[Walderschmidt]

Reading the manosphere at a young age makes it easier to hate women if one does not have enough experience to know otherwise. Sure, there are exceptions to the rule - but generally speaking - it tends to hold true. That is why a common theme or trope is "going through a phase of being angry at or hating women". I never completely went through that phase.

But I did develop an irrational fear that I could be false accused of rape at every turn and it affects me still, when I try to escalate. When I get more objective experience with escalation, I will calm down a bit for sure.

That's only an example.

Wald

(05-09-2013 07:29 AM)Kristian Wrote:  

I read that some of you say that Reading the manosphere you lost the inocence...the inocence of what? It's what happens in real life..

It's like santa Claus for the clindren...they have the inocence till they discover that their parents where santa at the end..

[Kingsley Davis]

The i wish i was'nt unplugged thread.

[Samseau]

You guys are complaining that the truth is too much?

If the truth makes you bitter, it's because you already were bitter inside. You were hoping there would be some kind of magic solution in the world that would solve all your problems and complete you as a human being, i.e. that magical perfect woman.

Too bad. The real world is a bitch. The sooner you accept it the better off you will be.

[Cyr]

(05-09-2013 01:05 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

You guys are complaining that the truth is too much?

If the truth makes you bitter, it's because you already were bitter inside. You were hoping there would be some kind of magic solution in the world that would solve all your problems and complete you as a human being, i.e. that magical perfect woman.

Too bad. The real world is a bitch. The sooner you accept it the better off you will be.

Exactly. If you're dissapointed by a real, cynical view of the world, than all that's happening is your ideas (which may have been naive) are being proved false through information rather than experience.

[Roosh]

(05-09-2013 01:05 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

You guys are complaining that the truth is too much?

If the truth makes you bitter, it's because you already were bitter inside. You were hoping there would be some kind of magic solution in the world that would solve all your problems and complete you as a human being, i.e. that magical perfect woman.

Too bad. The real world is a bitch. The sooner you accept it the better off you will be.

Having your world view questioned puts you through the five stages of grief:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler...del#Stages

Most people never make it out of denial.

[Kristian]

(05-09-2013 06:04 AM)JayD Wrote:  

The manosphere has improved my life in many ways, I don't see how you can be jaded or misguided as you can discern what is helpful and what isn't. I am 22 yrs old.

This forum is an invaluable resource for a young guy like me, to gain advice from older men about life is something I find hard to express in words but I am very grateful.
Life is a game to me now.

Those who have the most "success" in life usually see the world as a game..what a coincidence

[MrLemon]

I'm glad the manosphere is expanding and I'm recommending it to the younger guys when appropriate. I don't think it's a danger to their optimism.

Young men have always, always faced potential hazards. 50 years ago, they were getting drafted to go off and die in some stupid ass war started by evil old men. Now they are lured into stupid marriages by women who end up screwing them over.

In either case, I think it's honorable and worthwhile to warn those young men not to lured into the traps that are set for them.

I'm not worried they will lose their optimism. There are plenty of areas of the human race which are expanding and wonderful, for example the unbelievable, expanding freedom of the Internet, and the growing democracy of ideas that it is causing around the world. (The young people who didn't live before the Internet don't realize how wonderful a time this is. )

[LEMONed IScream]

I am 21, in my personal experience as a young initiate in the manosphere, I had only one major failure regarding women and love and it was enough for me to understand their nature and to go redpill, this forum and others were also extremely useful to enhance it, I am trying to spread the word and bring as many to this side as possible, this generation needs serious help, but we are getting there!

[Kristian]

do you know a blog about a guy called "shark" I read it time ago but I don't remember its name

[Walderschmidt]

(05-12-2013 05:28 AM)Kristian Wrote:  

do you know a blog about a guy called "shark" I read it time ago but I don't remember its name

Yeah - http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/

Wald

[Vitriol]

It's kind of disappointing to see people complaining about discovering knowledge that will help them navigate through life with their eyes fully opened. Would you rather live in ignorance and go through countless failed relationships and marriages that leave you spiritually and financially broken? I'm sure there are plenty of older guys that wasted years in soul sucking marriages who wish that they had information like this available to them when they were younger.

There's also no reason to assume that every woman is a piece of shit just because you understand the fact that women are generally opportunists. Having a cynical streak about female behavior will probably help you avoid potential bad situations if anything. Also realize that the more extreme forms of female behavior that we complain about are generally restricted to upper and middle class college educated SWPL types in English speaking countries. These girls have had everything handed to them just for showing up, so they develop horrific personalities and don't appreciate anything because there are absolutely no negative consequences for poor behavior. It is better to be aware of how to avoid them.

[Walderschmidt]

I'm not complaining about discovering the manosphere.

My life has gotten measurably better since I discovered it and I have banged girls because of the advice I have gotten from it.

My point is that I think it's good if one has prior experience with women before one discovers the manosphere?

Why do I think that? I got about three years experience with constant failure in highschool. I learned really tough lessons from embarrassing failures. These failures made me realize that I didn't know what I was doing with girls and therefore more ready to accept what the manosphere was saying.

Does that make more sense?

Perhaps I am contradicting myself somewhere.

Wald

[Kristian]

(05-12-2013 01:33 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

(05-12-2013 05:28 AM)Kristian Wrote:  

do you know a blog about a guy called "shark" I read it time ago but I don't remember its name

Yeah - http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/

Wald

It's very enjoyable this web

[TheBlackNarwhal]

(05-12-2013 02:31 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

I'm not complaining about discovering the manosphere.

