[xmlenigma]

Fewer Clean Quality Polyamory/ MLTR girls vs Possibly Infected Drunk Girls. Thoughts?

- I am not big on sharing my body with Piss drunk girls or ones that smoke (I cant stand the smell of alcohol or smoke on the mouths I kiss)
- Also some who might have DISEASES. Every time I hear of or see HERPES (and other new STDs) related information I worry about hooking up with new/ random girls without knowing that they are CLEAN.
- I'd rather have a few quality girls on rotation than pick up new drunk skanks

I know this limits the WIDE VARIETY AND QUANTITY of girls that can be had especially in the NIGHT / PARTY circuit.

I've had my share of girls with liquor and smoke on their breath. Some I've had clean up later, but I'd much rather have girls who are
- Clean
- Dont get so drunk.. or smoke..
- Disease Free

I'd rather SHARE MY BODY with CLEAN, DISEASE FREE girls who are grounded / maybe do YOGA etc.

http://www.elephantjournal.com/2012/11/p...wood-nude/

I do enjoy the occasional late night party/ club scene and once in a blue moon House / Trance scene (been to Ibiza) but its not sustainable past a point and gets tiring.

I'd rather build a lifestyle that is conducive to this.

So, if this is the case..

Which places/ cities/ countries ladies would be more conducive ?

I am guessing that a small drunk town Irish town is not going to be favorable.

I've heard and read about the Yoga Retreats in Costa Rica and Latin America and even in South of Spain. Not sure if that's a permanent locale to go live.

But, if I had to pick a few Cities to LIVE in long term, in US and outside the US, then give the above PREFERENCES, what cities/ countries would be more favorable.

And any other suggestions. Lifestyle and Activities suggestions etc.

[Swagger]

There is a lot of social stigma and ignorance around the Herp. Its a viral disease like many others. Also, there is no way of actually knowing if a person has it or not unless he/she admits it to you. I have a good friend who caught the virus from a one time encounter with a married housewife in India and she claimed she had only been with 2 men her entire life besides her husband. If you have been in the US with a bunch of women there is a very good chance you have already been exposed to the virus. If this is a big concern for you I would suggest you abstain from sex altogether. The idea that there is some safe haven/yoga retreat where the girls are disease free is kind of silly in my opinion. Infact, if I were to venture a guess, I would say the liberal/tree hugging/ hippie chicks who make up much of the demographic at such places who believe in free love are the ones you want to stay away from, besides there are tons of STDs such as molluscum, warts and no condom is really going to protect you there. This comes with the player lifestyle, some of us want the lifestyle but are not ready to face it's consequences. I personally go for conservative catholic women when I look for long term potential than some yoga liberal hippie nonsense.

[xmlenigma]

(03-08-2013 03:31 AM)Swagger Wrote:  

There is a lot of social stigma and ignorance around the Herp. Its a viral disease like many others. Also, there is no way of actually knowing if a person has it or not unless he/she admits it to you. I have a good friend who caught the virus from a one time encounter with a married housewife in India and she claimed she had only been with 2 men her entire life besides her husband. If you have been in the US with a bunch of women there is a very good chance you have already been exposed to the virus. If this is a big concern for you I would suggest you abstain from sex altogether. The idea that there is some safe haven/yoga retreat where the girls are disease free is kind of silly in my opinion. Infact, if I were to venture a guess, I would say the liberal/tree hugging/ hippie chicks who make up much of the demographic at such places who believe in free love are the ones you want to stay away from, besides there are tons of STDs such as molluscum, warts and no condom is really going to protect you there. This comes with the player lifestyle, some of us want the lifestyle but are not ready to face it's consequences. I personally go for conservative catholic women when I look for long term potential than some yoga liberal hippie nonsense.

I am not thinking so much social stigma as personal health.

Maybe I have been exposed, but I'd rather be a little careful. I know my diet is not perfect but I am a lot more AWARE and PARTICULAR about what I eat, and so on.

I am not preaching moderation to others, just a little cautionary lifestyle for myself.

I agree that a stereotype may not not safer than another. I know the free loving hippie types can be more infectious than the drunk, but I am not judging either.

Its not a checklist on hand, but I somehow instinctively have to do my "filtering". Just like with food, I cannot guarantee that its pesticide free and there are not toxins / bad effects, but I do what I can.

That last one was the most productive one for me

Maybe we all just need a few hot committed Argentine/ Brazilian girls in our lives.

[dulst]

I'm currently in 2 unfenced relationships. I met both of the girls in clubs. It isn't a case of going certain places to find a certain type of women. Plenty of "nice" women who don't drink that much go clubbing, but if you expect the women in a given venue to be the stereotypical "bar skanks" you'll subconsciously screen out all the nice girls.

The problem isn't your choice of location, it's your attitude. That said if you particularly dislike going out to clubs or bars, just go to coffeeshops instead.

But wherever you go, if you expect that the people will be cool they generally will. Attitude should always come first.

[WesternCancer]