[bacan]

Every day before you leave your house, you need to be 100% physically and mentally prepared to approach and charm the most beautiful woman you will see that day. Yesterday I missed a chance to talk to a couple of beautiful girls that I'll never see again. Today I'm writing this thread.

Physically and mentally prepared....

Physical:
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and be happy with what you see. Moreover, you need to imagine that a girl walks by you that has a perfect body, dressed to the dimes, and out of most guys' league. Can you confidently talk to her? Are you dressed as well as she is? Are you in better shape than she is? (Have you shaved your neckbeard?)

Feeling your best every day comprises both the daily component of leaving the house looking and feeling your best and the long-term component of eating right and getting in shape.

Yesterday I let two young sexy latinas walk by without opening my mouth because, in part, I didn't feel like I could approach them when I knew I wasn't looking my best with this the-semester-is-almost-over mediocre clothes and neckbeard look I'm rocking.

Mental:
First, you need to mentally visualize scenarios you are going to encounter throughout the day. Where am I going to run into the most beautiful girl I see today and how will I talk to her? What will I say if she's sitting next to me on the metro? What will I say if she's walking towards me or in front of me on the sidewalk? These encounters often have a short window where you can organically open a girl and you need to be mentally prepared to take advantage of that moment that can only be two seconds long -- can you swivel back around and chase a girl that you let walk by you? Can you creepily approach a girl who noticed you see her two blocks back and watched you follow her the whole way while you were thinking of something clever to say? You need to be ready and have at least a few decent ideas of what you'll say and how you'll say it when you are going to talk to her.

With those pretty latina girls yesterday, I was next to them at an intersection and was not ready with anything to say other than some lame questions. I only had something better after the moment had passed -- if I had thought of that at the beginning of my day and had left my house feeling my best, I'd surely have the number of a beautiful, young, black-haired girl right now.

I think one thing we all need to focus on is that, when it comes to making connections with top quality women, you can never afford to have an off day if you want to really graduate from 6's and 7's to 8's and 9's. Having an off day means not being ready to take advantage of the brief moments where your path crosses with that of desirable women. That was your one chance in life to know that particular girl, you missed it, and now you have to wait until the next chance comes along. You have to be ready anywhere- a few days ago I got a phone number from a girl who I chatted up in a pizza place for just 3 minutes.

Prepare yourself for a can't-miss opportunity every day. A constant daily reminder that, when we leave our homes, we are physically and mentally preparing ourselves to pounce on those short windows of opportunity will mean we never have to miss our chances. Plus, a daily reminder of this goal will help us stay motivated with our other, related life goals as well -- eating right, practicing game, and being the men we want to be.

I'm making this physical and mental preparation a part of my daily ritual. I will continue to let you guys know my progress.

[Kickb]

Quote:

TheGmanifesto -

[gandt]

This resonates with me so well. I fall into the same trap you do:

mental masterbation

When I am not looking my flyest I always question myself about how the girl will respond when she sees this slob.

The lesson should be two fold:

1) Always approach no matter way

2) Always be 100% ready (the message from your post)

[MikeinMKE]

It's uncanny... if you leave the house looking like a slob you will see multiple girls that you would like to talk to and approach.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Yeah, I'm very prone to not talking to girls I could have easily and harmlessly opened because of chickening out over minor details, then rationalizing it as some kind of abundance mentality.

[Sebastian]

It happens when you are Least prepared.

I dress nice and am a game mode. I try to make good eye contacts but it goes nowhere.

I am not dressed nice. my hair is weird and my breath smells bad. somehow, this girl is obviously checking me out.

I think anyone can dress nice and hit on girls at a bar. (that's what I usually do lol)
But only the few can handle that pressure they didn't expect.

[connoisseur]

(04-23-2013 04:43 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  

It's uncanny... if you leave the house looking like a slob you will see multiple girls that you would like to talk to and approach.

Let me preface this with: I've been living in my condo for 16 months and have seen a total of 10-15 people walking around in that time. So today, I went down to my garage today to get a pack of water bottles from my car, and as I am walking up I see a hot chic from my building.

Too bad -- and I KNEW this would happen prior -- I hadn't shaved and was wearing the shittiest T-shirt I had in my closet because I had chosen to sleep with it last night.

Shortly thereafter, I showered, shaved, and put on my $650 Ralph Lauren shoes with some other fine apparel and set out for the day. But damn, isn't it so very true? ANY time you decide to just step out for one second looking like shit, there is this UNCANNY chance a hot girl will present herself. ALWAYS BE READY.

[little wing]

In Don Draper's Guide To Picking Up Women from SNL, one step is to always look fantastic.
Don't leave the house looking less than fantastic

[bacan]

Oops, to reply to this thread you have to delete a few characters in the subject field ("in your city" or something). In case anyone didn't reply the first time..

