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(02-07-2013 05:27 PM)alphanov Wrote:  

(02-07-2013 12:17 PM)soup Wrote:  

If you do not intuitively feel the need for a one night stand, you will probably never understand it.

I smell that you are a female.

I thought justifying your actions by feelings and emotions instead of reason belonged to females. I wasn't grown up in Murica, that's all. I've banged one of your ex-pat bitches though.

There's no logic in feeling that one night stands are wrong. There is nothing to justify. You don't have to justify eating or breathing.

[alphanov]

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said ONS was wrong (ethically or whatever). I just made my purely selfish economics calculations and come to the conclusion that it's not profitable for me to purposefully pursue ONS as my regular means to get laid, unless you travel all the time.

[Christian McQueen]

For me ONS's are about the THRILL of the hunt. Walking into a club/bar meeting a new hot chick and then fucking her within hours is a rush. It's like a drug for me.

If they're a good lay and relatively cool then I'll pull them into my social circle. If not, next.

[NoBalls]

(02-08-2013 05:59 AM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

For me ONS's are about the THRILL of the hunt. Walking into a club/bar meeting a new hot chick and then fucking her within hours is a rush. It's like a drug for me.

Exactly the same feeling for me. It's especially gratifying since it happens so rarely for me. When it does happen I'm on cloud 9 for like a week.

[InsurgentMax]

(02-04-2013 11:19 PM)slubu Wrote:  

Personally, it's very rewarding to go from sitting on your couch, to saying hi to a girl you've never spoken to before, and within a few hours be having some passionate and powerful sex. The ability to go from not knowing someone to engaging them in conversation and affection to the point where they want to fuck you is addictive. Even the little things do it for me. What does her bedroom look like? Is she going to use a napkin or towel to clean up the cum? Will she want to fuck in the morning? Can I grab my phone quick enough while she's in the bathroom to +1 my friends? How does her tit fall when she lies on her back? Will she have more or less than 600 things in her bathroom? Does the cabbie give me a "way to go man" look when I get in the cab wearing a blazer and smelling of cigs and whiskey at 7am on a Wednesday?

All this is gone the 2nd, 3rd and nth time you bone a chick. In my experience, the moments before you stick it in, when you know you're going to stick it in, is euphoric.

This is an excellent way of putting it.

It's still funny to me that some guys say that anything post-bang isn't "game". Having a girl on lock, so wet and willing 24/7 is pretty sick too.

The main things that dictate when I'll leave it at ONS are logistics, hotness (sometimes you just want the lay), and her ability in the sack. If I find that she's way too reserved and boring in bed, there's no reason to see her again.

[Captain Ahab]

I think the only reason why I would hesitate with one night stands is because I am hesitant to fuck someone who may be a high risk lover.

I think it is wise to feel a girl out and make sure she is not a complete whore before going for the kill.

That said, if she hops on your dick after 15 minutes of conversation she probably isn't very healthy emotionally/sexually, unless you just so happen to be that one guy she once in a blue moon fucks after a night of drinks and dancing in the club with a random guy.

[InsurgentMax]

(02-09-2013 08:14 AM)Captain Ahab Wrote:  

That said, if she hops on your dick after 15 minutes of conversation she probably isn't very healthy emotionally/sexually, unless you just so happen to be that one guy she once in a blue moon fucks after a night of drinks and dancing in the club with a random guy.

I know we all call bullshit on a chick that pulls the "I've never done this before" thing but, maybe there is something about US reflected in the idea that we think less of a woman who sleeps with us so fast.

Lately I've been shifting my thinking when I pull a chick super fast from "Wow, she must be really slutty" to "Hey, I guess she's really into me". Say what you will about this being me deluding myself or excusing some slut's behavior, to me it's just giving someone the benefit of doubt, and thinking of myself highly and worthy of a chick wanting to bang me.

[Captain Ahab]

(02-09-2013 12:46 PM)InsurgentMax Wrote:  

(02-09-2013 08:14 AM)Captain Ahab Wrote:  

That said, if she hops on your dick after 15 minutes of conversation she probably isn't very healthy emotionally/sexually, unless you just so happen to be that one guy she once in a blue moon fucks after a night of drinks and dancing in the club with a random guy.

I know we all call bullshit on a chick that pulls the "I've never done this before" thing but, maybe there is something about US reflected in the idea that we think less of a woman who sleeps with us so fast.

Lately I've been shifting my thinking when I pull a chick super fast from "Wow, she must be really slutty" to "Hey, I guess she's really into me". Say what you will about this being me deluding myself or excusing some slut's behavior, to me it's just giving someone the benefit of doubt, and thinking of myself highly and worthy of a chick wanting to bang me.

Nah, I disagree.

A slut is a slut.

Now, I go after sluts cause they like to fuck. I prefer them to the cackle of prissy bitches that hate on sluts and stay wondering why their boyfriend cheats on them with sluts.

I think sluts understand the game and are very empowered women.

I respect sluts in that they like to bang so I see no issue in terms of viewing them negatively. U.S. society has painted a bad picture of them though, mostly do to our old school Puritan values.

