Quote: (05-28-2013 03:06 PM)anythinggoes Wrote:
I did approaches in the train already, but I find it hard to open a girl that sits next to two old ladies
Yes, this can be a tough situation.
Here what I have learned to do...
Include the old ladies in the approach. Don't ignore them. If you can charm the old ladies, they will help you!!!
Example: Talk to the old ladies first, approach the old ladies..
"Good morning, how are you ladies today?"
"I like your scarf, my aunt has the same one in a different color"
Say this with a smile. Use the
Roosh "Elderly" strategy. Talk to the old ladies the way an old man would. Just get a conversation going with the old ladies.
Do all of this right in front of your target. Let her hear and observe everything. Then, include her in the conversation. The 4 of you can have a conversation. Your playful, social, and light hearted vibe is the key.
When you or your target has to get off the train, simply say --
"it was nice chatting with you, do you wanna exchange numbers and maybe get coffee or a beer sometime?"
Have a business card ready, just in case. Have your phone ready to take her number. This can all happen in a few seconds.
Anyways, thats my advice, don't let the old ladies scare you away, include them in the approach.
Old ladies love pick up. They think its romantic. Lol!
Quote: (05-28-2013 03:06 PM)anythinggoes Wrote:
Do you all go indirect, e.g. "nice shoes!" or "I need to get out at xy, do you know where to find a pet shop over there?"?
There is a time for indirect AND there is also a time for direct. Sometimes you don't have alot of time and you have to act quickly.
Sometimes you have to just go up to a girl and say --
"excuse me, I know this is a little random but I noticed you when you got on the train and I wanted introduce myself. You look nice today. My name is Gio"
They always respect that kind of honesty and confidence. If you say this, the girl will talk to you. As long as you are not a total weirdo about it.
Sometimes, I just go up to a cute girl and say --
"Hi, how are you today? You look nice, I wanted to say hello"
Quote: (05-28-2013 10:22 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:
"Can I help you with that" (To a girl carrying a heavy travel bag)
"Where did you just get in from?" (To a girl with airline tags on her bag)
"Perdon, tú de dónde eres?" (If you hear a girl speaking Spanish)
"Você é do Brasil não é?" (Brazilian girls ALWAYS are shocked you can speak Portuguese)
"Do you have a phone charger?" (If the train has electrical outlets)
Some of my hottest chicks have been from train game.
In general, I have NOT found that chicks are self concious or shy in the train. If anything they like it more, because it's daring and out of the ordinary. I've had many chicks give me those big puppy dog eyes when talking to them, clearly shocked I have the balls to do it and loving it.
This is the best comment.
This is what we all should be doing.
Observe the girl and come up with a Situational Opener.
Situational Openers are often the key to good day game.
Quote: (05-28-2013 11:55 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:
Where would you say is best to approach a girl?
The best place to approach a girl is:
A) The place where girls like you.
B) The place where you feel most confident and fearless.
This is different for everyone. Some guys do better in Asia then in America. Some guys do better in bars then in grocery stores.
Go where the girls like your look. Go where you feel strong. That is a good place to approach.
Quote: (05-28-2013 11:55 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:
The best type of environment that have resulted best for you.
For me, the best environments are other countries. I did well in Brazil and Costa Rica. My brother did really well in the Philippines and he said I would do well there.
I always do well at the Mexican grocery store near my house. Latina immigrants like me.
There is a Filipino church by my house and everytime I walk by the girls flirt with me.
And, I do well at gyms and sporting events.
I also do well in places when I am the best looking guy.
It's different for everyone.
I do well in places that I am comfortable.
Quote: (05-28-2013 11:55 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:
For me it has been at my college campus when a girl is sitting down in a building alone.
Yes, a college girls sitting by herself. This is much easier then a college girl in a group. I do okay in these situations also.
Girls by themselves at college is always a good one.
Quote: (05-28-2013 11:55 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:
I just want to know if there is something I am overlooking.
Most of us are overlooking something. We all have blind spots.
Thats why its good to talk to other guys about this stuff.
Quote: (05-29-2013 02:19 AM)Samseau Wrote:
I would just like to add that Roosh's Day Bang has a lot of good advice for gaming in trains.
Yes. I will read that chapter tonight and post a summary and analysis here..
Public Transportation game is my new hobby!