[j r]

A lot of these answers seem defensive for a comment that was likely harmless.

Getting a woman to start talking about what she finds attractive is an opening to a sexualized conversation. I'm surprised that more people don't see that opportunity.

[rudebwoy]

Face to Face - one word answer "Really?" with a shit eating grin on your face.

Smart answers make you seem insecure.

[Lothario]

(04-08-2013 06:53 PM)dotbiz Wrote:  

A friend recently had a date with a girl he opened in the club.

Talking about the night they met, she gave him the following shit test:

Quote:

I think there were many very good looking men in the club that night.

What would have been your answer to this?

One Startegy that fits well to answer shit tests is to Agree and Amplify and to have a non reactive attitude.

I would have said in a very neutral tone " Yes ..... Pause ..... Shit eating grin...... and you scooped the best one "

[soup]

(04-08-2013 08:01 PM)germanico Wrote:  

"Yeah, thats a good club"

And thats it.

React emotionally and you are fucked.

Something like this and then be sure to flirt with two girls in front of her in the near future.

2/3 rule.

[dotbiz]

(04-09-2013 09:18 AM)beaversarefun Wrote:  

(04-09-2013 09:05 AM)dotbiz Wrote:  

She followed up with something along the line of: "Does this make you jealous?" which implies he hasn't passed the shit test in her eyes.

I dont think so. I think she realised that he doesn't give a shit about her oh so subtle attempts to make him feel insecure. Thats why she bluntly follows up with the direct question about wether or not the thought makes him jealous.

(04-09-2013 09:21 AM)MrXY Wrote:  

I read this as the girl being frustrated that she couldn't provoke your friend into a jealous reaction. Her complaint is a sign he did pass the test- remember- when a girl complains that you aren't doing what she says wants you to do, you are almost always on the right track.

The way he told me her reaction was more like "Oh, did that make you jealous?". IMHO she got the impression it hurt him.

Anyway, to be fair that girl was a tough one. Not drinking. Apparently had only one boyfriend before (her age: 24). And is an emigrant from the Balkans, although she grew up here (Switzerland) and has only Swiss friends, so not influenced by her conservative background anymore.

By the way my friend is not game aware at all, although he's not a beta. He goes to boxing, does approach women and knows how to flirt. But he's very open and thus quite vulnerable when on a date.

[dotbiz]

(04-09-2013 06:53 PM)j r Wrote:  

A lot of these answers seem defensive for a comment that was likely harmless.

Getting a woman to start talking about what she finds attractive is an opening to a sexualized conversation. I'm surprised that more people don't see that opportunity.

I have to admit I never looked at it this way!

Interesting point, I'll try to consider that next time I'm in a situation like this.

[EisenBarde]

"And what, exactly, did you like about them?" Is usually my go-fer. I'll say it slowly. Gives me time to frame myself and not get rushed into a reaction.

The gay bachelor party line is killer, but a lot of us don't always get these right on the spot.

Even if you can't hit a home run every time, you can avoid striking out.

[Lazarus]

(04-09-2013 06:53 PM)j r Wrote:  

A lot of these answers seem defensive for a comment that was likely harmless.

Getting a woman to start talking about what she finds attractive is an opening to a sexualized conversation. I'm surprised that more people don't see that opportunity.

I'm a noob but that was my first thought.

I was thinking of doing it something like this though:

"Did you see that [guy who looks a bit like you]. Imagine his hands on your body, his lips on your lips etc" while holding eye contact and maybe touching her.

[globalunderground]

He is in Europe, so it's totally different than the US. What will work in the US would not work in Europe as well. Let's say this had been any American city:

Good reply would be: "yeah, they actually dressed pretty well for XYZ City" - and that's it. Basically calling the local male population a joke without being too overt about it. Again, excluding NYC/LA/Miami.

In Europe, even the smaller cities most guys dress fairly well, which is complete opposite of the US.

[Player_1337]

(04-09-2013 08:57 AM)Lucky Wrote:  

Now girls often say I avoid their questions or never take them seriously. And I've also never gotten laid more in my life.

[Duke Castile]

Acknowledging this with more than an eyeroll is failing the shit test. Its playing into her frame.

If this is on the phone: I hadnt noticed, ive gotta get going but lets meet at x time.

If this is via text: "you've mistaken me for someone who gives a shit. Lets meet at x time.

[Kaywhole]

(04-08-2013 07:11 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

"Yeah, weird, because all the girls were just sort of average"

Game recognized

[His Imperial Majesty]

What night?

[Special1]

Is this a shit test?

Background is that I met this girl from ecuador. Fucked her. Was quite for a long time. She was travelling, i was travelling. She said she will move in summer back to south america and we just did not meet.

Then, she texted me a week ago "Hi, how are you"
I was just saying "Hey, I am good, you are still here" and she replied "yeah, she is leaving in June" and I replied "great, let's meet for drinks before you leave" and she said "she would love to see me again" (i took that as DTF) and I was like "I can't this week but next Friday (=today)" and she was like "OK, maybe she is going to France. If not, then next Friday. I will let you know for sure" and I replied "Cool, let's chat next week then"

So, today at 5pm i was like ... OK ... i am gonna see how she is doing and if she went to France. She replied that she is not in France. Nothing else. I was like. "Ok. i am still in the office but leaving soon. Lets have some drinks tonight". She replied "haha no way. she has other plans"

[MidniteSpecial]

(04-11-2013 11:32 AM)Kaywhole Wrote:  

(04-08-2013 07:11 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

"Yeah, weird, because all the girls were just sort of average"

Game recognized

Like that one too.

[Sphere]

(04-08-2013 06:53 PM)dotbiz Wrote:  

A friend recently had a date with a girl he opened in the club.

Talking about the night they met, she gave him the following shit test:

Quote:

I think there were many very good looking men in the club that night.

What would have been your answer to this?

With descending and dismissive tonality and a straight face: Really?

(04-09-2013 09:05 AM)dotbiz Wrote:  

"Does this make you jealous?"

With similar bland matter-of-fact tonality: I'm not the jealous type. Why is that important to you?

NB: This is staircase wit. Wish I could pull this off in real time.

[Feo]

(04-08-2013 06:53 PM)dotbiz Wrote:  

A friend recently had a date with a girl he opened in the club.

Talking about the night they met, she gave him the following shit test:

Quote:

I think there were many very good looking men in the club that night.

What would have been your answer to this?

This is a shit test?

[Lights]

EVer had this shittest:

when a girl pulls out pepperspray?

[dotbiz]

(04-14-2013 10:09 PM)Lights Wrote:  

EVer had this shittest:

when a girl pulls out pepperspray?

I'm not sure how your game is like, but being alpha and rape is a different pair of shoes.

[Feo]

(04-14-2013 10:09 PM)Lights Wrote:  

EVer had this shittest:

when a girl pulls out pepperspray?

What about when she actually sprays you with the pepper spray, do you have any specific tactics to play that off smoothly?

[Khaleth]

"I know, I was actually starting to question my sexuality at one point."

Agree and Amplify like said before is the best way to go. Especially if you can make her laugh about it.

But in general, true playboys don't get phased by shit tests because they know they are the bomb. If a chick gave me her number I know it's already going to happen. Good looking competition? No problem I'm better looking. Cool competition? No problem I'm smoother. Guys with fashion? No problem I dress better. You need to genuinely believe in yourself in every aspect of your game, and if something is lacking you need to work on it. Eventually you're going to get to the point where these little retarded shit tests don't even come up because everyone else around you knows what you've already been telling yourself this whole time; IM THE FUCKING SHIT.