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04-02-2013, 08:57 AM
I guess I can't complain about this......
(it will be worse if you were in an opposite situation)
Even at bars, most of the time, I always end up getting connected with good girls.
(Definition for good girls: I don't know their behind curtain sexual history. I just mean, they don't have those trashy look on their face at all. I can proudly take them to the dinner with my friends and won't worry about her handling the conversation)
I don't limit myself though. I still hit on slutty hot girl, party girl types.
The conversation usually goes nowhere.
I had good interaction with this nurse lady last week. we talked about travelling, other cultures, foods, careers etc. I can't talk about those with those slutty hot girls.
I don't want to say 'they are just dumb and I am better than them intellectually'
Maybe, I am not just their type and they are not interested in going into deep conversation?
Obviously, I don't want to settle down with those kind of women.
But like any other men, I have a desire to interact with them just sexually.
I guess I have this nice/good guy look on my face.
But I have no intention to force myself to act like one of those douche bag club monkeys just hoping to attract hot club girls.
Do you guys see the pattern for type of girls you attract?
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04-02-2013, 10:42 AM
The girls that are "good girls" with you will be eating swapping cum from mouth-to-mouth with another chick...after eating her pussy while simultaneously being fucked from the back by some guy who will accept nothing less than a "bad girl."
You're supposed to train chicks to be what/who you want them to be.
Become a slut-engineer.
I've had 3somes with "good girl" married chicks who've told me they'd NEVER do that with their husbands.
You should give a woman her reality. They are more than willing to accept that from an authoritative lead.
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04-02-2013, 01:04 PM
Quote: (04-02-2013 12:40 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
NO. I am allergic to trashy people whether it's a woman or some guy at a club. I don't want to do anything with them.
But you said in your original post that you do:
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Posted by Sebastian - Today 10:57 AM
I guess I can't complain about this......
(it will be worse if you were in an opposite situation)
Even at bars, most of the time, I always end up getting connected with good girls.
(Definition for good girls: I don't know their behind curtain sexual history. I just mean, they don't have those trashy look on their face at all. I can proudly take them to the dinner with my friends and won't worry about her handling the conversation)
I don't limit myself though. I still hit on slutty hot girl, party girl types.
The conversation usually goes nowhere.
I had good interaction with this nurse lady last week. we talked about travelling, other cultures, foods, careers etc. I can't talk about those with those slutty hot girls.
I don't want to say 'they are just dumb and I am better than them intellectually'
Maybe, I am not just their type and they are not interested in going into deep conversation?
Obviously, I don't want to settle down with those kind of women.
But like any other men, I have a desire to interact with them just sexually.
I guess I have this nice/good guy look on my face.
But I have no intention to force myself to act like one of those douche bag club monkeys just hoping to attract hot club girls.
Do you guys see the pattern for type of girls you attract?
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04-02-2013, 04:32 PM
Everyone who responded on this thread has tried to make the same point to you- that you are creating false categories and making assumptions that don't exist in reality.
Just because a girl dresses sexy and goes to clubs doesn't mean that she is slutty-often these girls are just attention whores
Just because a girl is intelligent and looks nice and sweet doesn't mean she isn't slutty
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04-02-2013, 05:19 PM
My anecdotal tale from a few weeks ago:
Girl A: Met at a bar in the afternoon. Already a little drunk. Dressed slutty. Makes out with me at the bar, I take her home, we bang.
Girl B: Grad student. Total good girl. Responsible, doesn't drink, takes care of herself, etc.
Which one do you think was a dead fish in bed and which one was begging me to come in her ass? I'm sure you can figure it out.
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04-02-2013, 09:14 PM
I was going to make a thread about the disturbing trend I've been noticing in my approaches, but never got around to it. It seems that the only girls that I can make a connection with are damaged. It's probably because I have a lot of damage myself, and I've been through some shit. The so called good girls can't relate to a lot of my stories because they just see it as weird.
Bad girls can be just as difficult to get into bed as good girls. They just require a different type of game. It appears that you exude good guy personality. So it makes sense that you would attract those types of girls.
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04-03-2013, 03:17 PM
I want to defend OP, I feel the same way about connecting better with the chicks who are ostensibly good. This is sort of self-fulfilling though as the more polite and relatively more intelligent girls are going to be more receptive to a random stranger hitting on them.
If you have a sort of classic all-American look you will connect well with these girls.
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04-04-2013, 01:40 AM
Guys, I don't want to argue about what a 'good girl' is.
(From my experience, I know if someone talks about 'oh I just met this good girl. she is special' on PUA forums, he will hear women-hating comments like 'lol you don't think she never swallowed guy's cum?' 'I bet she sucked cocks 3x more than you can guess hahaha'. how this kind of bitter comments can help someone?)
I just meant, those girls look 'like' good girls.
(Let's not argue about 'ew how can you tell about someone by their appearance')
Those are the type of girls you can take to your family without any worries.
You know they will approve her just by looking at her face. you won't worry about leaving her alone with them because you know she won't say anything stupid.
(she might ride you like a whore and swallow your cum at the end. but that's not the point here)
I guess I have to change my question little bit.
Whether she is hot or not, if she looks like she is pro at handling guys, I can't attract them
(perfect example is hooter's girl- girls who know how to flirt, dress naughty, heavy make up, looks like a smoker, massive bitch shield etc)
I guess I might have a good image from her parents but she may not be actually interested.
('why don't you go out with johnny? he seems like a good boy'
'LOL I guess but he is not my type'
VS
'how the hell did you find a guy like johnny? are you crazy?'
'mom but I like him...')
hm..birds of feather flock together?
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04-04-2013, 01:53 AM
In every good girl there's a bad girl just waiting for a bad boy to bring her out
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04-04-2013, 12:40 PM
If you are only attracting good girls, then you must be a good guy.
You are probably a clean cut, nice guy, type. Thats why you only attract similar type girls.
"Bird of a feather, flock together"
Now, you want to bang some strippers, club sluts, and Hooters girls.
No problem.
Start approaching these types of girls. You probably don't have much experience talking to and flirting with these types. That's why you haven't learned how to attract them.
Your solution is simple. You want bad girls, talk to bad girls, thats the only way to get them.
At first you will probably struggle, you will seem boring to them, you will talk about nice guy stuff, you will be too nice to them, you will not tease them and challenge them.
But, after a hundred approaches or so, you will start to adjust your personality, you will learn how to talk to these girls. You will treat them like they are inferior to you. You will tease them, you will learn to create tension, you will learn what topics to avoid and what topic to bring up.
You want sluts? Study them. Learn their ways. Learn their language. Learn the perspective. Then, you can properly engage them. The more sluts you talk to, the better you will become.
There are no shortcuts. You want sluts, go talk to sluts. Practice and repetition is the only way to improve.
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04-04-2013, 12:44 PM
This is nothing to complain about
Many guys can't attract any girls at all.
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04-05-2013, 05:35 AM
It's interesting for me at a bar or club.
I hate any girls who carries any sort of trash features.
The thing is they are even harder than classy girls.
I understand stripper looking 8 girl's value is higher than classy 7 girl at a bar.
Last week, I was talking to this victorian era classy pretty lady who looks like she popped out of old classic movie.
she was very nice to me. She was an art history teacher
On the other hand, this smoker girl who looks bit trash, looks definitely uglier than a girl above, works as a server, wouldn't be nice talking to me.
So my best target is classy girls who are 7 and 8.
If she looks bit trashy, party girl type, it doesn't matter even though she is ugly and fat. I won't have chance with her.