I think preserving ego (at certain degree) has been beneficial to my mental health.
How about in this situation? It's easy to tell if she is interested or not right after you talk to her. (she asks questions too, she doesn't turn her body, she doesn't go to restroom, she doesn't give whole attention to friends etc)
When I didn't have this 'ego', I lingered around. I knew she wasn't interested by gut feeling but I thought 'maybe'
So now, if I don't see positive sign from her within several minutes, I just say 'nice meeting you' and eject.
I don't have to waste time anymore. I don't get bitter as well.
How about in this situation? It's easy to tell if she is interested or not right after you talk to her. (she asks questions too, she doesn't turn her body, she doesn't go to restroom, she doesn't give whole attention to friends etc)
When I didn't have this 'ego', I lingered around. I knew she wasn't interested by gut feeling but I thought 'maybe'
So now, if I don't see positive sign from her within several minutes, I just say 'nice meeting you' and eject.
I don't have to waste time anymore. I don't get bitter as well.
Quote: (04-12-2013 02:13 PM)GenJx Wrote:
soup is right. stop trying to preserve your ego and you will get laid more. couldnt give a shit what some random girl thinks anyway. if its someone that matters, yeah dont put up with shit