[Nascimento]

Very recently I have come to grips with the concept of the red pill. From my understanding, it is to recognize that the nature of women isn't what society implies and what we are told. Women by nature will stick around the most alpha men, and even if she is yours, it might only be temporary until she meets some other man that has something to offer that you might not.

My question is.. Is it ever possible to get in committed, lasting relationships with women? I've been hearing a lot of hate towards North American women, as a result of our feminist culture, and how they are stuck up and it is hard to satisfy them. Suppose you find a woman that clicks with you.. sex is great, she is fun to be around, and she cares for you as much if not more as you do for her. Is this only a temporary feeling? Should emotional investment from the man be avoided, because she might just leave you for another when she needs something you cannot provide?

I'm still 19 and haven't been in a relationship yet.. Am I doomed to just sticking with one night stands, fuck buddy relationships, and open no commitment relationships?

Also, and most importantly, how does having the red pill knowledge benefit us? I am having a hard time swallowing it, but I want to know how it can benefit us, in a society full of blue pill men. I want to know how I can prosper. How I can use this knowledge to meet many women, for sex and the experience of satisfying each other through attraction and experiencing that moment together.

Would be great to hear from some of the guys who have known about this for a while. How has it changed you, and how have you adapted and made it work? I feel living a life where I shouldn't in 99% of cases emotionally invest in a woman would be very difficult.. How do you accept it and make the most of it?

[Roosh]

A lot of guys here are older and have a lot of experience, and then younger guys read that and make up their mind about women, culture, etc. This is inevitable but dangerous.

Don't decide on what is truth or not until you experience it on your own. You're young---go work on your game, get laid, and have fun. Don't take what senior guys say as fact. Confirm it with your own experience.

[Matt3B]

Search for my thread a page or two back and you'll see how the red pill has changed me.

If you want to know about whether you can hold a long lasting relationship with a woman, read some of Rollo's work who is as red pill as it comes and has been married for 16 years. Rationalmale.wordpress.com

I always refer to the red pill looking more at society than just women. Knowing how things really work is beneficial to you to achieve your goals. You will learn how to "manipulate" people to get what you want, you will see off competition from others in the things you are battling for and you will improve yourself as a person in terms of physicality and mentality.

Best of all, you learn to protect yourself as a man. I can't remember who said it, I think it may have been Roissy, but being "red pill" is akin to an oak tree. You can have storms of shit around you trying to blow you from side to side but you remain firm and solid in your position.

You will stand out from the others around you and give yourself higher value. People will recognise this and more opportunities in life will present themselves to you.

[WestIndianArchie]

(02-07-2013 08:12 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  

My question is.. Is it ever possible to get in committed, lasting relationships with women?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operant_conditioning

WIA

[Samseau]

First off, read this thread:

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-2239.html

Addresses almost everything you've talked about here.

Second, when it comes to finding a good LTR, I recommend Doc Love game:

http://www.returnofkings.com/2390/the-fa...is-secrets