To Date or Not To Date... that is the question Shakespeare would probably be wondering just as I am here today in my air-conditioned room sitting behind my laptop. It's a Saturday, and while I could be out watching drunk girls get drunk, getting a nice tan, and enjoying California, I come to wonder... Is it better to date a highly-prized woman, or to just hook up with one.
If you hook up with one, you're enjoying a nice prize for your efforts. If you date one, you're going to have to potentially (but also most likely) deal with a lot of shit.
The thing is, if you're a lazy man, and you just like to hook up, and not deal with being alpha, and you date a highly-prized woman, she's going to end up doing shit behind your back.
If you just hook up with her, you have a chance of just keeping it on the friend level, and every now and then tap into this nice resource.
Then again, if you act alpha and deal with her the way she wants to be dealt with by her man, and most likely, deal the same way with a few other girls on the side as well, you're going to have to eventually work harder than the average lazy man, but then again gain the other advantages of being alpha as well (but also constantly have to protect your "territory").
What would you guys do?
If you hook up with one, you're enjoying a nice prize for your efforts. If you date one, you're going to have to potentially (but also most likely) deal with a lot of shit.
The thing is, if you're a lazy man, and you just like to hook up, and not deal with being alpha, and you date a highly-prized woman, she's going to end up doing shit behind your back.
If you just hook up with her, you have a chance of just keeping it on the friend level, and every now and then tap into this nice resource.
Then again, if you act alpha and deal with her the way she wants to be dealt with by her man, and most likely, deal the same way with a few other girls on the side as well, you're going to have to eventually work harder than the average lazy man, but then again gain the other advantages of being alpha as well (but also constantly have to protect your "territory").
What would you guys do?