Anyone had experience with passive LMR? Its happened to me a few times when youll be making out or whatever, shes well into it, moaning and wet. Then all of a sudden she kinda just goes limp and pretends to be falling asleep without saying anything. Needless to say this is a huge turnoff and makes me feel like a rapist trying to push through that. I usually just go to sleep and try again in the morning.
Perspectives on Last Minute Resistance (LMR)
Quote: (09-12-2012 07:24 AM)Nudge Wrote:
Anyone had experience with passive LMR? Its happened to me a few times when youll be making out or whatever, shes well into it, moaning and wet. Then all of a sudden she kinda just goes limp and pretends to be falling asleep without saying anything. Needless to say this is a huge turnoff and makes me feel like a rapist trying to push through that. I usually just go to sleep and try again in the morning.
Had some experience with this with a chick when I was in college. If it was at her place, I'd usually say "seriously?" and try to wake her up. If she continued preteneding I'd get out of bed, start putting my clothes on, and act like I'm leaving. She'll usually get pissed you're not spending the night, and like me, you'll end up banging her in the bathroom.
If it was at my place, I'd pretend to fall asleep as well, and 10 minutes later, kick her off the bed. I'd say oh sorry, I have involuntary reflexes sometimes when I sleep, or I had a bad dream. She's usually pissed at this point, and this is where you can say you have some big assignment/project thing to do at work and you need your sleep. She'll beg and plead this is where you say, well if you're going to stay, im awake now, you better tire me back out.
^^Good tips. I think these girls who come over but don't want to bang are you using you for a warm masculine body to lie next to and to even try and cuddle you all night. Even like a cuddle and dump some of them. Had a few girls tell me they go completely crazy if they dont have a male body lying next to them every so often, more so than not having sex. Best way to deal with it: Either leave their place or kick them out of your place. If they wont give you what you want then don't give them what they want.
Anybody have LMR not particularly in the bedroom but just getting her back to your place? I had a 6.5 white leaning in asking questions and when I mentioned"get something to eat at my place " (about a hr in) she smiled started in space for about 5 seconds and said I would prefer to eat somewhere in public. I defeated b/c Ive learned not to feed a girl in public untill you fucked. She seemed so horny though I just didn't know how to get past her LMR . I only live 5 minutes away
Growth Over Everything Else.
It's the way you framed things, it's how you entered the conversation and how you asked her.
Comfort game is a big part of this.
Sure she was leaning in asking questions, but "get something to eat at my place" sounds boring and doesn't sound baity.
If you said, "I cook a mean X (some kind of dish) and have a great win to pair with it, we should grab a glass and hangout while I cook us X"
That sounds more baity, it'll impress her, and soothe her hamster.
Dropping bait BEFORE pulling the trigger is extremely important.
Talking about things AT your place, talking about movies she likes, talking about art, or stuff you have that you can relate to your conversation with her.
Once you get an idea of what she digs, invite her to your place to check those things out.
You should be gathering intel on her over a few drinks and then probing to see if she'd be interested in coming to your place.
How did you know she was so horny ? Just because she was leaning in and talking to you ?
Comfort game is a big part of this.
Sure she was leaning in asking questions, but "get something to eat at my place" sounds boring and doesn't sound baity.
If you said, "I cook a mean X (some kind of dish) and have a great win to pair with it, we should grab a glass and hangout while I cook us X"
That sounds more baity, it'll impress her, and soothe her hamster.
Dropping bait BEFORE pulling the trigger is extremely important.
Talking about things AT your place, talking about movies she likes, talking about art, or stuff you have that you can relate to your conversation with her.
Once you get an idea of what she digs, invite her to your place to check those things out.
You should be gathering intel on her over a few drinks and then probing to see if she'd be interested in coming to your place.
How did you know she was so horny ? Just because she was leaning in and talking to you ?
Quote: (03-06-2017 05:53 PM)kaotic Wrote:
It's the way you framed things, it's how you entered the conversation and how you asked her.
Comfort game is a big part of this.
Sure she was leaning in asking questions, but "get something to eat at my place" sounds boring and doesn't sound baity.
