Hey everyone, I know this is meant more as a forum for picking up girls... but...
I have a girlfriend.
It happened like this. I had just come back from an amazing vacation, and during this vacation I had a great time, met great people, and learned more about myself. I developed an amazing sense of confidence, so when I got back to my college campus, girls were all over me. Then one night at a party I met a girl. Next day we saw each other, exchanged numbers, met up that same night, and I layed her, and I layed her well.
Right before I layed her though, I told myself that this should just be a one night stand. So much for that.
The thing is, the next day I was fine. I felt great, even more confident after bedding a good looking girl, and as I walked around campus I felt incredibly confident, and girls would eye me like they were all in heat. It was awesome. What a great time. I remember it well. Anyway, somehow, I thought in my head that since it was my last year in college, it would be good to settle with someone and focus on the LSATs.
So she happened to be there and played enough games to attract my rotten self-deprecating soul, and we ended up hanging out more and more with her.
The unfortunate thing though, was that the reason I stayed with her was that she was younger than me (I was 22, she 18), and I thought it would be cool.
Anyway, Now i've been with her for 2 years, and I hate it. She still plays games, and I can't seem to get rid of her. I am also at a point where I am a ball-less douche that can't control himself around other girls. I am horny, and I just want sex. Thanks to her, and her always readiness to engage in some hot sex, I am used to just getting it wherever whenever. Anyway...
I want to change my life. Because of her, i have given in to weakness and have given up on the LSATs, and most other things in life. I just want to have fun, and I'm living at my parent's house, and not accomplishing much in my life.
Therefore, the girl is part of the problem.
Anybody have any suggestions on how to get out of a rut, and start fresh again?
I want the excitement I had 2 years ago, but I also want to look out for the future. of #1.
How do you become confident again when you are in a hole?
I have a girlfriend.
It happened like this. I had just come back from an amazing vacation, and during this vacation I had a great time, met great people, and learned more about myself. I developed an amazing sense of confidence, so when I got back to my college campus, girls were all over me. Then one night at a party I met a girl. Next day we saw each other, exchanged numbers, met up that same night, and I layed her, and I layed her well.
Right before I layed her though, I told myself that this should just be a one night stand. So much for that.
The thing is, the next day I was fine. I felt great, even more confident after bedding a good looking girl, and as I walked around campus I felt incredibly confident, and girls would eye me like they were all in heat. It was awesome. What a great time. I remember it well. Anyway, somehow, I thought in my head that since it was my last year in college, it would be good to settle with someone and focus on the LSATs.
So she happened to be there and played enough games to attract my rotten self-deprecating soul, and we ended up hanging out more and more with her.
The unfortunate thing though, was that the reason I stayed with her was that she was younger than me (I was 22, she 18), and I thought it would be cool.
Anyway, Now i've been with her for 2 years, and I hate it. She still plays games, and I can't seem to get rid of her. I am also at a point where I am a ball-less douche that can't control himself around other girls. I am horny, and I just want sex. Thanks to her, and her always readiness to engage in some hot sex, I am used to just getting it wherever whenever. Anyway...
I want to change my life. Because of her, i have given in to weakness and have given up on the LSATs, and most other things in life. I just want to have fun, and I'm living at my parent's house, and not accomplishing much in my life.
Therefore, the girl is part of the problem.
Anybody have any suggestions on how to get out of a rut, and start fresh again?
I want the excitement I had 2 years ago, but I also want to look out for the future. of #1.
How do you become confident again when you are in a hole?