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06-13-2013, 07:57 AM
Well, she just texted me her schedule for the weekend. Game on. Now I know she's the shit testing kind for sure. I'm playing this text by text for now. Any tips for girls with a keen shit test radar would be appreciated.
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06-13-2013, 08:17 AM
Your text game is terrible.
"bc i say you should" ???
She was wanting you to make her laugh and you come in all serious..
"Give me one reason why I should go to a mysterious place with you?"
Adventurous spirit?
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06-13-2013, 11:40 AM
Hmm, I definitely missed that there was a mysterious vibe there. I thought she was being bitchy about coming out since I don't think I have her hooked yet. I took that as "give me one good reason I should go out with you"
Plus when I called her later on she didn't sound very enthusiastic, which sort of confirmed what I was thinking. Maybe I'll call her back and play up the mystery angle.
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06-13-2013, 11:47 AM
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06-13-2013, 11:50 AM
"Give me one reason why I should go to that mysterious place with you?"
My response would have been " I have a surprise for you..."
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06-13-2013, 01:15 PM
My two cents: You lead with a supplicating question "what does your weekend look like?" Remember you are making her chase you. Next time try something like "Got ins at a cool place this Saturday. 5 pm. You down?" If she says no, its her loss not yours.
In response to her "one reason" statement, I always go to humor, e.g. "There will be adventure and hidden pirate treasure." In fact, my texts with new girls are rarely anything more than informational or jokes because it is such a shitty form of communication and so much gets lost.
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06-13-2013, 03:28 PM
Cheeky is better...
"Give me one reason why I should go to a mysterious place with you?"
"Because you get something for free that I normally charge 950 usd per hour for"
or
"because I think your life need a spark"
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06-13-2013, 04:31 PM
the lesson here IMO is to stick to the frame you set in the initial interaction. so, you can text like that ONLY IF you're dick to the girl initially and she clearly likes it. then it's fine. but in this particular case it was 180 from nice charming guy to total douche. she felt massive wtf.
own whatever you do. there is no right or wrong texting (or anything) as long as you commit to the vibe you set from the start.
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06-13-2013, 09:53 PM
"Give me one reason why I should go to that mysterious place with you?"
"Your inferior cooking skills?"
"Give me one reason why I should go to that mysterious place with you?"
"Huh? Oh, nevermind."
"Give me one reason why I should go to that mysterious place with you?"
"lol"
"Give me one reason why I should go to that mysterious place with you?"
"Who doesn't want mysterious?"
"Give me one reason why I should go to that mysterious place with you?"
*radio silence...* *text five other girls and bait for a followup text*
And the Apocalypse text:
"Give me one reason why I should go to that mysterious place with you?"
"Shut up and come over I got something for you."
"Huh?"
"In my pants."
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