[CJ]

W/o reading the previous posts due to time restraints, I'm gonna put it to you like this:

I love one night stands, because every time I target a new girl, there's that exciting new feeling. The same one you got as a little boy when you were first learning something, like riding a bike, hitting your first home run, egging your first house/car, or finally beating world 8.

I like to think of my penis as an explorer, like the great Magellan, Cortez, De Gama, or even Columbus! How big of a boner do you think Hillary got when he scaled Mount Everest? Or Armstrong when he was the FIRST known man to set foot on the moon. They didn't give a fuck if some space alien or something had been there first, they were there, it was new to them and new to their (expansive) social circles.

That's what banging a new chick is like to me. It's putting the last piece in a puzzle, doing something I've never done before (literally), learning new tricks (hopefully), making the game winning shot. I gain a sense of accomplishment for getting this new girl to succomb to my cock, the faster the better. Not because it's always just a measure of how slutty she is, but it's also a measure of my own talent. If she shows potential that first night, great make her a fuck buddy. Plus, why waste time (3 dates max) trying to get her in bed, only to find out she's awful?

Man, life is about new experiences, and we're only here for a short time, so you gotta get as many in as quick as you can. That's the way I look at one night stands.

[XXL]

It's an adventure. Who doesn't like adventures?

[Sebastian]

Don't trust what guys say on the forum.
how many times can you feel the guy is bullshitting at the bar? If someone can do that in front of others, how easy would that be with a keyboard on internet?

You saw a guy with a girl. he is not with her anymore. so you ask him where is she?
I bet 99% guys will say 'oh she is too crazy, I got rid of her' yeah right......

On the forum, you will see guys saying they bang girls regularly, all the girls he banged are too crazy OR getting into a relationship is a Beta so he dumps all of them and he keeps going out all the time.

Really? should I trust this kind of rock star life style theory?
Unless you have a serious sex addict, why would you go out if you have a chick you can bang?

What I am saying is, most guys go out regularly and he will score the bang once in a while.
After he fails to keep her, he will go out again.

[Hotwheels]

(02-09-2013 09:32 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  

Don't trust what guys say on the forum.

Oh really? Sure there may be a few guys embellishing things but not many in my opinion.

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Unless you have a serious sex addict, why would you go out if you have a chick you can bang?

"There is always something better out there" is how my mind works.

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What I am saying is, most guys go out regularly and he will score the bang once in a while.
After he fails to keep her, he will go out again.

I very rarely TRY to keep them as there is almost always something about her that turns me off. If I'm going to fuck them more than once there has to be something there to keep my interest.

After the fuck, the challenge is gone so what does she offer?

Usually not enough.

[InsurgentMax]

While I remain a steadfast proponent of dating multiple chicks casually, it's mostly because of the benefits that the abundance mentality and knowing that I can have another chick in my bed within the hour if something goes south with one brings me, NOT because of the "novelty" or adventure of picking up a new chick every week or month. I enjoy seducing new chicks as much as the next guy but I really don't see how some of you are really trying to make it sound like going out and trying to get SNLs is much more rewarding a lifestyle than Sex On Demand, from one or (better yet) multiple chicks.

Being the dude that hooks chicks so you got a nice little harem of whateverships feels fucking awesome, and in the long run takes less effort, money and time to pull off. And hell, you might even get to experience some good emotions while you're at it.

I get it. Increasing the notch count or getting a new flag feels pretty good. But it feels pretty empty to me if like Hotwheels I really don't see it going anywhere. Unless I'm in a terrible dry spell, or need to refresh from a chick that's left, I rarely will hook up with a chick that doesn't offer at least some sort of interesting opening (hah!) for a fling to develop. Totally get what you mean Hotwheels but don't you think that figuring out a pattern of banging all these chicks that in your own words "turn you off" maybe says something about who you're targeting? To me, sex and relationships, it's all a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you look for what's good in women, you'll find more and more good women, and I'll take a few months of casual sex with a few good women over 20-30 ONS any day. Dating chicks can be quite fun and adventurous too.

[Hotwheels]

It's not just broads I don't get along well with.

It's most everyone.

Occasionally I do run into a girl that things develop with. As I said above, "almost always something about her turns me off." Not every one, just the vast majority.

My personality is such that I do not care to be around other people a lot and I get along well with very few people in person. When I am after something I am very charming and persuasive.

After I get what I want I am cold and off putting. I do what I want when I want and hate schedules and dealing with someone else's life.

It's just how I am.

[InsurgentMax]

As long as you're getting what you want, that's why we're all here! Cheers.

[Sargon of Akkad]

I concur with what most the others have said above.

What I enjoy about one night stands is the novelty factor. There's something about banging a new girl, knowing that you just gone from saying 'hello' for the first time and undressing her within a timespan of an hour, if even that much -- not to mention the anticipation that comes shortly before.

The opposite, namely having the same sex with the same woman every night, is what I hate about long term, monogamous relaitonships. They're pretty much like watching the same movie every night, over and over again. No matter how much of a fan you are of that movie, it's going to get boring once after a while.

I don't see how I would ever settle down for more than a year.