I initially posted this as a reply to my Fatso thread, but I realized it was best suited for a separate thread as I am looking for some feedback. Most importantly, if some of you players are good with evolutionary biology/psychology to comment on the biological aspects of sexual attraction and hypergamy.
Let me set out this theory. We live in a narcissistic society that is female-dominated – by heterosexual females. You see this in feminist circles with the bitter fights over beauty standards, careers and relationships between men and women. Dyke feminists could care less about hetero women getting the dick they want – they just don’t want to be judged for being ugly and unfeminine. They may try to pretend they care about “female oppression” of beauty standards, but they really just want to change them for their gay benefit. Women’s beauty standards are not just driven by male sexuality, but competition for alphas. Somewhere in the past, some women shaved their armpits, men found it attractive and other women had to start to compensate for the changes in the SMP.
Let’s lay it out – alphas>women>betas>omegas.
Alphas don’t have to be narcissists, but they do have some of those qualities because of being so privileged by female sexual adoration. Betas are thirsty, but let’s set those dudes aside for a minute as with omegas.
What women think they want is equality with alphas. They want to have their money get dicks hard, they want their snark and independence to make alphas salivate to for them. They want to work beside them in high status professions – think Boston Legal and Grey’s Anatomy. They want crowds of fans rocking out to their live music. They want adoring alphas wearing their sports jerseys and come to their games and cheer when hit the trey. The issue here is twofold.
First is the approval they get is beta/omega male and female approval. Women appreciate female approval on a superficial level, but they know it is often fake and is so ubiquitous that is boring and expected. As for betas, let’s set them aside as they are settling material. Omegas are repulsive not just sexually but are a reflection of dark days for the hamster. Every modern female has thrown herself at some retreating alphas, offering up her body as a salve to failing relationships. They will do anything sexually and will often spend way too much time on him or cough up great amounts of money for him. I knew a woman that wanted to save this dude and spent all her saving on rehab. He came back clean for about two months but then went back to drinking and beating her.
This applicable to omegas because the rank desperation reminds them how unattainable alphas often are for them – omegas sometimes a reflection of a woman’s position visa vie alphas. Further, they remind of the lengths they would go for alpha approval.
The other problem is the fact that alphas and men are not sexually turned on my provisioning ability, confidence or social status generally. To me, a good-looking woman who is intellectually interesting is a plus for me. That Sasha Alexander chick from Rizzoli & Isles is hotter than hell to me. Looks have to come first, intelligence after. Going forward, women are often bitter and disappointed because alphas don’t care about their gains.
However, women haven’t become alphas, they became the betas they settle for. Back on track, the other issue is that if women get what they claim and get this approval from alphas, they often lose attraction to the alpha. Imagine some alpha husband wearing WNBA player’s jersey on the regular – where to you think the arc of that relationship is headed? Sure it is possible he has just that much hand, but it isn’t probable.
Let’s talk about SMV as it relates age and weight. The pool of alphas is fairly steady. The marriageable ones and the one's that will marry will dwindle quickly. Women at 35 are likely to find a 50 year old divorced alpha with no desire to father more children. Which brings in age. Women are often forced to consider beta males as mates as they age – nothing new here. Same thing with weight gain – it alters the landscape of men who will fuck them and wife them.
Which is the narcissistic exposure here. When confronted with the reality that have the mentality of a beta male or omega coupled with their increasing inability even to bed lesser alphas, the hamster spins out of control. You get later in life lesbians, single mothers, women flying to Haiti to bed young black dick. Think Stella Got Her Groove back situation. Unable to come to grips with reality, the hamster runs away.
If it does not, it needs serious attention to make a beta male attractive. Facebook helps as she can claim her dude is different and is a real man because he cuddles with her and confesses his deepest fears to the hamster. What he doesn’t know is he is setting up a codependent/compensatory narcissist relationship with the woman.
The woman will sleep with the beta, romance him and make him feel loved. She acting out the beginning of relationships with alphas before they bounce. The engagement is a huge candy bar for the hamster to gnaw on while the hamster’s blood is starting to boil. It starts to come out as a Bridezilla situation, with beta comforting her and reassuring her that he loves her. She fucking knows that that’s why she is marrying you – she can control you knowing you need her more than she needs you. The wedding will be a calm before the hamster storm that is coming once the honeymoon ends. The beta will think the wedding stress was the cause of the problems.
The marriage will go downhill quickly. Sex will dry up and she will increasingly critical. She will demand declarations of love and eternal bondage (worship). She will begin to only treat him well in public and being to treat him like dirt in private. She will often use sex as a weapon and physically slap him. Unable to comprehend the problem is his lack of alphatude, he will blame himself, beating himself for not being supportive enough, not listening to her.
Look at that the shit website Askmen.com It is one massive beta indoctrination program. Women need to know men are reading that, in the vain hope alphas will become more beta and betas stay beta so they have a dude to settle with.
Let’s wrap this up. The utilitarian approach women take to men have biological roots, but understand it is blown up by poor American psychology. Alphas have serious privilege and women resent it. The sexual revolution for them has been a large negative. Huge plus in college and right after, but women quickly realize it is bad that society doesn’t force alphas and greater betas into marriage. Notice the constant preening rhetoric of how important the gains are for women. Yay careers! Yay not having to get married! Ha – that is little more than the hamster grooming itself in order to convince themselves that this whole scheme has been a net positive for them. It hasn’t and, as usual, alphas benefit.
