Quick backstory. Met this girl a week ago, on a Friday night. She was very receptive, and rather aggressive, it all clicked because she was very attracted. I managed to pull her out of the club and fuck her in my car. Brought her back to meet her friends, and she took my number, told her she could text me if she wanted to.
She texted me, and she pretty much set up a booty call on the Sunday night. It was very clear, I met up with her at her home and we fucked. This time we were both sober and it was much better.
I didn't really text her throughout the week, she started conversation a couple times and asked me what I was up to when the weekend came around, but I was just very brief on responses. Today, I met up with her on pretext of 'adventure.' She said yes but made it clear I wasn't going to get lucky tonight. I said ok, unreactive.
Took her on mini adventure after hours, some trail with a waterfall. I had been there before with someone else in the past, and I really liked the place. We make out, get her back to car, shirts off, but she didn't let me proceed. Tells me we aren't having sex. I was unreactive, took a step back, tried again, and then backed off. I didn't care that much, as I was so intrigued by the situation.
We talked, and I told her I wasn't ever going to see her again, in a normal tone (not as a consequence of no sex). I said that implying that we want different things. She understood. I got the hint that she feels she wants to get to know someone better before just jumping in to casual sex all the time. I asked her about the past weekend, and I figured out she had been through a breakup from a 3 year relationship a month prior, so I was her rebound.
She's 19 and in between high school and college. Hasn't had much experience with guys, I'm assuming because of the 3 year relationship and how she just recently started going out. It is no doubt that within a short amount of time that will all change.
I just want to learn from this. I didn't let myself attach to her as I have with other girls in the past. I couldn't care less that I won't see her again.
I feel this could be either due to bad timing, just the uniqueness of the girl, or something I did wrong. Either way I want to learn from this. Is this normal to occur with a girl as I have described? If there is one thing I am disappointed by it is that I won't have her as a fuck buddy, I was trying to make her my first.
She was clear with me that she liked having me as a change, she told me things I did to her she hasn't had guys do with her in the past she really liked.
Furthermore, its a NEXT, but I am just wondering what you guys think about this. As I am relatively new, and this if the first time I have come across this.
She texted me, and she pretty much set up a booty call on the Sunday night. It was very clear, I met up with her at her home and we fucked. This time we were both sober and it was much better.
I didn't really text her throughout the week, she started conversation a couple times and asked me what I was up to when the weekend came around, but I was just very brief on responses. Today, I met up with her on pretext of 'adventure.' She said yes but made it clear I wasn't going to get lucky tonight. I said ok, unreactive.
Took her on mini adventure after hours, some trail with a waterfall. I had been there before with someone else in the past, and I really liked the place. We make out, get her back to car, shirts off, but she didn't let me proceed. Tells me we aren't having sex. I was unreactive, took a step back, tried again, and then backed off. I didn't care that much, as I was so intrigued by the situation.
We talked, and I told her I wasn't ever going to see her again, in a normal tone (not as a consequence of no sex). I said that implying that we want different things. She understood. I got the hint that she feels she wants to get to know someone better before just jumping in to casual sex all the time. I asked her about the past weekend, and I figured out she had been through a breakup from a 3 year relationship a month prior, so I was her rebound.
She's 19 and in between high school and college. Hasn't had much experience with guys, I'm assuming because of the 3 year relationship and how she just recently started going out. It is no doubt that within a short amount of time that will all change.
I just want to learn from this. I didn't let myself attach to her as I have with other girls in the past. I couldn't care less that I won't see her again.
I feel this could be either due to bad timing, just the uniqueness of the girl, or something I did wrong. Either way I want to learn from this. Is this normal to occur with a girl as I have described? If there is one thing I am disappointed by it is that I won't have her as a fuck buddy, I was trying to make her my first.
She was clear with me that she liked having me as a change, she told me things I did to her she hasn't had guys do with her in the past she really liked.
Furthermore, its a NEXT, but I am just wondering what you guys think about this. As I am relatively new, and this if the first time I have come across this.
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