Leave your house every morning ready to charm the most beautiful girl in your city
04-23-2013, 11:43 AM
Every day before you leave your house, you need to be 100% physically and mentally prepared to approach and charm the most beautiful woman you will see that day. Yesterday I missed a chance to talk to a couple of beautiful girls that I'll never see again. Today I'm writing this thread.
Physically and mentally prepared....
Physical:
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and be happy with what you see. Moreover, you need to imagine that a girl walks by you that has a perfect body, dressed to the dimes, and out of most guys' league. Can you confidently talk to her? Are you dressed as well as she is? Are you in better shape than she is? (Have you shaved your neckbeard?)
Feeling your best every day comprises both the daily component of leaving the house looking and feeling your best and the long-term component of eating right and getting in shape.
Yesterday I let two young sexy latinas walk by without opening my mouth because, in part, I didn't feel like I could approach them when I knew I wasn't looking my best with this the-semester-is-almost-over mediocre clothes and neckbeard look I'm rocking.
Mental:
First, you need to mentally visualize scenarios you are going to encounter throughout the day. Where am I going to run into the most beautiful girl I see today and how will I talk to her? What will I say if she's sitting next to me on the metro? What will I say if she's walking towards me or in front of me on the sidewalk? These encounters often have a short window where you can organically open a girl and you need to be mentally prepared to take advantage of that moment that can only be two seconds long -- can you swivel back around and chase a girl that you let walk by you? Can you creepily approach a girl who noticed you see her two blocks back and watched you follow her the whole way while you were thinking of something clever to say? You need to be ready and have at least a few decent ideas of what you'll say and how you'll say it when you are going to talk to her.
With those pretty latina girls yesterday, I was next to them at an intersection and was not ready with anything to say other than some lame questions. I only had something better after the moment had passed -- if I had thought of that at the beginning of my day and had left my house feeling my best, I'd surely have the number of a beautiful, young, black-haired girl right now.
I think one thing we all need to focus on is that, when it comes to making connections with top quality women, you can never afford to have an off day if you want to really graduate from 6's and 7's to 8's and 9's. Having an off day means not being ready to take advantage of the brief moments where your path crosses with that of desirable women. That was your one chance in life to know that particular girl, you missed it, and now you have to wait until the next chance comes along. You have to be ready anywhere- a few days ago I got a phone number from a girl who I chatted up in a pizza place for just 3 minutes.
Prepare yourself for a can't-miss opportunity every day. A constant daily reminder that, when we leave our homes, we are physically and mentally preparing ourselves to pounce on those short windows of opportunity will mean we never have to miss our chances. Plus, a daily reminder of this goal will help us stay motivated with our other, related life goals as well -- eating right, practicing game, and being the men we want to be.
I'm making this physical and mental preparation a part of my daily ritual. I will continue to let you guys know my progress.
Physically and mentally prepared....
Physical:
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and be happy with what you see. Moreover, you need to imagine that a girl walks by you that has a perfect body, dressed to the dimes, and out of most guys' league. Can you confidently talk to her? Are you dressed as well as she is? Are you in better shape than she is? (Have you shaved your neckbeard?)
Feeling your best every day comprises both the daily component of leaving the house looking and feeling your best and the long-term component of eating right and getting in shape.
Yesterday I let two young sexy latinas walk by without opening my mouth because, in part, I didn't feel like I could approach them when I knew I wasn't looking my best with this the-semester-is-almost-over mediocre clothes and neckbeard look I'm rocking.
Mental:
First, you need to mentally visualize scenarios you are going to encounter throughout the day. Where am I going to run into the most beautiful girl I see today and how will I talk to her? What will I say if she's sitting next to me on the metro? What will I say if she's walking towards me or in front of me on the sidewalk? These encounters often have a short window where you can organically open a girl and you need to be mentally prepared to take advantage of that moment that can only be two seconds long -- can you swivel back around and chase a girl that you let walk by you? Can you creepily approach a girl who noticed you see her two blocks back and watched you follow her the whole way while you were thinking of something clever to say? You need to be ready and have at least a few decent ideas of what you'll say and how you'll say it when you are going to talk to her.
With those pretty latina girls yesterday, I was next to them at an intersection and was not ready with anything to say other than some lame questions. I only had something better after the moment had passed -- if I had thought of that at the beginning of my day and had left my house feeling my best, I'd surely have the number of a beautiful, young, black-haired girl right now.
I think one thing we all need to focus on is that, when it comes to making connections with top quality women, you can never afford to have an off day if you want to really graduate from 6's and 7's to 8's and 9's. Having an off day means not being ready to take advantage of the brief moments where your path crosses with that of desirable women. That was your one chance in life to know that particular girl, you missed it, and now you have to wait until the next chance comes along. You have to be ready anywhere- a few days ago I got a phone number from a girl who I chatted up in a pizza place for just 3 minutes.
Prepare yourself for a can't-miss opportunity every day. A constant daily reminder that, when we leave our homes, we are physically and mentally preparing ourselves to pounce on those short windows of opportunity will mean we never have to miss our chances. Plus, a daily reminder of this goal will help us stay motivated with our other, related life goals as well -- eating right, practicing game, and being the men we want to be.
I'm making this physical and mental preparation a part of my daily ritual. I will continue to let you guys know my progress.