Quote: (07-16-2013 12:18 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (07-16-2013 12:13 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:
rope and ball-gag on the first date.
That has to have backfired before, right?
This move has only back fired on me once.
Many times, I have pulled toys out for the 1st or 2nd bang.
Ball-gags, dog collars, cucumbers, hand cuffs, etc.
Girls rarely have a problem with it. Of course, the "frame" I set is important. I play if off like its just good, clean, fun. Lighthearted sexual experimentation. It's important to remain calm and not get all excited like a weirdo.
I just calmly say -- "lets role play".
One time I tied a girl up on our first bang date and she loved it. She said -- "I didn't know you were so kinky".
I gave her the freedom to be kinky.
It often turns them on. Lets be honest.. Girls want to experiment sexually. They want to push boundaries. They are fascinated by it.
Do I have to mention to popularity of "50 Shades of Gray" and "The Girl with The Dragon Tattoo"..? You already know that girls love this books.
Girls want to try it.
If you present yourself properly, not like a weirdo, most girls will have no problem with it.
It makes them curious about you. They get a taste of your dark side. A combination of a little scared and a little excited. They have rape fantasies and submissive fantasies. Few men ever take them to this place.
Another girl, I tied up and put on a leash. At first, she said -- "I'm a little scared". I replied -- "thats why its fun". She loved it.
When I first started doing this stuff, I was a little worried that I might scare some girls away. Now, I think that I might scare girls away if I don't do it.
I like to offer a contrast. I am handsome, I dress well, I speak well, but behind closed doors I will do dirty, disgusting things to you. I like to play around with that contrast. I want them to love me and fear me, in a playful way.
Girls are crazy. They are followers. If we offer them a new and exciting experience, they will often enjoy trying it. They like to be reminded that they have no physical power over a man.