When I go into a date (OKC especially) using this frame of mind, I bat 1.000. Last fall I got a hat trick (3 different girls 3 days in a row) using it. Got one tonight, and probably another one Friday (although she's POF, which tend to be less educated/more effeminate/real).
After finalizing all the details, I think "this girl is gonna suck".
That way, I don't give her any credit at all, and she has to earn any positive feedback with actual effort and investment.
Helps keep me from being needy, and makes me feel like I'm the one screening her for my approval, not the other way around.
After finalizing all the details, I think "this girl is gonna suck".
That way, I don't give her any credit at all, and she has to earn any positive feedback with actual effort and investment.
Helps keep me from being needy, and makes me feel like I'm the one screening her for my approval, not the other way around.