[Lord Dobes]

(03-26-2013 06:02 AM)klosck Wrote:  

Here is a transcript from a local hottie I met. Got her number Saturday after a few decent interactions with her. I realize she is keeping her options open, and no matter what I say, she will probably flake out, but I just wanted to throw this out there for some advice.

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Me:Hello pretty Austrian girl, this is **** from Saturday. How are u?

Her: Im fine and you??

Me: Good good...just doing some ironing...fun Do u want to hang out later this week?

Her: Hahahaha ok and when??

Me: Im pretty busy all week,,but how about Friday around 8pm?

Her: Ok yeah I look that I have time for you..But I cant promise you..

Me: Ok, no worries, I'll write you on Thursday to see if you have the time

Her: Ok perfect
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So I kind of realize whats going on. Chances are high this will go nowhere.....so my question is do I:

a. go ahead with the plan, text her on Thursday?
b. don't text on Thursday, and hit her up again on Sunday night?
c. wait two weeks, hit her up again

The funny thing is text game is not that important if your actual game is solid. I've texted some of the most boring shit to girls I've gamed in person and still met up them (80-90%). So work on your game and learn to read body language as well, you'll go far.

[Menace]

You are still weak inside. I have struggled with this in the past, but have gotten much better about letting go. Fuck this rescue game. Interested girls are interested. They will respond and they will agree to concrete plans. If they do not, then either they are not interested or just juggling other offers (friends, family, other dick, etc.).

I am going to implement G's theory from now on I think. If I get a number, I am calling. I may have lost out on a just-my-type girl recently because of not doing that, but after a day of pouting about it, I'm over it. Part of this is believing in yourself and believing in what this forum is all about. It takes real will power to force yourself to stop thinking about this (or any other) girl, especially if she hits the right buttons. You're probably fighting evolved behavior, so it's a real challenge.

[klosck]

(03-26-2013 08:47 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

I will clarify, depends on her age and her perception of your age.

If I picked her up suited up = perfect grammar with periods.

If I met her at a cabo atmosphere I will just rapidly type and let the natural typos go through.

She is 24, I'm 33 which means I'm getting on the old side for our small town's only few hot spots. I would suit up, but that would be too much for this town. I instead go in a blazer and jeans..but thats better dressed than 90% than the other dudes in the club. Sometimes I wonder if I'm dressed up too much there. Also as I previously mentioend, the girl is Austrian. Her english is good, but obviously not her first language. I'm not sure how she would perceive a bunch of typo's.

[thegmanifesto]

(03-26-2013 10:32 AM)Menace Wrote:  

You are still weak inside. I have struggled with this in the past, but have gotten much better about letting go. Fuck this rescue game. Interested girls are interested. They will respond and they will agree to concrete plans. If they do not, then either they are not interested or just juggling other offers (friends, family, other dick, etc.).

I am going to implement G's theory from now on I think. If I get a number, I am calling. I may have lost out on a just-my-type girl recently because of not doing that, but after a day of pouting about it, I'm over it. Part of this is believing in yourself and believing in what this forum is all about. It takes real will power to force yourself to stop thinking about this (or any other) girl, especially if she hits the right buttons. You're probably fighting evolved behavior, so it's a real challenge.

Good job.

Yeah, if your Game is tight on the front end, she will pick up the horn.

Work off the butter leads.

"The leads aren't weak. You're weak."

[WestCoast]

[quote] (03-26-2013 10:42 AM)klosck Wrote:  

[quote='WestCoast' pid='403198' dateline='1364305642']


I will clarify, depends on her age and her perception of your age.

If I picked her up suited up = perfect grammar with periods.

If I met her at a cabo atmosphere I will just rapidly type and let the natural typos go through.[/quote]

She is 24, I'm 33 which means I'm getting on the old side for our small town's only few hot spots. I would suit up, but that would be too much for this town. I instead go in a blazer and jeans..but thats better dressed than 90% than the other dudes in the club. Sometimes I wonder if I'm dressed up too much there. Also as I previously mentioend, the girl is Austrian. Her english is good, but obviously not her first language. I'm not sure how she would perceive a bunch of typo's.
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Call from now on then.

If you must text, proper direct grammar as MattC said.

