[tenderman100]

Hat tip to Roissy on this one..

I am the guy on the left (metaphorically of course) the guy on the right represents the beta husbands (also metaphorically).

But in my case, the guy on the right doesn't know me the guy on the left.

Oh, one more thing -- guy on the left has a vasectomy, so no hellion spawn.

The woman in the middle? She represents the 21st century hamster is all its marathon endurance, and the hamster runs at a torrid pace in the 40 something married to the beta schlub on the right.

Watch, and weep for our culture.

So, I'll shed a tear...and then fuck her.

[Ovid]

I bet she wants to "connect," all right....

[WestCoast]

Jesus christ that guy is so pathetic i don't even know where to begin. This meme pretty much says it all.

[void]

this video is gold for the body language alone

[w00t]

Fucking disgusting. He propably eats her out after the bald guy creamed up her pussy.

[Nomad77]

These types of polyamorous relationships can work quite well. Obviously, traditional relationships aren't working very well, so might as well try something else.

[Parlay44]

That video is some new-age hippie
No real man would share his woman with anyone. Your woman is your property as much as your house is your property. Anyone attempting to break in will be shot on sight.

Personally I've never met a woman that I would consider relationship material in the traditional sense. I don't mind banging these sluts but I'd never admit to being in a "relationship" with them like the guys in the video.

[haywire]

(03-30-2013 09:18 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

That video is some new-age hippie
No real man would share his woman with anyone. Your woman is your property as much as your house is your property. Anyone attempting to break in will be shot on sight.

Personally I've never met a woman that I would consider relationship material in the traditional sense. I don't mind banging these sluts but I'd never admit to being in a "relationship" with them like the guys in the video.

I thought the same thing, but then I read this article about the said trio:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...riend.html

Basically, I wouldn't consider these guys as 'normal' at all, but it seems the arrangement is genuinely working well for them.

[j r]

Yeah, not my thing, but to each his own. Some dudes are naturally beta.

And if this were a dude sittin up there with two wives, everyone would be applauding.

I don't think this is a stable situation for most people, but it probably is for a small minority.

[Thomas the Rhymer]

(03-29-2013 07:53 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

I am the guy on the left (metaphorically of course) the guy on the right represents the beta husbands (also metaphorically).

Everything about that guy on the right, from the way he speaks to his body language, convinces me that he is actually gay. Maybe he only got involved with her to stop his tantric sex workshop clients freaking out over the fact that he's homosexual.

From the websites, it also looks like she's doing all the work; I suspect that he is getting financial support from her while running around for discreet gay liaisons behind her back.

Those are my impressions, anyone else concur?

The websites are here and here, for those who are eager to troll the happy couple.

[MrXY]

One of my goals for this year is to fuck a married woman. Not a separated one-I've done plenty of those-but one still in the house with the husband. Just want to see what it's like

[Therapsid]

There's nothing special about fucking a married chick. I'd trade all the married broads I've banged for their single friends in a heartbeat. No matter how young the girl is, there's some quality of youth and vivacity lost in a chick who's hitched. Plus a distasteful air of desperation.

[thegmanifesto]

(03-29-2013 07:53 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

Hat tip to Roissy on this one..

I am the guy on the left

You are that Anderson Cooper guy?

[OGNorCal707]

(03-30-2013 10:28 AM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:  

The websites are here and here, for those who are eager to troll the happy couple.

I hate it when hippies try to make sex out to be this great spiritual mystical thing, I just briefly checked out the second link, and this Jaiya bitch is trying to call herself a "sexual shaman" or some shit.

Please, give me a fucking break! I don't doubt that if you are truly in love with your long-term girlfriend or wife, sex can be more making love at times, than just straight up raw "fucking". But, I think these hippy fucks, are delusion when they try to make it out to be something it's not.

Yeah this Jaiya bitch is so fucking spiritual when she's got one guy stuffing his cock in her mouth, and another guy is plowing her from behind. If that's the case then every porn chick in LA may as well be considered a "sexual shaman".

