Quote: (05-26-2010 01:15 PM)clr Wrote:
Nope, I agree with most of what you said Rocco, but I lived in Colombia for a time, and have hung out in Spanish (mostly colombian) communities for the past 7 years or so here in the US, I know them quite well. You are right about the hands off thing with latinas too. Simple fact is they cheat A LOT and the men it's expected and the women hide behind, I dont want to hurt him so I will never tell, it just happened. We wont even get into the Primos! jajaja
Also I agree the best girls don't go out, you have to go to the local yearly festivals, or meet via social circles, probably even church BUT it's because those girls dont get out much that they dont cheat IMO. Obviously I am stereotyping, but its what I've seen, a culture of infidelity, and while I like to play the field I wont cheat on a GF and I dont want her cheating on me.
The other problem is the girls fall "madly in love" with EVERY BF they have. He is my life, my reason for living blah blah, next one, "he is my life, my reason for living" OVER and OVER again. They are passionate which I/we like but you do become a little jadded/ calloused.
CLR has Colombian women dead-on. I have lived in Colombia for 15 years, and have lived near Colombian neighborhoods 30 years of my life.
I completely agree with 2 things especially: Colombian women cheat just as bad as men, I would even say more than men. But, because she will NEVER tell, and lie her ass off if you asked her. I can't begin to tell you how many women with BF's and husbands I have banged. Forget about the rest of the men who have banged women teh same way I have...
I have dated a girl from Cali, Colombia for 7 years, who went from dirt poor to taking trips around the world with me as I was thinking she was "the one". After severn years, she changed - a lot. She liked the glamorous life like Sheila E sung about in 1983, and could not get enough. We broke up in 2006. She recently contacted me 6 months ago, and sent me her modeling pictures (yeah, she now models full time) in a bikini - needless to say, she looks incredible!
However, funny that she tells me (and is very passionate about it) she has not had sex with any man (or woman) in 4 years we have broken up, and I was her last guy....pppleeeeease.
See what I mean?
Every bf they have is the love of their life, and soul mate...and so is the next, and the one after that....and the 10 more after him.
After more than a decade of chasing Coombian skirts, I've had a lot of fun...but have gotten nowhere with LTR with any colombian girl. It;s awalys drama and a sick mom who needs medications paid for.
If a Colombian woman is poor, she expects you to pay for all of her problems and her families.
If a colombian woman is rich, she wants you to be richer.....or no punani for you.
CLR - PM dude...you and I have lots to talk about =)