrogance -- or better put, a bit of cocky funny -- goes a long way. for example, i wouldn't just ask her, "are you a photographer?", i would ask her, "are you a photographer? because i'm an underwear model, you know." something like that.