Edit: Tried, but too much time has gone by for me to change the title

[chamele0n]

Don't put pussy on a pedestal. Whatever you look like is OK, most hot women are with slobs anyway, women are subconsciously attracted to alpha behavior and to provider potential, they don't give a **** about your t-shirt or whether you shaved. If anything, not shaving just presents you as a more healthy male, as more body/facial hair = more testosterone.

Women say they are not attracted to unshaved cavemen, but they'd rather f*** an unshaved caveman behind the back of a shaved beta provider in a suit that will help them raise alpha's kids.

Be all you can be.

[The Pumpkin King]

(05-17-2013 01:19 AM)chamele0n Wrote:  

Don't put pussy on a pedestal. Whatever you look like is OK, most hot women are with slobs anyway, women are subconsciously attracted to alpha behavior and to provider potential, they don't give a **** about your t-shirt or whether you shaved. If anything, not shaving just presents you as a more healthy male, as more body/facial hair = more testosterone.

Women say they are not attracted to unshaved cavemen, but they'd rather f*** an unshaved caveman behind the back of a shaved beta provider in a suit that will help them raise alpha's kids.

Be all you can be.

I agree with this fully. At least 90% of my success rate has come on days when I truly didn't give a shit about anything. I used to prepare for the club by making sure I was 100% clean shaven etc, and all the times I said fuck shaving and had a mustard stain on my shirt I got SNL, and make outs. I don't disagree with being your best self, but caring too much puts you in the wrong mindset. Shit, I was drunk and sweaty on campus yesterday pulling #'s while all the beta guys were worried about me getting "caught".

[G'sUp2000]

(04-23-2013 11:43 AM)bacan Wrote:  

Every day before you leave your house, you need to be 100% physically and mentally prepared to approach and charm the most beautiful woman you will see that day. Yesterday I missed a chance to talk to a couple of beautiful girls that I'll never see again. Today I'm writing this thread.

Physically and mentally prepared....

Physical:
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and be happy with what you see. Moreover, you need to imagine that a girl walks by you that has a perfect body, dressed to the dimes, and out of most guys' league. Can you confidently talk to her? Are you dressed as well as she is? Are you in better shape than she is? (Have you shaved your neckbeard?)

Feeling your best every day comprises both the daily component of leaving the house looking and feeling your best and the long-term component of eating right and getting in shape.

Yesterday I let two young sexy latinas walk by without opening my mouth because, in part, I didn't feel like I could approach them when I knew I wasn't looking my best with this the-semester-is-almost-over mediocre clothes and neckbeard look I'm rocking.

Mental:
First, you need to mentally visualize scenarios you are going to encounter throughout the day. Where am I going to run into the most beautiful girl I see today and how will I talk to her? What will I say if she's sitting next to me on the metro? What will I say if she's walking towards me or in front of me on the sidewalk? These encounters often have a short window where you can organically open a girl and you need to be mentally prepared to take advantage of that moment that can only be two seconds long -- can you swivel back around and chase a girl that you let walk by you? Can you creepily approach a girl who noticed you see her two blocks back and watched you follow her the whole way while you were thinking of something clever to say? You need to be ready and have at least a few decent ideas of what you'll say and how you'll say it when you are going to talk to her.

With those pretty latina girls yesterday, I was next to them at an intersection and was not ready with anything to say other than some lame questions. I only had something better after the moment had passed -- if I had thought of that at the beginning of my day and had left my house feeling my best, I'd surely have the number of a beautiful, young, black-haired girl right now.

I think one thing we all need to focus on is that, when it comes to making connections with top quality women, you can never afford to have an off day if you want to really graduate from 6's and 7's to 8's and 9's. Having an off day means not being ready to take advantage of the brief moments where your path crosses with that of desirable women. That was your one chance in life to know that particular girl, you missed it, and now you have to wait until the next chance comes along. You have to be ready anywhere- a few days ago I got a phone number from a girl who I chatted up in a pizza place for just 3 minutes.

Prepare yourself for a can't-miss opportunity every day. A constant daily reminder that, when we leave our homes, we are physically and mentally preparing ourselves to pounce on those short windows of opportunity will mean we never have to miss our chances. Plus, a daily reminder of this goal will help us stay motivated with our other, related life goals as well -- eating right, practicing game, and being the men we want to be.

I'm making this physical and mental preparation a part of my daily ritual. I will continue to let you guys know my progress.

Preach the gospel man. Yes when you go out, we gotta definitely be ready for any beautiful woman we encounter and have the mentality that we are going to talk to her, game her, show her what a great guy we are and that she is so lucky to have met us in this random setting. Then get the number and go about our merry way.