I'm a super newbie to the game, but consider myself lucky for having good looks and a career going for me. What has been working well for me is 60's advice on physical escalation early on, and always winning the tension battles. My shortcoming is that I'm shallow and refuse to just go for the low hanging fruit. I'm 10-12 approaches in after a couple weeks because of my shyness/shallowness, but I had a thought I wanted to share about my time as a newbie and the hard times I'm experiencing early on.
It's so much like building a business.. most difficult and discouraging in the beginning, but I recognize the feeling, and that reinforces my confidence that my toils and efforts will eventually be rewarded. After two weeks I have achieved zero bangs, only number closing. My shyness is slowly melting off and 60 helped me out with that one. I got two numbers from hotties this past weekend which I am following up on using roosh's text guide.
The first girl (friday night) was very interested in me and we talked for a while at the bar, when I told her I had to leave she was visibly disappointed and looking back on it I was dumb because I could have probably isolated her and started making out. But my game is still noob and I'm learning as I go along. I sent the first text last night and she responds immediately. I text her back 30 minutes later saying we should hangout later this week.. no response since.
I'm frustrated and disappointed. The old me would have probably texted back a couple times by now as well as attempt to call her up. Perhaps I am in denial, but today I realized that the interaction may not be over, and that this is most likely yet another shit test from a chick: Waiting to see if I will give in and send another text out of desperation - lowering my value and killing any hopes for the future. My prediction is that she will never text back, and I will instead have to reboot the conversation another time.
What I've learned is that everything is a test leading up to the bang, just like in business - everything is a test until you start making money. And even after you achieve the bang, you will still be tested, only your sexual frustration won't be anything like it was before getting laid. This is my newbie wisdom after two weeks of hard game and zero fucks.
It's so much like building a business.. most difficult and discouraging in the beginning, but I recognize the feeling, and that reinforces my confidence that my toils and efforts will eventually be rewarded. After two weeks I have achieved zero bangs, only number closing. My shyness is slowly melting off and 60 helped me out with that one. I got two numbers from hotties this past weekend which I am following up on using roosh's text guide.
The first girl (friday night) was very interested in me and we talked for a while at the bar, when I told her I had to leave she was visibly disappointed and looking back on it I was dumb because I could have probably isolated her and started making out. But my game is still noob and I'm learning as I go along. I sent the first text last night and she responds immediately. I text her back 30 minutes later saying we should hangout later this week.. no response since.
I'm frustrated and disappointed. The old me would have probably texted back a couple times by now as well as attempt to call her up. Perhaps I am in denial, but today I realized that the interaction may not be over, and that this is most likely yet another shit test from a chick: Waiting to see if I will give in and send another text out of desperation - lowering my value and killing any hopes for the future. My prediction is that she will never text back, and I will instead have to reboot the conversation another time.
What I've learned is that everything is a test leading up to the bang, just like in business - everything is a test until you start making money. And even after you achieve the bang, you will still be tested, only your sexual frustration won't be anything like it was before getting laid. This is my newbie wisdom after two weeks of hard game and zero fucks.
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