[La Familia]

What is everyone's thoughts? Experiences? I was recently told by the girl I was seeing that she was bothered by the fact that I danced with other women while she wasn't around. In addition to a few other instances, she said that she needed her space since she didn't want to deal with the jealousy.

Now, I indirectly mentioned all these instances, so it didn't seem deliberate. I always thought that women are attracted to wanted men...in this case it backfired.

Is it possible to overdo it?

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Jelousy = insecureness.
First you have to deal with the insecureness in your relationship/you/her/both then you will see if the jelousy is "healthy" or psycho.

[Parlay44]

There are 2 kinds of jealousy:

1. Simple jealousy - Your girl gets annoyed that girls look at or talk to you when you're out in public. Common.

2. Complex jealously - Same as simple jealousy except she takes action to counteract it. Picks a fight
or tries to manipulate things behind the scenes. Drama.

[King Solomon]

tell her: Baby, your choices are to choose some wimpy beta guy to hold your purse and do as you say... while you operate in fear all the time, and domineer him until you resent each other... just so you aren't "jealous"

OR

Roll with a G like me and be such a bad-ass chick that you ain't worried about those skanks because you know you ROCK... and you know I have the balls to shoot straight with you. I say we're good, we're good.

You're going to feel jealous sometimes, if you have a desirable man, period. That's how it works. The only way to beat it is to get a guy who nobody wants, or put on your big girl panties. I only roll with bad-ass chicks, so, it's gut check time: what kind of girl are you?

You going to live in fear, or rise to greatness?

I tell you, it takes balls to date a REALLY HOT chick, and brass balls to invest in her emotionally, knowing she could swing off your branch anytime. You gotta know you are the biggest swingin' dick in town, and not sweat it, or the hot chick will blow you out.

Girls need the same attitude. If you don't have the guts, go get some wussbag and discuss wallpaper designs and global warming.

Your dancing with other chicks does NOT say that you guys aren't "special". In fact, what you could go with is that "I dance with those other chicks because I know you are a cool-as-hell confident person like me that knows they don't have to worry. My intuition was always that you had that inner greatness that so few girls possess.... was I right?"


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Sorry, old thread. Oh well. I don't think he got the advice he was looking for...