Quote: (02-18-2013 10:25 AM)Doctordude Wrote:
Quote: (02-17-2013 08:32 AM)Roosh Wrote:
I'm in Kiev right now. My first night out was so different than Kharkov that I wanted to share my impressions:
- Girls speak English here. One night in Kiev I met more semi-fluent English speakers than three months in Kharkov. I didn't have to speak any Russian last night, but in Kharkov I had to game in Russian from my first approach.
- Girls were giving me massive eye contact. It was sustained. I rarely got this in Kharkov. (Actually right now in the coffee shop the waitress is gawking at me.)
- Having a solid backstory (like I described in Bang Ukraine) can make or break the interaction. The tv show I'm going on gave me a media handler and he would explain to the girls the situation. The girls would ask for proof and he would show his press card and I would show my American passport and it was on. Once the backstory was executed, the approach was for me to lose... but...
- Even without the wingman, I was still getting good vibes. He left early and I was in the club alone, ready for brutality, but even with a now weaker backstory (I didn't have proof) and being solo, I was getting good vibes. It would have been an easy 2 or 3 numbers to play with if I was staying.
- The sex tourist issue is moderately bad. Yeah, there were a lot of shady turks and other foreigners, but it wasn't hard to blow them out of the water. Most of them looked like bums and had no game. Unlike in Riga, I didn't feel immediately discriminated against because of my appearance, where no amount of game could overcome their negative view of foreigners.
- Being an American (and being able to prove it, lol) got a way better response last night than in Kharkov. You'd think it would be the opposite, but in Kharkov it seemed like they didn't care as much.
- Some girls were getting plastered. You don't see that much in Kharkov where girls keep it together if they're not with guys.
My instinct for those of you who read Bang Ukraine is that if you go to Kiev, it will be easier than what I describe in the book.
I am in Kiev now. I had plans of going to the DR but decided to push that back until April. I arrived in Kiev on Saturday and I am only staying for one week. Roosh, send me a message if you want to meet up tonight. I wanted to come for a week to see if it is a city to invest more time in. I am thinking one month in the summer. My initial impressions are congruent with Roosh and the other posts on this thread. I will write a more detailed post at the week end.
I met a 20 year old, self-described student and model from Kherson. I met her on Ukrainedate. We skyped for about 6 weeks and she took the 12 hour train to meet me and waited for me all day in the airport. I have not closed the deal with her. I have never spent so much time with a girl, especially foreign on a quasi-vacation and not gotten laid. She is not staying in my apartment.
I have been with this girl for the most part but I have had some time to venture out alone and I will have more time because she is leaving tomorrow. I went to Delux 1 am on Saturday night....insane talent. Lots of 8s and 9s. Despite the cold weather, I am getting lots of eye contact, even being bundled up. i think this place in the summer can be off the hook for daygame as well as night game. I have some interesting stories to report but will do so after the week is up. So far, I am thinking this will be a good place to set up shop for a month in the summer. More to come soon....
Kiev impressions continued....
My one-week in Kiev is just about over. Like most places, one week just isn't enough. My impressions should be taken into the context of a short duration of stay. Ukraine/Russia has always been a bit of a mystery for me and after one week, I still feel like it is a bit of an enigma. I don’t quite understand the rules. Whereas in South American, I felt like I caught on quickly.
I rented an apartment close to Independence Square, which is where you want to be. Taxis will be a rip-off if you don’t speak Russian. You will pay 2x-3x more than the customary price. To reduce the cost, have a Ukrainian call a taxi service for you or make an arrangement with one driver. Even still there can be problems. I had a girl arrange a taxi for me, which cost 21 hryvnia, and the driver ended up charging me 79 hryvnia because he “spoke English.” You can definitely get them down on price but being that it was 2 am and I was alone on my 3rd day, I paid. Unless, you go to Vodka Bar or Buddha Bar from Independence Square, you will need to take a taxi
As for the city, Kiev is beautiful with interesting architecture. It is not cheap but less expensive then most European capitals. Most people speak at least basic English. I would say almost everyone under 25 speaks English. The food isn’t great. It has less choices than most other European capitals. However, the Sushi is pretty good. I am not a fan of Ukrainian/Russian food.
I felt relatively safe. However, the police are corrupt and looking for an easy buck. I was stopped one night in Independence Square and asked for my passport by two cops. I was told that I was under arrest for not having my passport and needed to come to the police station to pay 1000 hryvnia. These guys seemed more nervous than I was. They were probably in their early 20s and I knew exactly what the deal was-some quick cash from a tourist. I ended up paying 200 hryvnia. I will be more prepared for this situation in the future.
I used Kiev Rent Apartments which you can book on Expedia. I paid around 60 dollars per night for a good size one bedroom. The apartment building and entrance looked seedy but inside the place was clean and nice. It was about a 5-minute walk to Independence Square. Most of the cafes had English menus. I suggest La Cantina, open 24/7 for Mexican-Italian food. Also, good breakfast. If you like vegetarian/organic food, there is a place across the street which is very good. Lots of coffee shops.