Let me set out this theory. We live in a narcissistic society that is female-dominated – by heterosexual females. You see this in feminist circles with the bitter fights over beauty standards, careers and relationships between men and women. Dyke feminists could care less about hetero women getting the dick they want – they just don’t want to be judged for being ugly and unfeminine. They may try to pretend they care about “female oppression” of beauty standards, but they really just want to change them for their gay benefit. Women’s beauty standards are not just driven by male sexuality, but competition for alphas. Somewhere in the past, some women shaved their armpits, men found it attractive and other women had to start to compensate for the changes in the SMP.
Let’s lay it out – alphas>women>betas>omegas.
Alphas don’t have to be narcissists, but they do have some of those qualities because of being so privileged by female sexual adoration. Betas are thirsty, but let’s set those dudes aside for a minute as with omegas.
What women think they want is equality with alphas. They want to have their money get dicks hard, they want their snark and independence to make alphas salivate to for them. They want to work beside them in high status professions – think Boston Legal and Grey’s Anatomy. They want crowds of fans rocking out to their live music. They want adoring alphas wearing their sports jerseys and come to their games and cheer when hit the trey. The issue here is twofold.
First is the approval they get is beta/omega male and female approval. Women appreciate female approval on a superficial level, but they know it is often fake and is so ubiquitous that is boring and expected. As for betas, let’s set them aside as they are settling material. Omegas are repulsive not just sexually but are a reflection of dark days for the hamster. Every modern female has thrown herself at some retreating alphas, offering up her body as a salve to failing relationships. They will do anything sexually and will often spend way too much time on him or cough up great amounts of money for him. I knew a woman that wanted to save this dude and spent all her saving on rehab. He came back clean for about two months but then went back to drinking and beating her.
This applicable to omegas because the rank desperation reminds them how unattainable alphas often are for them – omegas sometimes a reflection of a woman’s position visa vie alphas. Further, they remind of the lengths they would go for alpha approval.
The other problem is the fact that alphas and men are not sexually turned on my provisioning ability, confidence or social status generally. To me, a good-looking woman who is intellectually interesting is a plus for me. That Sasha Alexander chick from Rizzoli & Isles is hotter than hell to me. Looks have to come first, intelligence after. Going forward, women are often bitter and disappointed because alphas don’t care about their gains.
However, women haven’t become alphas, they became the betas they settle for. Back on track, the other issue is that if women get what they claim and get this approval from alphas, they often lose attraction to the alpha. Imagine some alpha husband wearing WNBA player’s jersey on the regular – where to you think the arc of that relationship is headed? Sure it is possible he has just that much hand, but it isn’t probable.
Let’s talk about SMV as it relates age and weight. The pool of alphas is fairly steady. The marriageable ones and the one's that will marry will dwindle quickly. Women at 35 are likely to find a 50 year old divorced alpha with no desire to father more children. Which brings in age. Women are often forced to consider beta males as mates as they age – nothing new here. Same thing with weight gain – it alters the landscape of men who will fuck them and wife them.
Which is the narcissistic exposure here. When confronted with the reality that have the mentality of a beta male or omega coupled with their increasing inability even to bed lesser alphas, the hamster spins out of control. You get later in life lesbians, single mothers, women flying to Haiti to bed young black dick. Think Stella Got Her Groove back situation. Unable to come to grips with reality, the hamster runs away.
If it does not, it needs serious attention to make a beta male attractive. Facebook helps as she can claim her dude is different and is a real man because he cuddles with her and confesses his deepest fears to the hamster. What he doesn’t know is he is setting up a codependent/compensatory narcissist relationship with the woman.
The woman will sleep with the beta, romance him and make him feel loved. She acting out the beginning of relationships with alphas before they bounce. The engagement is a huge candy bar for the hamster to gnaw on while the hamster’s blood is starting to boil. It starts to come out as a Bridezilla situation, with beta comforting her and reassuring her that he loves her. She fucking knows that that’s why she is marrying you – she can control you knowing you need her more than she needs you. The wedding will be a calm before the hamster storm that is coming once the honeymoon ends. The beta will think the wedding stress was the cause of the problems.
The marriage will go downhill quickly. Sex will dry up and she will increasingly critical. She will demand declarations of love and eternal bondage (worship). She will begin to only treat him well in public and being to treat him like dirt in private. She will often use sex as a weapon and physically slap him. Unable to comprehend the problem is his lack of alphatude, he will blame himself, beating himself for not being supportive enough, not listening to her.
Look at that the shit website Askmen.com It is one massive beta indoctrination program. Women need to know men are reading that, in the vain hope alphas will become more beta and betas stay beta so they have a dude to settle with.
Let’s wrap this up. The utilitarian approach women take to men have biological roots, but understand it is blown up by poor American psychology. Alphas have serious privilege and women resent it. The sexual revolution for them has been a large negative. Huge plus in college and right after, but women quickly realize it is bad that society doesn’t force alphas and greater betas into marriage. Notice the constant preening rhetoric of how important the gains are for women. Yay careers! Yay not having to get married! Ha – that is little more than the hamster grooming itself in order to convince themselves that this whole scheme has been a net positive for them. It hasn’t and, as usual, alphas benefit.
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