[StealthAlpha]

I messed up with mall game.

A little about myself. I'm 6ft one dark hair light brown eyes, athletic but slim. I'm 24

I failed at gaming at the mall. I've only banged one girl so maybe my confidence is off. But I've kisser maybe 6 girls and gotten a few naked to touch my penis. I usually game stationary targets. My approach is usually smiling, eye contact and talking about my studies and giving a complement.

I saw one girl and her friend in the elevator that gave me strong iois but she was just barely bangable. I saw a banging hot blond with huge tits, I aborted because I said to myself I'm not big enough for her, I'm 170 pounds, I got muscle but I'm not huge.

The girls I did approach.One had an H &M bag I asked her where the store was, She turned and told me and preened once and ran.

Two girls in a store. I complemented her choice of floral print dress asked her friend what she thought of sleeveless shirts on guys. Then asked the target where she was from. She wasn't facing me completely but made eye contact. I figured she didn't want me so I bounced.


My biggest mess up. Checked out a little attention whore, no IoIs but I followed her in Macy's with the goal of approaching. Then bounced saw her give me puppy dog eyes when I walked out. She was telling her guy friends about me. They looked weak I wasnt worried. Bitch was staring drama.

[StealthAlpha]

this was the danbury fair mall

[BarkChompson]

What you need is to see what success looks like, which will give you a goal to strive towards.

First up is the ever ascribed "just don't give a fuck". Good in theory, but that's the result of leading the life you want, not a decision by itself.

Here's an exercise: Say "Hi" to every single person you pass within 3 feet. This might be 100 people. You can skip some, but only enough so the next person you say hi to didn't see the previous.

Walk through the entire mall once doing this. This rapid repetition is what you are looking for. After you're done, go home and think which ones did people say hi back, which ones got smiles, what you felt like before you said hi to each one, what you felt like after.

Getting a feel for talking to strangers and being able to read body language is what you're after.

Go get em.

[Giovonny]

(05-17-2013 06:38 AM)StealthAlpha Wrote:  

I saw a banging hot blond with huge tits, I aborted because I said to myself I'm not big enough for her, I'm 170 pounds, I got muscle but I'm not huge.

This is your problem.

Your opinion of yourself is too low!

Girls can smell this before you even open your mouth.

You need an irrational level of self confidence.

[StealthAlpha]

You're both right. It's weird I feel like a boss at work. I opened this girl with a nice ass, flirted but didn't number close. And another girl in a group and I told her to come visit me at work.

Both didn't number close. I think I need to have the same confidence I have at work.