My life has gotten measurably better since I discovered it and I have banged girls because of the advice I have gotten from it.

My point is that I think it's good if one has prior experience with women before one discovers the manosphere?

Why do I think that? I got about three years experience with constant failure in highschool. I learned really tough lessons from embarrassing failures. These failures made me realize that I didn't know what I was doing with girls and therefore more ready to accept what the manosphere was saying.

Does that make more sense?

Perhaps I am contradicting myself somewhere.

Wald

I think you hit it right on the nail. This is the exact reason I started looking for answers to why I previously failed. This whole Game business was just a lifting of the blindfold for me. I had no idea the self-destructiveness that my beta actions were causing. I needed these failures to get me motivated to improve and learn. I guess at the time I couldn't logically put together that I always did A, and I would always get B.

B as in ending up with my dick in hand.

[The Beast1]

(05-09-2013 03:42 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

good post Scotian, the bad really stands out for me as it's something I'm experiencing, but I'm less on the woman hate as I know how easy these english girls give out in comparison to our european counterparts.

Honestly, i came about the red pill on my own after struggling with my own issues for awhile. I lived in a college town that is similar in annoyance to Portland OR. It sucked being the only one with red pills ideas in a sea of beta men and feminazis. I discovered this website on my own after stumbling onto the game forum. The "manosphere" didn't exist to me until i had formalized most of my red pill ideas post college. I wish i learned from this website rather than get burned by bitties and feminazis.


If it wasn't for this website, you would have discovered the problems on your own and still come to the same conclusions.

I like it though, Experience is a double edged sword. You may not like the knowledge, but you have confidence knowing that your naivte isn't going to hurt you. [/b]

[Kristian]

(05-13-2013 12:12 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

(05-09-2013 03:42 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

good post Scotian, the bad really stands out for me as it's something I'm experiencing, but I'm less on the woman hate as I know how easy these english girls give out in comparison to our european +counterparts.

Honestly, i came about the red pill on my own after struggling with my own issues for awhile. I lived in a college town that is similar in annoyance to Portland OR. It sucked being the only one with red pills ideas in a sea of beta men and feminazis. I discovered this website on my own after stumbling onto the game forum. The "manosphere" didn't exist to me until i had formalized most of my red pill ideas post college. I wish i learned from this website rather than get burned by bitties and feminazis.


If it wasn't for this website, you would have discovered the problems on your own and still come to the same conclusions.

I like it though, Experience is a double edged sword. You may not like the knowledge, but you have confidence knowing that your naivte isn't going to hurt you. [/b]

+1

[iknowexactly]

(05-08-2013 05:29 PM)Power_Ranger Wrote:  

(05-08-2013 08:27 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(05-08-2013 07:49 AM)scotian Wrote:  

I'm glad the manosphere didn't exist when I was in my late teens/early twenties, I like to read some of it now though.

That and feminism mainly exist online. Turn off your computer and they disappear.

No not really.

I see it on nights out in the northern towns/cities of England.

That's because they've had the computer implanted into their brains via smartphone rewiring. They ARE {partly} their computers now.

[Boy Toy]

Hey guys, just wanted to drop by and say I appreciate the kind words about my site.
Let me know if there is anything you would like me to elaborate/post/make videos on(:

[Ziltoid]

In this instance, ignorance is most certainly not bliss.

[Kristian]

(05-20-2013 01:07 PM)Boy Toy Wrote:  

Hey guys, just wanted to drop by and say I appreciate the kind words about my site.
Let me know if there is anything you would like me to elaborate/post/make videos on(:

your site is great man!

I would suggest more post in "get a life" about how to earn a living,I mean..the best way to live independently by yourself and how to have a sustainable lifestyle

In the part of "girls" ,would be interesting to write a post about "flow"..the state you achieve when you start to have success and how to escalate and maintain in it

great work!

[Boy Toy]

(05-25-2013 08:32 AM)Kristian Wrote:  

your site is great man!

I would suggest more post in "get a life" about how to earn a living,I mean..the best way to live independently by yourself and how to have a sustainable lifestyle

In the part of "girls" ,would be interesting to write a post about "flow"..the state you achieve when you start to have success and how to escalate and maintain in it

great work!

Thanks man, I'll keep that in mind!

[Kristian]

(05-27-2013 02:37 AM)Boy Toy Wrote:  

(05-25-2013 08:32 AM)Kristian Wrote:  

your site is great man!

I would suggest more post in "get a life" about how to earn a living,I mean..the best way to live independently by yourself and how to have a sustainable lifestyle

In the part of "girls" ,would be interesting to write a post about "flow"..the state you achieve when you start to have success and how to escalate and maintain in it

great work!

Thanks man, I'll keep that in mind!

Looking forward to read them

[Kristian]

hey thomas when are you going to reléase the next post? chare it here

[Boy Toy]

Well I just wrote about my weekend where I fucked 3 girls in 30 hours, in a foreign city. All public sex haha. Plenty of pictures included:
http://www.boytoystory.com/saturday-25-05-2013/

[Kristian]

(05-30-2013 02:21 PM)Boy Toy Wrote:  

Well I just wrote about my weekend where I fucked 3 girls in 30 hours, in a foreign city. All public sex haha. Plenty of pictures included:
http://www.boytoystory.com/saturday-25-05-2013/

wauu it's amazing bro!

do you have similar lay reports of crazy nights?