[NoBalls]

In this article it says, "Your girl has a list of dudes she’s banged. You won’t like the number".

Is it true that many girls actually keep a list of guys they banged?

[Ensam]

Yup. I read a flings diary once. She had it all in there. In her case it actually made me feel better because she loved sex but her notch count was pretty low (4 @ 27). Granted she might have left a few ONS and other 'doesn't counts' out of there. So if you do find such a list assume it's a low estimate.

Really though who gives a shit? Assume all girls have done things that you do not want to know about. The nice thing is once you get to a place where you don't care what a girl has done you also don't care enough to go snooping around to find out.

[germanico]

Dont you?

[guerrilla]

they don't keep the "don't counts" just like you try to forget the fatties you fucked.

[The Pumpkin King]

I do.

[LaPastillaRoja]

[MidniteSpecial]

Some girls do some girls don't. I knew a girl who kept a journal about sex with dudes. I also know a girl who's been with two guys her whole life.

[Neo]

Yep. I first experienced this about 5 years ago, I banged this girl who I knew was promiscuous. I didn't care cause she was really attractive, fun in bed, and would dress in slutty outfits and wait for me to fuck her after work. A few minutes after I banged her she excitedly says "I have to add you to my list!" Back then I was a bit unnerved by the comment, nowadays it wouldn't bother me in the least. I got mine and we were FBs for a few months. One of the best looking and fun girls I've ever been with.

[Wreckingball]

Yes. One brazilian girl showed me hers 2013 (make out) list.
I was shocked. There were at least 35 guys in there. Not the names, but nationalities. And you don't need to know if she has a good conversion rate or not.

[NoBalls]

I think this is an interesting change in culture. If women are keeping a list of notches like we do that means that they are viewing sex with new men as "conquests" as well.

If this development continues then it will be easier for men to get laid in the future because women won't be ashamed of having a high number like they used to be in the past. This is a good thing.

[Kingsley Davis]

(03-17-2013 05:50 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  

I think this is an interesting change in culture. If women are keeping a list of notches like we do that means that they are viewing sex with new men as "conquests" as well.

If this development continues then it will be easier for men to get laid in the future because women won't be ashamed of having a high number like they used to be in the past. This is a good thing.

R.I.P. Western Civilization, you had a good run.

[JimNortonFan]

My ex kept a picture book. I went over to her dorm room once and she insisted on taking pics of me. Pics came back, she showed them to me. She left the room for a bit and I saw some books. The one on top was full of dudes. My pics were put in 3/4 of the way to the end.

[Excelsior]

(03-17-2013 08:16 PM)Kingsley Davis Wrote:  

(03-17-2013 05:50 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  

I think this is an interesting change in culture. If women are keeping a list of notches like we do that means that they are viewing sex with new men as "conquests" as well.

If this development continues then it will be easier for men to get laid in the future because women won't be ashamed of having a high number like they used to be in the past. This is a good thing.

R.I.P. Western Civilization, you had a good run.

I think Western Civilization has problems that go deeper than girls keeping makeout lists.

In any case, it is not in the interest of any man to get too emotionally invested in any given girls' sexual history. I'm not saying that a girl's sexual history carries no weight at all (ex: you may not want to date a pornstar or local gangbang girl, and that's fine), but even when it comes to the supposedly "good girls" there is a high likelihood that they have done something before that will make you uncomfortable. Too much thought with regard to that can lead to excess emotional investment and insecurity, which in turn can greatly weaken your game.

In the end, it is best for a man not to spend too much time thinking about these things. You can't change her sexual history, but you can (via your own effort to build attraction and be a good lover) alter her sexual future in such a way as to make make that past increasingly less relevant to her and, in due time, almost entirely forgotten. That should be the goal.

[Hotwheels]

My method;

[NoBalls]

(03-17-2013 08:28 PM)JimNortonFan Wrote:  

My pics were put in 3/4 of the way to the end.

Sorry, but I chuckled a bit when I read that.