[Barada22]

So I've been reading the forum for going on 6 or 9 months and only started posting recently, though I have been trying to better myself along the way. Last night was the truly aha moment for me when the stars just aligned and I can only describe it as enlightenment.

My friends and I were talking to 3 girls at a bar and one of them was an over 35 yoga instructor with a great yoga body. She spent most of the time talking about her bad dating stories and how she couldn't find a boyfriend/get married/blah blah. She was right out of a RoK or Heartiste article. As my beta friends (I'm only a recent convert so I shouldn't talk), are fawning over her I am just thinking about all the recent posts and articles I have seen about this girl and how she is generic "parties too hard in her 20s and now wants a man" woman. She was clearly pretty psychotic so that didnt help her case either.

I am sitting back and just enjoying the show as my friends fawn over her, one of them (foolishly) starts talking politics. I don't need to tell you what came next but, yes, uber feminazi. It was like every recent article was written about her and I was in complete awe. She was so cliche I thought she was just pretending.

It made me realize what a joke these women really are, and made me see how not to act around them (and see how I used to act around them in my more ignorant years). It also made me see that game really works on a level that I hadn't realized. Not only was it the most likely (along with her stupidity) cause of her sluttiness and singleness, but is even now keeping her at that same level as in her 20s. She just can't get out of the cycle of wanting the alpha male with game who can rock her world. At this point she should clearly be taking anything she can get.

Putting up this post is as much therapy for me as anything. The night really brought together everything I have been reading and seeing and I feel like a different person waking up this morning as it has really clicked.

The other thing I learned (though I knew it before) is that it is impossible for a woman to have an interesting, intelligent conversation for more than 30 minutes (and even that is pushing it).

[ryanf]

I would venture to say that this happens to all of us. Then the world looks like this:

[nek]

Good stuff bro. It's crazy how predictable and cookie-cutter women are, once you finally take an honest look at things. And the intelligent conversation thing is spot-on

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(03-29-2013 05:48 PM)nek Wrote:  

Good stuff bro. It's crazy how predictable and cookie-cutter women are, once you finally take an honest look at things. And the intelligent conversation thing is spot-on

Disagree with this. I assume you are in the US/Canada? All women have an underlying need to connect...even if it is superficial. I generally steer clear of attention whores and it has payed rich dividends. A girl can be sexually liberated and not be slutty/attention whore-y at the same time. And this is the category that gives both your penis and brain a lot of satisfaction. I would imagine finding such a girl would be harder in the anglo-world but here in Europe, they are in majority. So, instead of hanging around places where you meet the slutty, cookie-cutter types, you should consciously try to frequent places where you can meet the other category of girls, maybe the library, hiking/other interest groups and small town girls. Just my two cents.