bodmon: A masculine and confident frame is way more important than looks.
But guess what? If you keep letting yourself get hung up on your looks, it's almost impossible to come across as masculine and confident.
Because obsessing about looks is what women do.
Sitting around and complaining about how your looks are sabotaging you is very telling. It's not your looks that are sabotaging you, it's the fact that you have developed a complex about it.
You need to stop looking at yourself as a victim of fate who wasn't blessed with good looks and start looking at yourself as a guy who doesn't give a fuck what fate gave him and is going to take what he wants regardless.
That is the mental frame you need. Will you have to work harder than a male model? Yeah. Will you need a stronger frame? Yeah. But these are not insurmountable obstacles. You aren't blind and deaf. You aren't crippled or missing limbs. You aren't living in crushing poverty in an African village or an Indian slum. You're just not tall and great looking. Guess what, neither are most guys. And guess what else? Most tall and good looking guys are pussies with weak game. Don't get so caught up on appearances.
Your looks aren't your problem. Your inner game needs work.
But guess what? If you keep letting yourself get hung up on your looks, it's almost impossible to come across as masculine and confident.
Because obsessing about looks is what women do.
Sitting around and complaining about how your looks are sabotaging you is very telling. It's not your looks that are sabotaging you, it's the fact that you have developed a complex about it.
You need to stop looking at yourself as a victim of fate who wasn't blessed with good looks and start looking at yourself as a guy who doesn't give a fuck what fate gave him and is going to take what he wants regardless.
That is the mental frame you need. Will you have to work harder than a male model? Yeah. Will you need a stronger frame? Yeah. But these are not insurmountable obstacles. You aren't blind and deaf. You aren't crippled or missing limbs. You aren't living in crushing poverty in an African village or an Indian slum. You're just not tall and great looking. Guess what, neither are most guys. And guess what else? Most tall and good looking guys are pussies with weak game. Don't get so caught up on appearances.
Your looks aren't your problem. Your inner game needs work.
[size=8pt]"For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.”[/size] [size=7pt] - Romans 8:18[/size]