I remember some hippy dude I know around here, was into some kind of underground sex community. It was all some hippy shit, he was describing one of their "ceremonies" making it sound all groovy, and spiritual, then I interjected and was like "damn so you guys had an orgy." Then this hippy dude get's all bent, and cops some attitude and was like it was "NOT" an orgy, but a "spiritual gathering" where they preyed and made love, and was trying to explain to me it was all about "sharing love" and not sex. I'm sorry, but anytime you're stuffing your hard cock into a woman's hole, that's about getting off, not about seeking a higher spiritual experience.

[JJ Roberts]

Consider this.

When we moved from the Sex 1.0 era (hunter-gather) to 2.0 (the age of property and marriage) we essentially shrunk our emotional-social-sexual circle from its natural state to the smallest social group possibe - the dyad. In other words two people.

We then expected that your one and ony partner is to to provide all of the emotional, social and sexual needs that we used to get from the entire tribe or village. This does not really work.

This woman is only doing what a lot of women do. The only difference is that she is being honest about it.

Fair play.

[Parlay44]

Quote:

'I am so lucky,' said Jaiya, a sexologist. 'I have two amazing men who really care for me and Eamon.

She's a sexologist. She studies sex like we study game. She's got these two weak-minded men wrapped around her finger.

[Insignia]

That is the most beta shit I have ever seen, honestly I don't feel bad for the two of them.

[tenderman100]

(03-30-2013 02:41 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

You are that Anderson Cooper guy?

Awww...you're th-so th-sweet!!

But. alas, I didn't go to Yale, I am not a bottom bitch, I don't make $20 mill a year, and I didn't use a homosexual slur to denigrate an important political movement that is not in fact racist, but actually thinks it is important we don't spend our way to fiscal oblivion, which Anderson, his anal canal filled with his lover's cum and his own impacted fudge, can't seem to grasp.

Other than that, though, Anderson and I are like peas in a pod.

Thanks for for asking! You've made my day.

Look forward to that pic of you in eye shadow and a thong!! The socks without shoes simply don't work however...

Make sure you put out your hands, stick our your tush, girl!! You brute!! You brute !! You brute!!

[tenderman100]

(03-30-2013 02:41 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

You are that Anderson Cooper guy?

Oh, wait, I am sorry, I got carried away.

I am the guy fucking the OTHER guy's wife.

And she really really really likes it. Just ask her.

[tenderman100]

(03-30-2013 02:15 PM)Therapsid Wrote:  

There's nothing special about fucking a married chick. I'd trade all the married broads I've banged for their single friends in a heartbeat. No matter how young the girl is, there's some quality of youth and vivacity lost in a chick who's hitched. Plus a distasteful air of desperation.

Here's the issue though.

At my age, all the singles that I can get are mostly in their 40s at best. The hamster runs wild. They have been divorced, or childless and single, still want the prince charming.

I am not the prince charming. I am the guy who will fuck them into orgasmic heaven. It eventually only becomes about the sex. That's why I focus on it.

It's clean, it's uncomplicated, it allows me freedom, and it capitalizes on the hypergamous instinct.

Tonight, my raven haired married babe stopped by for a couple of hours ("girls night out') and I fucked her for about a hour or so, and then came all over the small of her back as I was doing doggy. As soon as it was over, she hopped in the shower, rinsed off, gave me a sweet peck after she quickly dressed, and said, "Gotta go babe, we'll talk."

We will. And we'll fuck.

[Sphere]

tenderman;

How do you do it? Strategies? Tips? Where do I begin?

I'm 50 and my observation is similar to yours. All the singles to whom I am not completely invisible are mostly in their 40s or (gasp) 50s and the hamster is unchained.

I went out with such a woman who actually said to my face, "I used to sleep around but I don't any more. I'm not that easy..." The implication being that she had given it up to everyone else on the planet but that if I wanted it I was going to have to work for it. Really?

