Quote: (02-07-2013 07:56 AM)bojangles Wrote:
where are you working lad? me and MattC both work in Financial town
Hey Bo, pleased to make your acquaintance. I’m near Liverpool St although I’ve been in Canary Wharf for a week.
So I’ve approach her outside her office while she’s having a smoke. My vibe is that of a casual, light hearted, sociable, sexy guy, who at some point during the conversation realises how interesting/fun she is. After some subtle DHV and light eye fucking, her IOIs start pouring in, attraction is built and we exchange numbers.
Some days or sometimes weeks later. Oh did I mention how busy I am. Anyway, sometime later when I’m bored/stood up/horny, I scroll down my phone and see her number along with 4 or five others.
In the past I would just text them all something like… Hey Delilah, its Samson, how about a hair cut! Or Hey Eve, it’s Adam, got any apples?
Only joking, Bible texting is a sin.
It would probably be more like… Hey you its me (insert names) Are you still (insert joke) How about we hook up for (insert activity)?
For the ones that were really into me this is normally fine but then almost anything would be. Nonetheless they will all be rewarded with the H.I.M. experience (insert lucky bitches).
Conversely, the ones that have just got back with their exs or found another cock to spin on or just got wrapped up in one of the thousand pointless dramas that female flesh is heir to, chances are no text would have work.
Alas, these girls are going to miss out on the H.I.M experience (insert unlucky bitches)
I have no problem with these girls as I just see its as pay back for me being so lazy. I mean busy.
However its has also become quite common for a girl to give her number to a guy she is attracted to even though she is, to all intents and purposes, unavailable. The attention junky in her, can’t seem to resist the validation hit of an attractive guy wanting her, even though she had no intention of replying to any text.
The problem with the “hi you, its me, lets fuck” text, is that she gets her fix without having to invest. And as any self-respecting drug dealer/PUA will tell you, that is always bad for business.
There are also some (and these are the ones of interest here) that were attracted during the pick up but now just need a little extra push in the right direction.
So what
is the optimum text opener in this situation?
In my opinion, and it is just an opinion, I think that the ideal opening text would contain these four prerequisites.
a) It should make it as easy as possible for her to reengage.
b) It must reignite the interest and vibe of the initial pull.
c) It should contain the minimum of investment/validation.
d) It should encourage her to work/invest.
With a some trial and error I have found the following to be the most effective opening text strategy
for me.
First I just send them a simple sunset photo.
The girls that are strongly into me will normally text me back within the hour something like: “that’s nice where is it”?
From there its normally easy to arrange a meet.
After a couple of hours I’ll send all the none responders this text:
So here’s the question. When you looked at this photo, did you see:
a) A Sunset?
b) A Sunrise?
Girls love games and almost always text back, even if its just “
a” or “
b”.
No matter, contact is established and I‘m making her work.
My next move is to send all the ones that said
“a” this text:
“Cool, people that see a sunset are usually romantic. Would you say that you are romantic“?
Girls seem to find this stuff very difficult to resist and will always answer in the affirmative. Often giving reasons why they think they are romantic.
Before they know it, they are validating themselves with me in the position of judge and jury.
As for the ones that answer “
b” I just send them this text:
“Cool, people that see a sunrise are normally very optimistic. Would you say that you are optimistic“?
Of course this text strategy may be working for me just because it chimes with my day game vibe.
I’d be interested to know if it works for anyone else.