[ned]

try it sometime. things probably won't go how you want it the first time but who cares. life is short.

[MasterOfNone]

(10-08-2008 11:45 PM)ned Wrote:  

try it sometime. things probably won't go how you want it the first time but who cares. life is short.

Talking is easy, building attraction and closing are what elude me at the moment. That, and finding girls in the first place...

[Roosh]

masterofnone: what is your current strategy to build attraction?

[MasterOfNone]

(10-09-2008 02:36 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

masterofnone: what is your current strategy to build attraction?

Well, until fairly recently, I didn't have one. I just would start talking to a girl, and hope things went my way. In the past, I always took a sincere laugh as a sign of success, and worked from there. Once I started reading more game material online, I realized the mistake I was making, basically just hoping attraction would happen. Now, I'm trying to be more teasing and playful in my conversation, as well as incorporate light touching in early on. I've yet to really have success, but like I've covered before, I don't get many approaches in because I'm not getting out enough, and my engineering school campus has about 25 attractive women who have uber-bitch shields due to the horrible ratio. I need to change scenes, and am trying to meet friends who are willing step outside the box with me, but I'll admit that I spend a lot of nights in working on my business. We'll see what happens.

[Joe]

Being high status is HUGE. I can open. Build attraction. Kino etc. But it's not unless I have an edge in Social Proof wise that I can make out, get a girl home, or get a legit number. And forget about multiple girls. Recently I've learned how difficult it is to manage more than two girls if you only have yourself and they are not occupied.

What chapter cover Social Proof in Bang??? I need to review.

[twigman]

(10-10-2008 04:57 PM)Joe Wrote:  

Being high status is HUGE. I can open. Build attraction. Kino etc. But it's not unless I have an edge in Social Proof wise that I can make out, get a girl

do you think you can build attraction like you build lego?

yes and no. its a paradox.

The best social proof is evident in your confidence with people.

You don't need overt status.

If you think you are somebody - they will know you are 'somebody'. If you leave at the top of the conversation rather than at the bottom. If you are busy and passionate about the things you do, if you talk about how you care about your friends, that female beauty is just ONE of things you're interested in, that you believe in things beyond yourself, and you're not rushed to impress them etc... that is social proof par excellence.

[Trotter]

Social proofing at work...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxAFvrbYQFM

[Harry811]

What do you mean, it an't hard? It gets hard when I talk sexy to a sexy chick.

Harry

[Harry811]

(10-08-2008 11:45 PM)ned Wrote:  

try it sometime. things probably won't go how you want it the first time but who cares. life is short.

Religious upbringing couse a man to hide his sexual feelings. A Man said 2000 years ago, "He who look upon a woman and lusts after her has already committ sin in his heart." Alpha males don't read the Bible. They are nothing but whoremongers, and the whores who want them. If a good man wants to meet a woman, the nite club is not the place. The women there are for sex. A woman can be approach any place. Good men are are not going to give up their religious beliefs for a whore. Sex is what you are, not what you do.

Harry