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Man this is gonna be a looooong fuckin' rant, but it has to be said.
After spending a while looking for a ltr in the w4m personals, I've found so many different issues that I'm truly shocked if people even end up finding anyone to be with.
So far what I've found:
1. Fatties who want TALL and RICH guys, and of course, FIT! But you must be ok with BBW, or "Curvy".
Guess what, *no one* is ok with it. Guys who are chubby chasers probably just do it because they can't get anything better. I honestly have no idea, and I'm sure there's like a handful of those, and they themselves are fat and ugly.
2. Older women (over 30's) who now want to "settle down". I'm sorry, but I've had like 2 girls I've slept with in my entire life (I'm 28) and they were steady gf's that we ended up breaking up for whatever reasons. So why is it ok for you to sleep with a different guy every week in your 20's, and then once you've had like 40+ dicks inside you, then you want to "settle down" and find your "soulmate". What the fuck is up with that? And you admit it in your ads! You say things like "Why is is so hard to find a good guy" and then you say "All I ever end up finding is losers that treat me badly". Or you say stuff like "I've had my fun and I'm ready to settle down now". Well, you're definitely not "settling down" with me, that's for sure.
3. Sugarbabies. Fuck what is it with the prostitution in this city??? I've had a bunch of e-mails from great looking women, but they all want "a mutually beneficial relationship". Yeah, you want to get payed for sex. I don't give a fuck if you're an escort, or a college girl in "financial difficulty", or whatever lame excuse you want to give. You simply want the benefit of getting payed a whole day's salary for letting some fat fuck stick his dick in your pussy for 5 minutes. Must be nice to be able to do that huh? You don't have to give out any of your emotions, just become a fuck doll for 5-10 mins and get payed $100+.
And I'll talk a bit about the men as well. I started looking at the ads on the m4w, and holy shit, all there is is men offering money for sex. Everything is "benefits, benefits, $$$". No fucking wonder women have no interest in dating anymore!! They will get payed huge amounts of money for just opening their legs to a bunch of fucking fat losers with no life. I'm almost happy they are throwing their money away and would give a fuck if they weren't hurting it for the guys actually trying to find good women to date and eventually marry.
So in the interest of people in general being happier, I would suggest the following to both men and women:
There are things you can change, and things you can't about yourself. Your weight is definitely something you can change! I attached a pic of myself. As you can see, I work out and try to keep fit. I know it's not easy to get this ripped, I've been at it for a few years.
However, it IS easy to lose morbid amounts of weight to look more normal. Take a look at the pics I attached. The one holding the phone is me. The others I got from a good fitness website.
As you can see, I am around 8% bf. That's not easy to achieve. But 25%-30% for a guy is dead easy to do!!!! Just work out 4 times a week, and go to bed hungry and you'll get there in a few months, and most women would start to find you attractive and you wouldn't have to pay for sex anymore!
And while you're at it, stop being a fucking dick and learn how to be masculine dammit! Stop thinking solely with your cock and start thinking like a good man who wants to have a healthy relationship with a woman!
I'll even get you started on a couple of websites: http://www.builtlean.com, http://postmasculine.com, http://www.rooshv.com
For women, STOP believing the bullshit you are fed from stupid uber-feminist sites like Jezebel.com. It is NOT ok to be 200lbs+. Just like you WANT your guy to be attractive, the guy wants to find YOU attractive. You are actually in a better position, because you can have higher bodyfat and still look attractive to men. Look at the pics of women on that pic. From my experience, women tend to like the guys around 10-15% bf. To them that seems to be the ideal range of hotness. I can tell you for guys that # is higher in women. Most of us think the girl at 25% is super hot, and we're cool with the 30% and the 35% girl as well.
If you are higher than that, you are not "curvy" or "bbw" or "a few extra pounds". You are fat! in some cases obese!! Same for the men who are over 30% bf, you are fat!!!
It is so damn easy to get below 30% for most guys, and below 40% for most women. If you honestly have a medical condition, see your doctor!! They will be glad to help you because too much fat is unhealthy.
Now women specifically, STOP searching for your fantasy man if you are not going to try to at least be close to his fantasy woman. If you are over 40% bf, or if you've slept with more than 5 guys before finding your "one", you don't deserve him!!
And men who post on m4w, stop being such fucking trolls!! STOP paying for sex!! Stop offering money for sexual favours!! Become better men, and perhaps women will want you without you having to dump your whole paychecks on them!!
