Quote: (08-29-2014 08:36 AM)robreke Wrote:
Quote: (08-29-2014 08:30 AM)MtnMan Wrote:
i've gotten an ex back for a couple months of heavy and hot banging. It was great fun, and the sex haunts me to this day...however, it caused my true self improvement to backslide some, and cost me a few new notch counts. She lost interest again when she could detect I was catching feelings again.
It was a fun time, but it was not a great idea. Proceed with caution, it WILL NOT make you a better man.
A question and an observation:
1. How did you get her back? Ignore and she called you...how long did she take to call if so? Or did you reinitiate...and if so...after how long?
Observation- I find it incredible how women can fuck without getting emotionally involved and men do get emotionally involved. From an evolutionary standpoint....it seems it would be opposite. That women should get emotional and start falling in love after an alpha fuck and men would be more aloof.
If guess it has to do with the feminization of society and the fact that women lose bonding capabilities after so many partners ( read cocks in their twats )
we had lived together for many years and she had to come by to get some stuff. I had initiated NC for several weeks prior, she sent texts like "i really miss talking to you etc". I ignored them.
She stopped by, I was looking good, dressed well, been working out, my place was looking mint, ignored her pretty hard, then kino'd her a little bit, and pulled her in for this kiss. This kicked off a bang session of epic proportions.
But hear me on this: I DO NOT FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT OR PROUD OF IT. It was like I was giving her back the power. It was hot as shit, and the sex was amazing, but it cut me down a few steps and took my self rebuilding back a couple months. I don't really regret it now, since it didn't have much long lasting effect on my life, but I wouldn't recommend doing this.
Like others have said earlier in this thread, if you TRUELY improve yourself, you should be aiming for an upgrade anyhow. The girl I am seeing now is an upgrade for sure, and I am wondering how I was so stuck on my ex back then.