If you said, "I cook a mean X (some kind of dish) and have a great win to pair with it, we should grab a glass and hangout while I cook us X"
That sounds more baity, it'll impress her, and soothe her hamster.
Dropping bait BEFORE pulling the trigger is extremely important.
Talking about things AT your place, talking about movies she likes, talking about art, or stuff you have that you can relate to your conversation with her.
Once you get an idea of what she digs, invite her to your place to check those things out.
You should be gathering intel on her over a few drinks and then probing to see if she'd be interested in coming to your place.
How did you know she was so horny ? Just because she was leaning in and talking to you ?
She was leaning in asking personal questions. Even at the end of our chat today when she had to leave when we exchanged number she asked me what I was doing Friday since she didn't want to come to my place today. I told her working and studying "but we could probably hang out, I'll let you know".
She seems like a undersexed gal. I'm getting that vibe from her. I just got back into game this girl just fell in my lap today at the coffee shop.
Growth Over Everything Else.
So you met this girl randomly at a place you were at ? Or was this from online ?
Quote: (03-06-2017 06:49 PM)kaotic Wrote:
So you met this girl randomly at a place you were at ? Or was this from online ?
It was at a coffee shop
Growth Over Everything Else.
Ah got it, so in person approach and number pull.
First meet pulls can be tough, especially a coffee shop, and not enough comfort.
More than likely it was comfort, get her out for a 1st date and you'll probably be able to pull.
First meet pulls can be tough, especially a coffee shop, and not enough comfort.
More than likely it was comfort, get her out for a 1st date and you'll probably be able to pull.
Quote: (03-07-2017 02:26 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Ah got it, so in person approach and number pull.
First meet pulls can be tough, especially a coffee shop, and not enough comfort.
More than likely it was comfort, get her out for a 1st date and you'll probably be able to pull.
Got a date tomorrow will update with details brother.
Growth Over Everything Else.
You should post your date results in the player's log/lounge more gents will look at it there and can give more insight !
My 'favorite' type of LMR is when they tell you they are on their period.
My latest notch was over on Tuesday, and it was HER idea to go back to my apartment in the first place. So I get her on my bed, her pants off and then she says "You're going to hate me". Really?! You're going to wait until this very moment to tell me you're bleeding? At this point it could have even been a sort of shit test. I am hard as a rock, she is obviously DTF and she thinks this is going to stop me? Ha.
She told me last night it turned her on that idgaf.
My latest notch was over on Tuesday, and it was HER idea to go back to my apartment in the first place. So I get her on my bed, her pants off and then she says "You're going to hate me". Really?! You're going to wait until this very moment to tell me you're bleeding? At this point it could have even been a sort of shit test. I am hard as a rock, she is obviously DTF and she thinks this is going to stop me? Ha.
She told me last night it turned her on that idgaf.
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Quote: (03-06-2017 05:53 PM)kaotic Wrote:
It's the way you framed things, it's how you entered the conversation and how you asked her.
Comfort game is a big part of this.
Sure she was leaning in asking questions, but "get something to eat at my place" sounds boring and doesn't sound baity.
If you said, "I cook a mean X (some kind of dish) and have a great win to pair with it, we should grab a glass and hangout while I cook us X"
That sounds more baity, it'll impress her, and soothe her hamster.
Dropping bait BEFORE pulling the trigger is extremely important.
Completely agree with you.
It is about seeding, terminology and framing. I never ever say "my place" that phrase has bad connotations and is a red flag for girls.
Aside from this warming up a girl at the bar/taxi on the way back is key. I've had girls recently who were clearly wet on the taxi with the way I was talking to them and touching them. I still generally avoid the kiss until their back at "my place". I've touched up girls breasts and close to fingering them on occasions. I don't go too far but just enough for them to get hot under the collar.
Look at my last 30 or so bangs in the I Just Had Sex Thread to see how I pull girls.
Seed, tease, warm up, pull.
I noticed that the first responses in this thread were from 2011. They were the ones that were the most forward, literally saying "no means yes" and pushing through it.
I wonder if responses have changed in 2017, what with all the feminism and legal hurdles and guys getting charges.
I wonder if responses have changed in 2017, what with all the feminism and legal hurdles and guys getting charges.
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