Alright Houston, I'll try to recollect it but MattC was the main one, it took a lot of work initially but once his train of thought was established and his mindset was sorted it really was an easy ride, he's always learning and it's easy with a guy who's ready to have his mind opened rather than living in a set routine and monotony that he hates/hated.
He contacted me through a football/soccer club forum due to some members on their in a jealousy try to out me as a womaniser, sexist, chauvinist, whatever due to number of quite sexy girls I'd be boning on a regular basis. I messaged him back on the board asking him what his issues were and I'd see if I could help. He told me about how he was stuck in this particular path that he didn't want and that he'd always get the same shit advice from people which would not actually help him develop in anyway but would keep him stuck to his path.
I offered him the other path, a bit like Morpheus to Neo I guess and also told him that I would meet but he had to be willing to change and give up any belief system he presently held in regards to women and getting laid. He sent me his number and I got him to meet me in central london on a saturday afternoon. We had a pub lunch, some beers as I explained to him how I got to how I was now and how me, him and billions of men faced the same issues. I showed him 'evidence' of my actions and showed him how to do it, I got him to read as many red pill blogs as he could, in particular reading Krauser's blog from day one to see how hard Krauser worked over those years to get to how he is now.
I laid out everything in front of him, the hardwork he needed to do, the mindset he needed, the beliefs he'd have to drop, the friends he would most likely to have to kill (drop), the clothes he should burn. Or he could continue as he was, depressed, unhappy, chasing girls (thirsty game). It was the scales, option A, or option B. It's great when a guy chooses the option you suggest, you know then that this guy has the power within him to go through with it and do what he needs to do.
When they choose to continue as they are, then this is where you need to eject, you can't waste any more time and value. This is the guy who won't strive to work hard on himself, to better himself, he's relaxed even if he's unhappy, he will bemoan the unhappiness rather than change why he's unhappy or find out why he's unhappy.
Matt's had the problems on the way, we all do, the transition, the 'beta' tendencies, the 'oneitis', he's made posts on our blog and on here about it. These are hardships you have to face, he bounced back after everyone, he knew what he wanted, what helped? Was probably seeing where me and Jimmy were and him wanting to be even better than us. He will be, he's younger than us and he's better already in my eyes. His notch count may not compare, but he has time to catch up, shit he still learns stuff from me and Jimmy, there's somethings that become so natural to you that you forget you had to work at them to be like that, you end up forgetting to pass them on. Inner game was the hardest part for him, for me too and still is sometimes. I think it's why he's quite lucky, I'm quite lucky, Jimmy's quite lucky. We rely on each other, I wish I could get more guys molded into players, man when you're in trouble, these are the guys you'll go to.
Example:
Matt - "Man, how does this shirt look with my suit?"
Old Friend - "Boss mate, you look boss"
Jimmy/me - "Lad what the fuck are you doing, take that shit off now mate, come on lad you know you gotta......"
We are all honest and pretty fucking raw with each other, everyone out there is leeching value with lies of whoever they can. It's a shame so many more have decided to continue on with their lives as they were, expecting a lottery win or some magic dick genie to turn up to get them the type of pussy that they strive for, or in many a man's case that pussy they desire.
I have no idea of what hesitations he had, any anxiety from taking the new path in life, you'll have to get them from him. I'm sure he did, plenty of people were slandering me and that can leave an impression on your blue pill mind, but the guys when they see the pictures of the girls, they want that and want to learn that, I guess Matt really wanted that. Good on the little fucker.
He contacted me through a football/soccer club forum due to some members on their in a jealousy try to out me as a womaniser, sexist, chauvinist, whatever due to number of quite sexy girls I'd be boning on a regular basis. I messaged him back on the board asking him what his issues were and I'd see if I could help. He told me about how he was stuck in this particular path that he didn't want and that he'd always get the same shit advice from people which would not actually help him develop in anyway but would keep him stuck to his path.
I offered him the other path, a bit like Morpheus to Neo I guess and also told him that I would meet but he had to be willing to change and give up any belief system he presently held in regards to women and getting laid. He sent me his number and I got him to meet me in central london on a saturday afternoon. We had a pub lunch, some beers as I explained to him how I got to how I was now and how me, him and billions of men faced the same issues. I showed him 'evidence' of my actions and showed him how to do it, I got him to read as many red pill blogs as he could, in particular reading Krauser's blog from day one to see how hard Krauser worked over those years to get to how he is now.
I laid out everything in front of him, the hardwork he needed to do, the mindset he needed, the beliefs he'd have to drop, the friends he would most likely to have to kill (drop), the clothes he should burn. Or he could continue as he was, depressed, unhappy, chasing girls (thirsty game). It was the scales, option A, or option B. It's great when a guy chooses the option you suggest, you know then that this guy has the power within him to go through with it and do what he needs to do.
When they choose to continue as they are, then this is where you need to eject, you can't waste any more time and value. This is the guy who won't strive to work hard on himself, to better himself, he's relaxed even if he's unhappy, he will bemoan the unhappiness rather than change why he's unhappy or find out why he's unhappy.
Matt's had the problems on the way, we all do, the transition, the 'beta' tendencies, the 'oneitis', he's made posts on our blog and on here about it. These are hardships you have to face, he bounced back after everyone, he knew what he wanted, what helped? Was probably seeing where me and Jimmy were and him wanting to be even better than us. He will be, he's younger than us and he's better already in my eyes. His notch count may not compare, but he has time to catch up, shit he still learns stuff from me and Jimmy, there's somethings that become so natural to you that you forget you had to work at them to be like that, you end up forgetting to pass them on. Inner game was the hardest part for him, for me too and still is sometimes. I think it's why he's quite lucky, I'm quite lucky, Jimmy's quite lucky. We rely on each other, I wish I could get more guys molded into players, man when you're in trouble, these are the guys you'll go to.
Example:
Matt - "Man, how does this shirt look with my suit?"
Old Friend - "Boss mate, you look boss"
Jimmy/me - "Lad what the fuck are you doing, take that shit off now mate, come on lad you know you gotta......"
We are all honest and pretty fucking raw with each other, everyone out there is leeching value with lies of whoever they can. It's a shame so many more have decided to continue on with their lives as they were, expecting a lottery win or some magic dick genie to turn up to get them the type of pussy that they strive for, or in many a man's case that pussy they desire.
I have no idea of what hesitations he had, any anxiety from taking the new path in life, you'll have to get them from him. I'm sure he did, plenty of people were slandering me and that can leave an impression on your blue pill mind, but the guys when they see the pictures of the girls, they want that and want to learn that, I guess Matt really wanted that. Good on the little fucker.
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