Also, I have a thing for married women. Help us out with some advice please.

[tenderman100]

(03-31-2013 08:44 AM)Sphere Wrote:  

tenderman;

How do you do it? Strategies? Tips? Where do I begin?

I'm 50 and my observation is similar to yours. All the singles to whom I am not completely invisible are mostly in their 40s or (gasp) 50s and the hamster is unchained.

I went out with such a woman who actually said to my face, "I used to sleep around but I don't any more. I'm not that easy..." The implication being that she had given it up to everyone else on the planet but that if I wanted it I was going to have to work for it. Really?

Also, I have a thing for married women. Help us out with some advice please.

Just pm'd you.

[Divorco]

(03-30-2013 11:22 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

in their 40s at best. The hamster runs wild. They have been divorced, or childless and single, still want the prince charming.

(03-31-2013 08:44 AM)Sphere Wrote:  

in their 40s or (gasp) 50s and the hamster is unchained.

"I used to sleep around but I don't any more. I'm not that easy..." The implication being that she had given it up to everyone else on the planet but that if I wanted it I was going to have to work for it. Really?

This is why we need discussions for older guys, perhaps even a sub-forum.

Sometimes the hottest older women are the worst. In their youth, they were even hotter. So they irrationally expect the princess treatment. They have the maturity to understand the seduction process, so they may avoid drinking or easy logistics. Basically they are dinner whores. They are just time-wasting window shoppers who want guys and treatment that are out of their league.

Some are divorced and inexperienced at dating. I don't know which is worse, a woman with kids who has limited time and affection for you. Or a lifetime carousel-rider who expects to be taken seriously. I can see why Tenderman prefers a low-maintenance uncommitted arrangement.

[Kingsley Davis]

(03-31-2013 11:20 AM)Divorco Wrote:  

(03-30-2013 11:22 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

in their 40s at best. The hamster runs wild. They have been divorced, or childless and single, still want the prince charming.

(03-31-2013 08:44 AM)Sphere Wrote:  

in their 40s or (gasp) 50s and the hamster is unchained.

"I used to sleep around but I don't any more. I'm not that easy..." The implication being that she had given it up to everyone else on the planet but that if I wanted it I was going to have to work for it. Really?

This is why we need discussions for older guys, perhaps even a sub-forum.

Sometimes the hottest older women are the worst. In their youth, they were even hotter. So they irrationally expect the princess treatment. They have the maturity to understand the seduction process, so they may avoid drinking or easy logistics. Basically they are dinner whores. They are just time-wasting window shoppers who want guys and treatment that are out of their league.

Some are divorced and inexperienced at dating. I don't know which is worse, a woman with kids who has limited time and affection for you. Or a lifetime carousel-rider who expects to be taken seriously. I can see why Tenderman prefers a low-maintenance uncommitted arrangement.

Check this ffrom the worthy Privateman.

“I’ll take you at your word. The reason those guys never responded to your online dating messages is that they are attractive to most women. They have options. So, they date younger women. Women in their 40s have the hardest time dating because they expect to get the same kind of guys they could get when they were younger.”

http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2013/...his-works/

[tenderman100]

(03-31-2013 01:59 PM)Kingsley Davis Wrote:  

Check this ffrom the worthy Privateman.

“I’ll take you at your word. The reason those guys never responded to your online dating messages is that they are attractive to most women. They have options. So, they date younger women. Women in their 40s have the hardest time dating because they expect to get the same kind of guys they could get when they were younger.”

http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2013/...his-works/

Kingsley, that was fucking great!!

This, from the comments, absolutely hit home. Remember, gents, that woman with the great eyes and the perfect makeup and the hard body -- is just a "scared little girl."

Quote:

The hardened shell of such women provides some initial resistance, but once pierced, there is almost always a scared little girl behind it.

Their “toughness” requires a constant supply of affirmations to support their rationalized thought processes.

And there is nothing like the unwavering force of male judgment to destabilize her bravado.