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03-30-2013, 05:43 PM
You put limits on yourself.
You rejected yourself.
You didn't talk to her.
You made 3 mistakes.
He talked to her. He banged her.
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03-30-2013, 06:37 PM
I like this post, not so much the content, but he underlying message... Just as Gio points out, you cock blocked yourself with your limiting beliefs, low self confidence, and more important your rationalizations. So often we make rationalizations whether it be rationalizing why we shouldn't talk to a hot woman, or how we rationalize why we shouldn't stop banging the psycho bitch who gives amazing head.
Perhaps the most important lesson is not to put the pussy on the pedestal, I am coming to realize more and more how this is such a key tenant to having air tight game. Besides just benefiting game, not putting the pedestal is just the right move on so many levels, because it reflects reality.
The OP wrote: "Also, it just so happened, the angel I put so high on a pedestal, liked to consume some pain pills once in a while. Long story short, he was already fucking her in exchange for some pain pills!" There was no reason to assume she wasn't a whore, maybe by putting her on a pedestal, he created this aura around her, and built her up in his mind to be someone she was not. Another thing I am realizing and learning the hard way, in addition to the lessons taught by Uncle Roosh, is that so many of American women are just flat out whores!...
Now, ofcourse there are nice girls, and everything in between, but recently in comparison to women from other nations, I am more aware then ever, that American women, are largely raging sluts. Instead of assuming she's an angel that you will have to wine and dine to fuck, assume she is a whore that will be swallowing your cum at the end of the night.
Oh yeah and BTW, I think this would be better moved to the game forum.
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03-30-2013, 07:44 PM
OGNorCal707, That exactly the point I was trying to make! You never know who she is. You just can't know! Don't assume anything about anyone and you will not be fooled ever!
We all, including men, have to project an image of who we are. That teacher who you though was the most straight forward person is probably frequent at gang bang parties and you would never have a clue! This girl I used to talk to had a fetish for old men with gray hair. She said she would absolutely put out for any guy over 50 with grey hair. Now she is a 19 year old with a body of a model! Some girls like accents. Some girls have weird things they find super attractive like rings or tatoos...etc.
You just never know! That mole on your face that you think limits you might be a turn on for some girl.
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03-30-2013, 09:21 PM
Quote: (03-30-2013 08:02 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
Quote: (03-30-2013 07:44 PM)Wayout Wrote:
OGNorCal707, That exactly the point I was trying to make! You never know who she is. You just can't know! Don't assume anything about anyone and you will not be fooled ever!,
We all, including men, have to project an image of who we are. That teacher who you though was the most straight forward person is probably frequent at gang bang parties and you would never have a clue! This girl I used to talk to had a fetish for old men with gray hair. She said she would absolutely put out for any guy over 50 with grey hair. Now she is a 19 year old with a body of a model! Some girls like accents. Some girls have weird things they find super attractive like rings or tatoos...etc.
You just never know! That mole on your face that you think limits you might be a turn on for some girl.
You need to dig deeper. You are only at the surface. You are making the post about her.
Something about the way you view yourself stopped you from approaching her.
You said she's a druggie, which seems to make you think she is on your level.
See what's going on?
Why does a girl have to be a pill popper in order for you to feel good enough for her?
What you are saying, at least subconsciously, is, "I'm only good enough for drug addicts."
What is it about your view of yourself that is preventing you from talking to girls?
Do you feel too weak, too short, too fat, too poor, too bald, too....????
That's not a question for you to answer to me. It's a question you need to answer for yourself.
Once you actually know what your actual limiting belief is, then you can talk about destroying it.
Awesome.
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03-30-2013, 09:22 PM
Double trouble.
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04-01-2013, 12:18 AM
Awesome thread and insights. It reminds me of a number of situations I've been in where I have effectively rejected myself and not given the girl a chance to make a decision. Many times another guy has gotten the girl and I've rationalised that there was something wrong with the girl for liking him. The truth is that the other guy was just man enough to make the play for her, unlike myself.
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08-27-2014, 02:55 PM
Quote: (03-31-2013 12:56 AM)Wayout Wrote:
And yes I feel too old, too fat, too short, too poor....The said part I am all of those things.
Eat exercise wear boots work and save...you can't get younger...but...
The key there is 'feel'...that's what drives the second part of the statement.
You may be old, you may be fat, you may be short and poor. But you aren't
TOO any of those things.
...and you know that intellectually. Focus on that feeling. Shine a light on it and accept it. Limiting beliefs are like shadows, when you accept them it's like shining a light on them, and they disappear...or at least aren't as scary.
Then you have to move tho. If you accept this shit, it's relief...but you have to do something once you've relieved your shit. Don't sit on the pot or it'll come back.
There's someone older, someone fatter, someone shorter and poorer than you banging hotties.
Don't worry we all have our monsters.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”