Too old to run "party" game, she's perceiving you as put together from hello, or at least she should.

[Matt3B]

G, have you ever written up a post on advice about calling girls? Like how long you talk for, dos and don'ts, etc?

[thegmanifesto]

(03-26-2013 11:43 AM)MattC Wrote:  

G, have you ever written up a post on advice about calling girls? Like how long you talk for, dos and don'ts, etc?

Ask and you shall receive:

Business and Girls: Phone Game VS Text Game

Phone Game is Dead or is it?

Phone Game Broken Down to The Organic Compound (easily the best guide on the entire internet)

"Texting is shadow-boxing.

Calling her is sparring.

Talking to her in person is fight night. That's what you train for." - Giovanny

[Matt3B]

Thanks mate.

[TheCool]

In regards to Game

Texting is for lames , square boxes , lesser humans

This includes facebook twitter etc

I rarely text and if i do its short and concise

the film of LIFE
thefilmoflife.wordpress.com

[Manystyles]

(03-26-2013 09:18 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

"Text game advice, what should I do next"

Pick up the phone and call.

(03-26-2013 06:02 AM)klosck Wrote:  

Here is a transcript from a local hottie I met. Got her number Saturday after a few decent interactions with her.

Let me take a wild guess: you met her on the internet right?

(03-26-2013 06:02 AM)klosck Wrote:  

Me: Good good...just doing some ironing...fun Do u want to hang out later this week?

Never say this again for the rest of your life.

Slapp yourself 50 times in the face as hard as you can.

Come back and thank me in 6 months.
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And no more smiley faces for God's sake.

(03-26-2013 08:47 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

Usually I'm a more positive guy on this forum.

Straight to newbie forum

I think by default, any guy asking for text message advice should be immediately shot over to the newbie forum.

(03-26-2013 08:47 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

1. You should have typos in your messages

Is this serious or a joke?

The "do you want to hang out" line is straight from roosh's book

[thegmanifesto]

(03-28-2013 03:01 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

(03-26-2013 09:18 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

"Text game advice, what should I do next"

Pick up the phone and call.

(03-26-2013 06:02 AM)klosck Wrote:  

Here is a transcript from a local hottie I met. Got her number Saturday after a few decent interactions with her.

Let me take a wild guess: you met her on the internet right?

(03-26-2013 06:02 AM)klosck Wrote:  

Me: Good good...just doing some ironing...fun Do u want to hang out later this week?

Never say this again for the rest of your life.

Slapp yourself 50 times in the face as hard as you can.

Come back and thank me in 6 months.
---

And no more smiley faces for God's sake.

(03-26-2013 08:47 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

Usually I'm a more positive guy on this forum.

Straight to newbie forum

I think by default, any guy asking for text message advice should be immediately shot over to the newbie forum.

(03-26-2013 08:47 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

1. You should have typos in your messages

Is this serious or a joke?

The "do you want to hang out" line is straight from roosh's book

I was referring to this part:

Quote:

Me: Good good...just doing some ironing...fun

Which is why I bolded it.

That being said, I don't really like either:

Quote:

Do u want to hang out later this week?

I like statements more than questions, unless I am trying to elicit a "yes pattern".

And that question wouldn't elicit a "yes pattern".

[WestCoast]

Also agree with G.

"Do you want to hang out" is not a good line. I don't care if it came form his book or not. You should be locking down a date range then simply locking in a day. Giving her choice is never a good idea.

You: "What's sched like next week"
Her: "range"
You: "Cool lets hang out on Thursday."

[TheCool]

Didnt mean to come off as an ass

My philosophy with women is get chose , don't choose.

First things first after getting a number ill make sure she has mine in her phone

First attempt at communication is a call not a text

No answer? that's cool

leave a message? Fuck no

She has my number and name in her phone remember , it will show "missed call"

If she never responds via text or call after the inital call I will never attempt to contact her again

Its HER loss not mine

She is in a privildged position for me to even dial her number

If she fails to recognize that..too bad for her

Most chicks who dont initally reply back via text or call will hit me up a few weeks later

Then they get the "who is this? Who are you? I don't remember you treatment..listen meet me here friday 8pm for drinks, refresh my memory