As for Touristy stuff, I did a great walking tour of the city. Even though it was cold, it was well worth it. The tour was free but you are expected to tip. I arranged a private tour with the same guide to the World War II museum. The guide spoken fluent English and was very knowledgeable. She was also very helpful in understanding Ukrainian culture and women. I would recommend her. Send me a PM if you are interested in scheduling a tour with her.
As for girls, I spend most of the first part of the trip with one girl that I met online. The rest of my time, I focused on internet dating, night game and a bit of day game. All three options are good, which makes Kiev a great place to meet women, especially if you don’t speak Russian. I found girls were very interested in why I was in Kiev. I felt like I was being cross-examined but not necessarily labeled as a sex tourist.
The best girls in this city are to be found through social circles, which for most of us is not realistic unless you invest more time. Day game will provide the best opportunity to meet “normal” beautiful women. Due to the cold and being with other girls, I had limited time for day game. But I saw the potential. Girls make solid eye contact. It is different than Colombia for example, where a girl will eye fuck you. There seems to be a curiosity in their gaze. I only did about ten approaches during the day, but I think both Indirect and Direct can be effective. Asking for directions seems the easiest and most natural. I met one a girl in a coffee shop through Indirect and made a date the following day. I did two direct approaches, similar to Krauser style and one girl complimented me on my courage and asked me for my information. If I return, Day Game will be my focus. Independence Square is ideal for this. The shopping mall underneath is good as well. Also check out the Modern Art Exhibit right next to Arena. It is free… good for day game and also a date.
I met a few girls from online dating. As I mentioned, I spent a lot of time with one in particular. All were pretty, sweet and intelligent. The girls I met were all looking for something serious.
Most of you will focus on night game, although if you have a few weeks or more, I would advise day game on the streets, metro and coffee shops.
My nightlife experiences were mixed. Nightclubs go in and out of favor depending if they allow smoking which is illegal technically but the owners bribe officials.
The popular nightclubs now are Vodka Bar, Buddha Bar, Delux, Shooters, and Decadence. There are others that I did not go to or gather too much information. All of these places have hard-core pros, semi pros. And good old fashion gold-diggers. I met the biggest gold digger of my life in Kiev. In fact, it is comical. I will share the story another time.
There are some nice “normal” girls as well. For example, Roosh met a pretty, girl next-door type. If a girl goes to one of these places more than 2x per month, I would be suspicious. For most normal girls, it is a big night out for a nightclub. Most of the cool normal girls I met love Karaoke bars. I went to one with a girl I met online. Most people are sitting in groups at a table so I wouldn’t advise going to pick up.
Decadence: good on Friday and Saturday. I have never seen so many 8s and 9s in my life except some clubs in Miami. You will see some legit models here. But as mentioned there are lots of pros. It is easy to spot, as they are very direct in their solicitation. I think picking up here is difficult, especially solo. Better to bring wing if you have one. Solo foreigners may come across as sex tourists in the high-end clubs.
Vodka Bar: central location. You can smoke there which makes it popular now. A mix of pros and normal girls. It is the only place happening on Monday night.
Shooters: 3 floors: a disco, restaurant and lounge downstairs with couches. You can smoke in the lounge and disco. It is open 24 hours, apparently. You need to go on Wednesday night for ladies night. Door for the discos opens at 12 for guys. Girls will already be there, as they get in free before 12. This a good place to pick- up. I was with a date and was approached twice but cute girls.
Buddha Bar is an upscale restaurant. After dinner hours, it turns into a lounge/bar. Lots of pros. I would not invest much time here.
Divan Bar: is a good place to grab a drink before heading to Arena which has Decadence and Skybar. Decadence is popular now but I didn’t go.
Overall, there are possibilities of meeting normal girls at bars, but I think ONS are difficult. Rolling with a wing is better and a little social validation is goes a long way.
One interesting thing about these clubs…I saw so many beautiful women being turned away from clubs. They have strong face control and if a women isn’t dressed well enough or if they don’t like her look, the girl won’t get in. Saturday night at Delux I saw 4 gorgeous women standing outside demoralized because they could not get in. Men have no trouble and there is usually a cover. Delux is about 25 bucks. I saw several cute girls get turned away at shooters. A girl won’t get turned away if she is with a guy, especially a foreigner. It was so interesting to see the roles reversed coming from NYC. I am sure one of you ambitious guys out there can come up with a method for Gaming girls who can’t get into clubs.
Overall, the women are beautiful, sexy and feminine. I found them to be intelligent, cultured and wordily. Establishing a mental connection with them is important. I don’t see them as being swayed by emotions and by in the moment lust as their Latina counterparts. A female friend explained that they are looking for either 1) money or 2) a long-term relationship. I wouldn’t expect to clean up for one-nighters here. Instead, if you want to meet a beautiful, cultured, and intelligent girl for a relationship, it is a good place to set up shop. I think ONS are possible with normal girls but not the norm. The women want to see dividends for their investment in time, emotions and body. For a normal girl, it will be a relationship.
I am giving serious consideration to returning for a month, maybe combining it with a Poland trip.